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What is the name of your complaint?
Anxiety
When did the complaint begin?
I can't even remember, but I'd say in my early teens.
Where is it located?
It feels like a tight ball in my chest, below the sternum.
What sort of sensations (or emotions) do you associate with it?
Sensation may or may not be painful
Tightness, sometimes feel like it causes me to restrict my breathing. I'll notice my breathing and the need to take a deep breath. It feels like a constant low hum of tension/anxiety in the background all day. A lot of times I'm able to ignore it, but it seems like it's always there. I notice it most at times where I really want to relax.
Does anything make it better or worse?
Sometimes I have moments, like when my son is nursing, where I'll get a feeling of well-being that overrides the anxiety, but mostly it sems like it's always there. As for worse, anything that causes me anxiety, like money worries, or illness in my children, or worries about my husband's work, will make it worse.
How does it bother you? How does it affect your day-to-day life?
Mostly I think it interferes with my ability to enjoy life, because it's like I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. I can never just BE in the moment, I'm always thinking ahead to what might happen next. I'm too tense to just BE and relax and unwind.
How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s? What are your feelings about being a person with this kind of complaint
I feel like it must be something I'm doing wrong, that I'm being silly for being so tense when nothing is apparently wrong, why can't I just relax? I feel angry that I have to deal with it.
Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
Not outright, no. I think it started as a child, being the sick one--getting frequent bladder infections. I used to get them very often. I'd get better for a little while, then get hit with another one, have to go to the doctor (embarrassing having to describe what hurt and made me nervous being touched and prodded), get antibiotics, be hurting for days, then get better for a little while again and then all over again. Never able to be fully 100% well all the time. I believe the frequency decreased dramatically after around age 10 when my mom learned about natural remedies, and did garlic, cranberry, acidophilus, etc instead, which helped me heal up faster and not get infections as often. I always had to be careful though, and not eat too much sugar or drink too much juice, or I'd start to get another one. Seems too like the pain I would feel with a bladder infection was just a pain I could not deal with. I can handle a headache or a stubbed toe or what have you--I've also birthed two babies with no pain meds. But the bladder infection pain just is so crippling.
Anyway, I could see as a child how everyone worried over me, and how I made everyone tense, and I felt guilty being the one causing all that around me.
I also recall (and my mom told me as well), as a young child, going to the hospital to get diagnosed as to what was wrong with me (this was when they first found out about my kidney problem and the infections). They had to take me away from my mom, and I remember being in the hospital room and seeing her face in a little square window. I don't remember anything else, but apparently they did an intravenous pyelogram (with dye). They tried to do a voiding one, but I wouldn't cooperate with that.
What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint.
It seems to be something that was always there, so I'm not sure on that one, aside from the bladder infections. I started getting headaches sometime in my teens, that seemed migraine-like, where darkness helped and something cool on my head.
What are your reactions to it? I don't like it. I resent it. I feel sort of trapped by it. How do you manage it? I usually manage it by ignoring it. If I'm not thinking about it, it's not so depressing to feel so stuck with it.
When does it tend to occur?(time/day/other event) It seems to be constant, but I notice it more in the quiet times of the day, where I'm more alone with my thoughts. I like having quiet time, but I can't enjoy it like I'd like to, because I can ignore the anxiety better if I'm busy. I guess I feel best if I am busy being productive, because then my body is in motion and I'm using the energy from the anxiety in a positive way. But when I slow down, I'm still tense and feel bad inside because I can't relax and just be happy. I feel like something bad might happen.
What is the name of your complaint?
Depression (in the form of feeling anti-social, apathetic, worthless, tense, and irritable).
When did the complaint begin?
I'm not sure. It seems like it really made an appearance in my early 20s when my parents divorced, but I've always felt like I've been a low-energy kind of person---needing more sleep than the average person, not liking exercise, being worn out by socialization, being a loner, lonely, etc.
Where is it located? I'm not sure. It seems to be connected to the anxiety feeling in the pit of my stomach/chest.
What sort of sensations (or emotions) do you associate with it? Sensation may or may not be painful
Sensation of being uncomfortable with myself. I feel like I'm all wrong. That I'm broken, or I must have done something very wrong. I do feel like, as growing up, being the sick one, that I felt there must be something wrong with me as a child. I was always the burden, always the one having to be cared for (I'm very independent and don't like to need anything from anybody). I didn't like that role. I wanted to be strong, to not need anybody, but I was weak, dependent. I didn't like being weak. I still don't. There was something wrong with me---all my life, I have never been able to accomplish what I have wanted. It's always been out of reach. Even now (especially now), I feel what I want is all the more out of reach. I still have hope, but the depression sets in when it seems very far away.
Does anything make it better or worse?
It seems to get better when I feel I have a chance to do something that would make me feel like I'm moving toward a goal or an accomplishment. My goals have changed over the course of my life, but currently my goal is to end up living somewhere where I can not have to depend on anybody for anything--not even doctors for medicine. But to rely on myself and my smarts to do what I need to do. I suppose that's somewhat unrealistic. But it would be so wonderful to me, to be safe finally, not to have to rely on anyone.
