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procrastination,shyness
Dear Drs,I am a 44 yrs old house wife. I have 2 kids. my husband wants me to do job for some reason but my problem is i am too shy to go out and speak to any stranger. I also procrastinate .please help.
Patient ID: Sex: Age
Libra27;female:44
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
procrastination and shyness
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
hypothyroidism,gall stones
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
headache,lethargy, mentle confusion
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
i usually plan to do something with full energy. but the next day all the plans fade away.feel even not going out. find so many excuses to do nothing. If i have to do anything,I try to drag it until the last minute.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
I am always like that.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
all the time.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
I have no idea
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
Iam living with my in laws. the environment in my home is not favourable most of the time. I am sensitive in nature so I start thinking which becomes endless.
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
I am just like this all the year round.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
mild,agreeable,quiet,lazy, mood changes quickly
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
i like cloudy weather, but sometimes,sometimes i dont like thunderstorms
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
yes.
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
i cant tolerate loud noises and I dont like bright sunlight which gives me migrain. but I do like well lighted rooms in the night.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
I talk to myself whenever i am alone.
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
Ilike my husband but he has some 30yr old love affair that is still alive,that makes me uneasy. he also wants me to take care of his mother and siblings who are single and around 50 years of age. My siblings are ok but my mother is irritable . my kids are young, one is 9 and other is 6. I love them very much.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
I am just worried about my kids future. I repeatedly dream of a situation in which i find my self unmarried and i am going to get married to somebody.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
sometimes I crave for sweet things( any kind).i cannot eat sea food . i am not fond of any kind of meat neither vegetables.
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
usually normal, sometimes excessive
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
usually normal
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
no
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
normal
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
at first,it starts with hard stool then it becomes very soft
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
sometimes i feel too sleepy all the day. At night I cannot sleep 2-3 hours after lying on the bed,then go to sleep. I can sleep in all postures but left side posture is not good for me since blockage in my nose makes my breathing difficult
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
my husband has so many psychological and physical problems. that makes me feel deprived of.
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
I am just like others.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
I usually take Sepia 1M when i feel symptoms of perimenopause. I take synthroid for hypothyroidism.
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
diabetes,high blood pressure,my father died of heart attack.hypothyroidism
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
dark,fat with extended abdomen.freckle on face.
24. (ONLY FOR FEMALES)
Please answer the following questions:
(Please give details of your past menstruation if you have attained menopause.)
- Are the periods early, regular or late in general?
early
How long do they last?
5days approx
- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before, during or after the periods?
very irritable before periods
- Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?
normal
- Is the blood thick bright red or pale watery?
thick red
- Do you notice any clots in the flow?
no.
thank you