As for worse, it gets worse when I have something that makes me feel like I'm never going to get anywhere in life, where I'm going to be stuck forever. So if my husband applies for a high-paying job, I get happier, but then if he never hears back about it, then I feel worse.
Also, not getting enough sleep makes it worse---which stinks because I haven't really gotten more than a few good nights' sleep in the last 4 1/2 years (since my oldest was born).
Something that made it worse in recent history was having that miscarriage 2+ years ago. It also made the anxiety worse, because if that baby could die, then what could happen to me or my family?
How does it bother you? How does it affect your day-to-day life? It bothers me because it saps my energy, makes me feel like I am a drag for everyone around me, makes me feel like I'm a bad mom, that I'm hurting my kids and their future. It makes me feel useless and worthless, and that my friends must wonder what is wrong with me that I can't just call them on a regular basis or that I might go a long time between get-togethers.
How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s? What are your feelings about being a person with this kind of complaint
I feel like a social misfit, like I am a broken piece of society, that I don't fit in, that I'm just going nowhere, that I shouldn't have been born.
Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
I feel like it must have been under the surface for a long time as a child, but it came to a head when my parents divorced after my mom found out my dad was cheating on her, in my early 20s. It felt like my world had fallen apart. I wasn't 100% secure in my dad's love for me, and then when I found out he had been cheating on my mom for a long time (we think possibly 5 years prior to her finding out), I felt like it was all fake--any happy feelings I'd had growing up, the feeling of being a family, Christmases, it was all a sham. I felt like he lied to all of us, to me. He was a traitor. And I felt like he must never have loved me at all. It was fake.
What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint. Headaches, seemed to increase around that time in my life. Feeling so physically tired. Needing to have at least 10 hours of sleep a night to be OK the next day. Although I normally liked a lot of sleep, I felt like I worried about my sleep more, I felt fragile, like I had to be extra careful or I'd fall apart.
What are your reactions to it? How do you manage it? I try to push through it a lot, but then sort of hit a wall after awhile where I just get tired of fighting and just be a blob for the day. Then I feel disgusted with myself afterwards, and don't really feel better.
When does it tend to occur?(time/day/other event) Seems worse around my cycles. Used to be during my period it was the worst, but after having my second son, now the PMS symptoms are around ovulation. Which in a way is handy, I suppose, because I can really predict it easily, as we are using the rhythm method for birth control (no hormones anymore).
Mental/emotional Sphere:
1. What issues are bothering you the most at the moment? Describe each one and your emotions and thoughts about it.
Right now, mostly what's bothering me is the not feeling like doing anything or going anywhere. I don't feel so deeply depressed as before, just sort of apathetic, so it's annoying to be feeling relatively better but still feel like a blob. I feel like I am my own block to a happier life--that if I could just get it together, I could shake things up and make a better life for us.
Also the lack of sex drive. I think the sex drive has been mostly dead for about a year and a half, barring a few infrequent upswings. It makes me feel both pressured and guilty---pressured because I know my husband is in the mood pretty much at any given moment (or so it feels), but then I'm never interested, so I feel guilty because I know it's no fun getting turned down over and over.
2. What are you reacting to the most at the moment? What are you finding you are more sensitive to? My son's current fever really makes me feel anxious and frustrated. I want to make him all better, but it seems nothing I do or try ever helps, and I feel like I can't move forward in life without being able to sleep better.
My older son seems to annoy me at times, because I want to help figure him out too, and he is so closed about what he's really feeling. Plus he seems to not want to even pay attention when we talk--his mind is always a million miles away. I thought he was going to be more like me, and I thought that would mean we'd connect more, but it seems we can't hardly connect at all.
3. Have your anxieties or fears changed at all? Is anything different provoking anxiety in you or is it something that has always done so but in a different way? I think it's more variations on a theme. Health and wealth is what it all boils down to, being concerned about them both. I also feel afraid that even if I do acheive my dreams, I will still be as unhappy as I am now.
The recent Ebola news in the US is scaring me too. I want to gather herbs to help have a way to try to combat it if it ends up spreading to our area, but I can't afford to buy them. So I just have to hope that if it does come here, that by that time I'd be able to buy herbs, or by that time we'd have been able to move up to Alaska like we want to do.
4. What are you tending to do at the moment to 'de-stress'? What are you finding you must do to give yourself some enjoyment or pleasure? Mostly for stress I just zone out on the computer. Having a little social interaction about topics I'm interested in (I'm on an herbal group online) helps me feel like I'm at least learning something, or moving forward in a small way toward what I want in the future. As for pleasure, I don't really have time to think about that. I steal moments during the day to read up on things that interest me on the computer, but I don't ever get time to just do what I want to do, really. At least, not often enough to be able to plan for it.
5. Have your thoughts about things changed at all? Do you notice you have a different attitude, to everything or to specific things?
I feel like there's some improvement as far as, I feel more like I want to make plans for the future and map it all out, maybe feel more like I have a future that I can see more clearly. At least, what I'd like it to be is more clear. I feel like the spiritual aspect of things is starting to budge a little. I felt really, really stuck with that for a long time. But it seems like I have a little more hope about it and don't feel like it's such a dead end anymore. I feel like I might get out of the hole I'm in.
6. Where do you feel most stuck at the moment? What feels like it is resisting change? Where do you feel most blocked or obstructed? What feels like must happen to alter that? I feel like I have a bit more of a desire or hope or aspiration to better things, but I feel like I'm no closer to reaching my goals. I feel I have no way of making anything happen in my life. That I'm stuck living whatever life is already laid out for me. I can't break out of it. I have no idea what needs to happen--I feel like if anything were to be able to be different now, I would have to turn back the clock and re-write pretty much all of my history, childhood and all. I think I would need different parents.
7. What sort of changes have occurred in your relationships with people? I have pulled further away from my mom and my sister. I feel like the more I learn about alternative healing through homeopathy and herbs, and the more I find my own way with spirituality, the less I have in common with them. I used to be a lot closer to them, or think that once I got my spirituality in order, I'd be back in line with them. But the more time moves forward, the less I think I will fit with them at all. They're both going forward with their lives, and I am moving in a different direction. I feel like I'm going to be pulling up stakes, figuratively and literally, with friends and family. I don't feel like I want to spend time with them because I don't want to live here, anyway, and the less I am connected to them, the better.
8. Have your dreams changed at all? What kind of things are occurring in them? Are there any repeating images, events or feelings? Seems like my dreams are more normal for me, in that I tend to dream vividly about what I've been thinking about and feeling throughout the day. Seemed like for awhile, earlier on in Kody's little life, my dreams were a little behind, and had to catch up to where they were from the current day. For example, last night Kody had a fever, and I was worried about him. I dreamed that our family was on a cruise ship, and I was sitting in one room with my husband and older son. Then realized Kody wasn't there, and went looking for him. I found him in the next room, sitting up in bed just staring at the TV. I felt bad because he had been alone for so long. Then I saw that his face looked like he had bumps breaking out on it, and across his forehead and upper face it looked like a hemorrhagic rash (after reading about Ebola yesterday). Then I freaked out, and was trying to show my husband but he wasn't paying attention. The ship's doctor stopped by, but didn't seem overly concerned and just wanted to give him Tylenol for his fever. Of course! Story of Kody's life, with doctors anyway.
I also dreamed we were packing to move to Alaska, preparing everything. So--long story short, seems my dreams are what I would normally expect, a little easier to read, I think. They make more sense in the context of my day-to-day inner thoughts.
9. Overall, what is the difference now between how you were prior to the last remedy and now?
Prior to taking the Nat-Mur, I felt like things were maybe tentatively going OK, but still not as great as I wanted them to be. My sex drive had gotten tiny bit of a boost. But I felt like I was still antisocial and didn't feel like going out of the house or doing anything and felt bad for my kids being cooped up all the time.
As it stands now, I think I'm a little bit worse off compared to prior to the Nat-mur. Sex drive really bottomed out, constipation is coming back a bit, feeling more anxious about health concerns and feeling like I just don't have any energy to do much of anything. Yet, still wanting to get those things done (chores, goals, etc), so feeling aggravated at my shortcomings when I know what I want to accomplish but feel I just can't muster up the wherewithal to do it. I feel like after Nat-Mur, I am more confronted with my own inadequacies, they seem more glaring to me, as if I'm taking a hard look at myself and I really don't like what I see.
General Sphere:
Please note any changes in the following areas. Changes may be i) New symptoms ii) Old symptoms that have reappeared iii) Current symptoms with some features altered iv) Current symptoms that are worse in some way
1. Sleep --I can't tell if it's any better or worse. I feel a lot more tired through the day and I don't know if that's from Kody, or if it's me. I just want to fall into bed in the evening, but I have to wait several hours later until Kody is ready to go to sleep.
2. Appetite --So-so. I'd say maybe a teensy bit worse, as in old symptoms reasserting themselves, nothing new.
3. Thirst ---Seems like I am not as thirsty as I should be, or like I can tell my mouth is dry but don't really feel the desire to drink as much as normal. This seems new, but seems to be related to just feeling apathetic overall. I end up drinking a lot before bed, because it hits me all of a sudden, and then have to wake up to pee and feel thirsty again at that time.
4. Bowel function --constipation is reappearing, after having what I felt like was ideal function prior to taking Nat-Mur.
5. Bladder function--Seems the same.
6. Sweat--Noticed a bit of night sweats after not having any problem with them prior to taking Nat-M.
7. Sexuality --Either it's worse than before the Nat-M, or I'm just comparing it to my husband's increased drive (since starting the Lac-E) and finding it sadly lacking.
8. Menses --this cycle, I'm having an especially long one. Prior to the remedy, I was having relatively short cycles (as compared to normal prior to Kody's birth), generally only about 3 or 4 days total from start to finish. Now, I think it's been about 5 days (not sure how many exactly), and it's still going steady. So, a bit more like pre-Kody normal for me on that one.
9. Environmental sensitivity--I'm not sure if this means sensitivity to emotional environment, or to weather and dust and things like that. Either way, I feel like there's no change to report here.
Also, I did want to mention on my husband's thread, that I thought the back pain was new since this past weekend, but he told me it's been going on for several weeks now. I think it just got worse toward the end of last week, so I was noticing it more. He tends to try to not show it if he's in pain, so he was probably just able to keep it to himself before.
If it's easier, I can put this back over on his post. Would you advise any change? It is interfering with his day-to-day life.
What is the name of your complaint?
Anxiety
When did the complaint begin?
I can't even remember, but I'd say in my early teens.
Where is it located?
It feels like a tight ball in my chest, below the sternum.
What sort of sensations (or emotions) do you associate with it?
Sensation may or may not be painful
Tightness, sometimes feel like it causes me to restrict my breathing. I'll notice my breathing and the need to take a deep breath. It feels like a constant low hum of tension/anxiety in the background all day. A lot of times I'm able to ignore it, but it seems like it's always there. I notice it most at times where I really want to relax.
Does anything make it better or worse?
Sometimes I have moments, like when my son is nursing, where I'll get a feeling of well-being that overrides the anxiety, but mostly it sems like it's always there. As for worse, anything that causes me anxiety, like money worries, or illness in my children, or worries about my husband's work, will make it worse.
How does it bother you? How does it affect your day-to-day life?
Mostly I think it interferes with my ability to enjoy life, because it's like I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. I can never just BE in the moment, I'm always thinking ahead to what might happen next. I'm too tense to just BE and relax and unwind.
How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s? What are your feelings about being a person with this kind of complaint
I feel like it must be something I'm doing wrong, that I'm being silly for being so tense when nothing is apparently wrong, why can't I just relax? I feel angry that I have to deal with it.
Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
Not outright, no. I think it started as a child, being the sick one--getting frequent bladder infections. I used to get them very often. I'd get better for a little while, then get hit with another one, have to go to the doctor (embarrassing having to describe what hurt and made me nervous being touched and prodded), get antibiotics, be hurting for days, then get better for a little while again and then all over again. Never able to be fully 100% well all the time. I believe the frequency decreased dramatically after around age 10 when my mom learned about natural remedies, and did garlic, cranberry, acidophilus, etc instead, which helped me heal up faster and not get infections as often. I always had to be careful though, and not eat too much sugar or drink too much juice, or I'd start to get another one. Seems too like the pain I would feel with a bladder infection was just a pain I could not deal with. I can handle a headache or a stubbed toe or what have you--I've also birthed two babies with no pain meds. But the bladder infection pain just is so crippling.
Anyway, I could see as a child how everyone worried over me, and how I made everyone tense, and I felt guilty being the one causing all that around me.
I also recall (and my mom told me as well), as a young child, going to the hospital to get diagnosed as to what was wrong with me (this was when they first found out about my kidney problem and the infections). They had to take me away from my mom, and I remember being in the hospital room and seeing her face in a little square window. I don't remember anything else, but apparently they did an intravenous pyelogram (with dye). They tried to do a voiding one, but I wouldn't cooperate with that.
What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint.
It seems to be something that was always there, so I'm not sure on that one, aside from the bladder infections. I started getting headaches sometime in my teens, that seemed migraine-like, where darkness helped and something cool on my head.
What are your reactions to it? I don't like it. I resent it. I feel sort of trapped by it. How do you manage it? I usually manage it by ignoring it. If I'm not thinking about it, it's not so depressing to feel so stuck with it.
When does it tend to occur?(time/day/other event) It seems to be constant, but I notice it more in the quiet times of the day, where I'm more alone with my thoughts. I like having quiet time, but I can't enjoy it like I'd like to, because I can ignore the anxiety better if I'm busy. I guess I feel best if I am busy being productive, because then my body is in motion and I'm using the energy from the anxiety in a positive way. But when I slow down, I'm still tense and feel bad inside because I can't relax and just be happy. I feel like something bad might happen.
What is the name of your complaint?
Depression (in the form of feeling anti-social, apathetic, worthless, tense, and irritable).
When did the complaint begin?
I'm not sure. It seems like it really made an appearance in my early 20s when my parents divorced, but I've always felt like I've been a low-energy kind of person---needing more sleep than the average person, not liking exercise, being worn out by socialization, being a loner, lonely, etc.
Where is it located? I'm not sure. It seems to be connected to the anxiety feeling in the pit of my stomach/chest.
What sort of sensations (or emotions) do you associate with it? Sensation may or may not be painful
Sensation of being uncomfortable with myself. I feel like I'm all wrong. That I'm broken, or I must have done something very wrong. I do feel like, as growing up, being the sick one, that I felt there must be something wrong with me as a child. I was always the burden, always the one having to be cared for (I'm very independent and don't like to need anything from anybody). I didn't like that role. I wanted to be strong, to not need anybody, but I was weak, dependent. I didn't like being weak. I still don't. There was something wrong with me---all my life, I have never been able to accomplish what I have wanted. It's always been out of reach. Even now (especially now), I feel what I want is all the more out of reach. I still have hope, but the depression sets in when it seems very far away.
Does anything make it better or worse?
It seems to get better when I feel I have a chance to do something that would make me feel like I'm moving toward a goal or an accomplishment. My goals have changed over the course of my life, but currently my goal is to end up living somewhere where I can not have to depend on anybody for anything--not even doctors for medicine. But to rely on myself and my smarts to do what I need to do. I suppose that's somewhat unrealistic. But it would be so wonderful to me, to be safe finally, not to have to rely on anyone.
As for worse, it gets worse when I have something that makes me feel like I'm never going to get anywhere in life, where I'm going to be stuck forever. So if my husband applies for a high-paying job, I get happier, but then if he never hears back about it, then I feel worse.
Also, not getting enough sleep makes it worse---which stinks because I haven't really gotten more than a few good nights' sleep in the last 4 1/2 years (since my oldest was born).
Something that made it worse in recent history was having that miscarriage 2+ years ago. It also made the anxiety worse, because if that baby could die, then what could happen to me or my family?
How does it bother you? How does it affect your day-to-day life? It bothers me because it saps my energy, makes me feel like I am a drag for everyone around me, makes me feel like I'm a bad mom, that I'm hurting my kids and their future. It makes me feel useless and worthless, and that my friends must wonder what is wrong with me that I can't just call them on a regular basis or that I might go a long time between get-togethers.
How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s? What are your feelings about being a person with this kind of complaint
I feel like a social misfit, like I am a broken piece of society, that I don't fit in, that I'm just going nowhere, that I shouldn't have been born.
Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
I feel like it must have been under the surface for a long time as a child, but it came to a head when my parents divorced after my mom found out my dad was cheating on her, in my early 20s. It felt like my world had fallen apart. I wasn't 100% secure in my dad's love for me, and then when I found out he had been cheating on my mom for a long time (we think possibly 5 years prior to her finding out), I felt like it was all fake--any happy feelings I'd had growing up, the feeling of being a family, Christmases, it was all a sham. I felt like he lied to all of us, to me. He was a traitor. And I felt like he must never have loved me at all. It was fake.
What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint. Headaches, seemed to increase around that time in my life. Feeling so physically tired. Needing to have at least 10 hours of sleep a night to be OK the next day. Although I normally liked a lot of sleep, I felt like I worried about my sleep more, I felt fragile, like I had to be extra careful or I'd fall apart.
What are your reactions to it? How do you manage it? I try to push through it a lot, but then sort of hit a wall after awhile where I just get tired of fighting and just be a blob for the day. Then I feel disgusted with myself afterwards, and don't really feel better.
When does it tend to occur?(time/day/other event) Seems worse around my cycles. Used to be during my period it was the worst, but after having my second son, now the PMS symptoms are around ovulation. Which in a way is handy, I suppose, because I can really predict it easily, as we are using the rhythm method for birth control (no hormones anymore).
Mental/emotional Sphere:
1. What issues are bothering you the most at the moment? Describe each one and your emotions and thoughts about it.
Right now, mostly what's bothering me is the not feeling like doing anything or going anywhere. I don't feel so deeply depressed as before, just sort of apathetic, so it's annoying to be feeling relatively better but still feel like a blob. I feel like I am my own block to a happier life--that if I could just get it together, I could shake things up and make a better life for us.
Also the lack of sex drive. I think the sex drive has been mostly dead for about a year and a half, barring a few infrequent upswings. It makes me feel both pressured and guilty---pressured because I know my husband is in the mood pretty much at any given moment (or so it feels), but then I'm never interested, so I feel guilty because I know it's no fun getting turned down over and over.
2. What are you reacting to the most at the moment? What are you finding you are more sensitive to? My son's current fever really makes me feel anxious and frustrated. I want to make him all better, but it seems nothing I do or try ever helps, and I feel like I can't move forward in life without being able to sleep better.
My older son seems to annoy me at times, because I want to help figure him out too, and he is so closed about what he's really feeling. Plus he seems to not want to even pay attention when we talk--his mind is always a million miles away. I thought he was going to be more like me, and I thought that would mean we'd connect more, but it seems we can't hardly connect at all.
3. Have your anxieties or fears changed at all? Is anything different provoking anxiety in you or is it something that has always done so but in a different way? I think it's more variations on a theme. Health and wealth is what it all boils down to, being concerned about them both. I also feel afraid that even if I do acheive my dreams, I will still be as unhappy as I am now.
The recent Ebola news in the US is scaring me too. I want to gather herbs to help have a way to try to combat it if it ends up spreading to our area, but I can't afford to buy them. So I just have to hope that if it does come here, that by that time I'd be able to buy herbs, or by that time we'd have been able to move up to Alaska like we want to do.
4. What are you tending to do at the moment to 'de-stress'? What are you finding you must do to give yourself some enjoyment or pleasure? Mostly for stress I just zone out on the computer. Having a little social interaction about topics I'm interested in (I'm on an herbal group online) helps me feel like I'm at least learning something, or moving forward in a small way toward what I want in the future. As for pleasure, I don't really have time to think about that. I steal moments during the day to read up on things that interest me on the computer, but I don't ever get time to just do what I want to do, really. At least, not often enough to be able to plan for it.
5. Have your thoughts about things changed at all? Do you notice you have a different attitude, to everything or to specific things?
I feel like there's some improvement as far as, I feel more like I want to make plans for the future and map it all out, maybe feel more like I have a future that I can see more clearly. At least, what I'd like it to be is more clear. I feel like the spiritual aspect of things is starting to budge a little. I felt really, really stuck with that for a long time. But it seems like I have a little more hope about it and don't feel like it's such a dead end anymore. I feel like I might get out of the hole I'm in.
6. Where do you feel most stuck at the moment? What feels like it is resisting change? Where do you feel most blocked or obstructed? What feels like must happen to alter that? I feel like I have a bit more of a desire or hope or aspiration to better things, but I feel like I'm no closer to reaching my goals. I feel I have no way of making anything happen in my life. That I'm stuck living whatever life is already laid out for me. I can't break out of it. I have no idea what needs to happen--I feel like if anything were to be able to be different now, I would have to turn back the clock and re-write pretty much all of my history, childhood and all. I think I would need different parents.
7. What sort of changes have occurred in your relationships with people? I have pulled further away from my mom and my sister. I feel like the more I learn about alternative healing through homeopathy and herbs, and the more I find my own way with spirituality, the less I have in common with them. I used to be a lot closer to them, or think that once I got my spirituality in order, I'd be back in line with them. But the more time moves forward, the less I think I will fit with them at all. They're both going forward with their lives, and I am moving in a different direction. I feel like I'm going to be pulling up stakes, figuratively and literally, with friends and family. I don't feel like I want to spend time with them because I don't want to live here, anyway, and the less I am connected to them, the better.
8. Have your dreams changed at all? What kind of things are occurring in them? Are there any repeating images, events or feelings? Seems like my dreams are more normal for me, in that I tend to dream vividly about what I've been thinking about and feeling throughout the day. Seemed like for awhile, earlier on in Kody's little life, my dreams were a little behind, and had to catch up to where they were from the current day. For example, last night Kody had a fever, and I was worried about him. I dreamed that our family was on a cruise ship, and I was sitting in one room with my husband and older son. Then realized Kody wasn't there, and went looking for him. I found him in the next room, sitting up in bed just staring at the TV. I felt bad because he had been alone for so long. Then I saw that his face looked like he had bumps breaking out on it, and across his forehead and upper face it looked like a hemorrhagic rash (after reading about Ebola yesterday). Then I freaked out, and was trying to show my husband but he wasn't paying attention. The ship's doctor stopped by, but didn't seem overly concerned and just wanted to give him Tylenol for his fever. Of course! Story of Kody's life, with doctors anyway.
I also dreamed we were packing to move to Alaska, preparing everything. So--long story short, seems my dreams are what I would normally expect, a little easier to read, I think. They make more sense in the context of my day-to-day inner thoughts.
9. Overall, what is the difference now between how you were prior to the last remedy and now?
Prior to taking the Nat-Mur, I felt like things were maybe tentatively going OK, but still not as great as I wanted them to be. My sex drive had gotten tiny bit of a boost. But I felt like I was still antisocial and didn't feel like going out of the house or doing anything and felt bad for my kids being cooped up all the time.
As it stands now, I think I'm a little bit worse off compared to prior to the Nat-mur. Sex drive really bottomed out, constipation is coming back a bit, feeling more anxious about health concerns and feeling like I just don't have any energy to do much of anything. Yet, still wanting to get those things done (chores, goals, etc), so feeling aggravated at my shortcomings when I know what I want to accomplish but feel I just can't muster up the wherewithal to do it. I feel like after Nat-Mur, I am more confronted with my own inadequacies, they seem more glaring to me, as if I'm taking a hard look at myself and I really don't like what I see.
General Sphere:
Please note any changes in the following areas. Changes may be i) New symptoms ii) Old symptoms that have reappeared iii) Current symptoms with some features altered iv) Current symptoms that are worse in some way
1. Sleep --I can't tell if it's any better or worse. I feel a lot more tired through the day and I don't know if that's from Kody, or if it's me. I just want to fall into bed in the evening, but I have to wait several hours later until Kody is ready to go to sleep.
2. Appetite --So-so. I'd say maybe a teensy bit worse, as in old symptoms reasserting themselves, nothing new.
3. Thirst ---Seems like I am not as thirsty as I should be, or like I can tell my mouth is dry but don't really feel the desire to drink as much as normal. This seems new, but seems to be related to just feeling apathetic overall. I end up drinking a lot before bed, because it hits me all of a sudden, and then have to wake up to pee and feel thirsty again at that time.
4. Bowel function --constipation is reappearing, after having what I felt like was ideal function prior to taking Nat-Mur.
5. Bladder function--Seems the same.
6. Sweat--Noticed a bit of night sweats after not having any problem with them prior to taking Nat-M.
7. Sexuality --Either it's worse than before the Nat-M, or I'm just comparing it to my husband's increased drive (since starting the Lac-E) and finding it sadly lacking.
8. Menses --this cycle, I'm having an especially long one. Prior to the remedy, I was having relatively short cycles (as compared to normal prior to Kody's birth), generally only about 3 or 4 days total from start to finish. Now, I think it's been about 5 days (not sure how many exactly), and it's still going steady. So, a bit more like pre-Kody normal for me on that one.
9. Environmental sensitivity--I'm not sure if this means sensitivity to emotional environment, or to weather and dust and things like that. Either way, I feel like there's no change to report here.
Also, I did want to mention on my husband's thread, that I thought the back pain was new since this past weekend, but he told me it's been going on for several weeks now. I think it just got worse toward the end of last week, so I was noticing it more. He tends to try to not show it if he's in pain, so he was probably just able to keep it to himself before.
If it's easier, I can put this back over on his post. Would you advise any change? It is interfering with his day-to-day life.
alaskamom 9 years ago
Ah I missed this. I didn't realise you were posting your own case under Kody's thread. Alright I will have a look at this today.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
Ok well, that changes how I see your case, quite dramatically.
From this description, and I don't know if it has changed in response to the last remedy or I simply did not see it before, it seems that you are clearly describing the Sycotic miasm. Interestingly, the nosode of this miasm (remedy made from disease matter) is Medorrhinum.
The primary sensation of this miasm is 'There is something wrong within me that must be avoided or hidden or covered up.' It is a fault or flaw that cannot be fixed, but instead must be ignored, worked around, adapted to.
Fortunately, I do not feel that you need this particular remedy (although it certainly does have seem strongly indicated for some of your case).
I filtered my analysis through this rubric:
Delusion, something is wrong - kali-br, sal-fr, thuj
I then further refined my search with:
Delusion, worthless
Company, aversion, avoids the sight of people
Delusion body is brittle
This leads me to the remedy Thuja, which is the other main remedy for the Sycotic miasm.
I would start with Thuja 30c, 2 doses taken initially.
From this description, and I don't know if it has changed in response to the last remedy or I simply did not see it before, it seems that you are clearly describing the Sycotic miasm. Interestingly, the nosode of this miasm (remedy made from disease matter) is Medorrhinum.
The primary sensation of this miasm is 'There is something wrong within me that must be avoided or hidden or covered up.' It is a fault or flaw that cannot be fixed, but instead must be ignored, worked around, adapted to.
Fortunately, I do not feel that you need this particular remedy (although it certainly does have seem strongly indicated for some of your case).
I filtered my analysis through this rubric:
Delusion, something is wrong - kali-br, sal-fr, thuj
I then further refined my search with:
Delusion, worthless
Company, aversion, avoids the sight of people
Delusion body is brittle
This leads me to the remedy Thuja, which is the other main remedy for the Sycotic miasm.
I would start with Thuja 30c, 2 doses taken initially.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
OK, thank you. I will have to pick this up come payday.
The description of the miasm you listed, ''There is something wrong within me that must be avoided or hidden or covered up.' It is a fault or flaw that cannot be fixed, but instead must be ignored, worked around, adapted to,' really says the basis of how I feel. I do definitely feel like there is something fundamentally wrong that can't be fixed. So that is pretty right on.
The description of the miasm you listed, ''There is something wrong within me that must be avoided or hidden or covered up.' It is a fault or flaw that cannot be fixed, but instead must be ignored, worked around, adapted to,' really says the basis of how I feel. I do definitely feel like there is something fundamentally wrong that can't be fixed. So that is pretty right on.
alaskamom 9 years ago
You described it really well this time, almost as if the feeling has been distilled by the previous remedy. This often happens, and it is the main reason we retake cases rather than just constantly prescribing on the original information.
I really hope we can change that stuff for you :)
I really hope we can change that stuff for you :)
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
I went ahead and bought the Thuja. You said two doses. Morning and evening? Three hits, three drops in water, and two tablespoons?
alaskamom 9 years ago
Two doses spaced a full day apart. 3 hits, 3 drops, 100mls, 2 teaspoons.
:)
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♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
An update---
I had a bit of the sniffles prior to taking the Thuja, and took the first dose of it 3 days ago (followed by the second dose 24 hours later). Seems like the first day was good, and then the next day I felt worse emotionally and physically. I still feel pretty terrible as far as the illness goes. Sore throat, nose stuffed up, headache, earaches, body aches, sniffles and sneezes. I used some Vick's vapor rub last night without thinking about it, because I was so miserable. I bought some nasal spray today because it's so hard for me to fall asleep when I can't breathe through my nose.
I had a bit of the sniffles prior to taking the Thuja, and took the first dose of it 3 days ago (followed by the second dose 24 hours later). Seems like the first day was good, and then the next day I felt worse emotionally and physically. I still feel pretty terrible as far as the illness goes. Sore throat, nose stuffed up, headache, earaches, body aches, sniffles and sneezes. I used some Vick's vapor rub last night without thinking about it, because I was so miserable. I bought some nasal spray today because it's so hard for me to fall asleep when I can't breathe through my nose.
alaskamom 9 years ago
Might be the remedy, or it might the acute illness. It's always hard to know really until you see an overall improvement.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
I'm not sure. I'm sure it's possible. It did seem like I started out (prior to the remedy) with just what my older son had, which was very mild and only lasted a couple of days, then it seemed like after the dosing, it got worse. So it may be related to the remedy or might just be I got worse after being out in the cold on Halloween night trick or treating with the kiddos. *shrug*
alaskamom 9 years ago
It can be both an acute and an aggravation. Your symptoms are only ever a defence strategy by the vital force to protect you. When the remedy stimulates the vital force all of its current activities can be intensified. Of course the problem is with an acute it can do this on its own, so it isn't the best indicator that a constitutional remedy is working.
Anyway, lets hope it is!
Anyway, lets hope it is!
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
So I wanted to ask for the baby again, Kody. To see if I might have any remedies on hand that I could try. He's having of one of his regular fevers again. This time, and the previous time as well, the fever episode coincided with the full moon.
He's hot, kind of glassy-eyed, lethargic, having short gag episodes but not vomiting. Not eating, but nursing a lot. Woke up a ton last night.
Lately I've noticed he seems to be almost perfectionistic about things, for example being perturbed when a tiny piece of food falls off the plate and wanting to pick it up.
His sleep is still as bad as always. He seems to be not able to go to sleep until it's an hour later than he went to sleep the night before. He gets later and later, until I finally just give him melatonin, or like yesterday, skip the daytime nap.
He's hot, kind of glassy-eyed, lethargic, having short gag episodes but not vomiting. Not eating, but nursing a lot. Woke up a ton last night.
Lately I've noticed he seems to be almost perfectionistic about things, for example being perturbed when a tiny piece of food falls off the plate and wanting to pick it up.
His sleep is still as bad as always. He seems to be not able to go to sleep until it's an hour later than he went to sleep the night before. He gets later and later, until I finally just give him melatonin, or like yesterday, skip the daytime nap.
alaskamom 9 years ago
I hope that he isn't Medorrhinum (how often do I say that about my prescriptions lol). If he is sycotic, then perhaps we could try Thuja for him as well? It is a complementary remedy to Med, and it actually does have that perfectionism as well which Med doesn't tend to (although its extreme states might have a kind of obsession). Thuja are night owls, and there is a symptom 'Anger when things don't go after their will' in which Thuja is found.
Try just one dose on him and let's see if that makes any change.
Try just one dose on him and let's see if that makes any change.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
His fever did break yesterday. Normally it's been going on for several days, and this time was only 1 day before it broke, so I would attribute that to the remedy. Sleep isnt any different, in fact it's worse tight now because he's teething. But I pleased at how the fevery went down. That was a good result for sure.
alaskamom 9 years ago
I wanted to see if we can give anything for the illness Kody has now. He is miserable. He caught my cold, has a runny/stuffy/congested nose, is sneezing, and slept awful last night. He kept waking up because he couldn't breathe through his nose. (I had a tough time sleeping when I was really congested, too. I used nasal spray to get some relief.)
Last night I used one spritz of my nasal spray with Kody just to get him to sleep at least an hour at a time. He was waking up every 15 minutes for awhile around midnight. Before that it was every hour. I'm a little tired today, needless to say! And I feel sorry for him because he just looks like he feels awful. He is pale and washed out, dark circles around the eyes, and not eating much.
Last night I used one spritz of my nasal spray with Kody just to get him to sleep at least an hour at a time. He was waking up every 15 minutes for awhile around midnight. Before that it was every hour. I'm a little tired today, needless to say! And I feel sorry for him because he just looks like he feels awful. He is pale and washed out, dark circles around the eyes, and not eating much.
alaskamom 9 years ago
This is strange - the second time I have given a remedy only to have him produce acute symptoms.
Are the majority of his symptoms normal for him, but worse?
Are the majority of his symptoms normal for him, but worse?
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
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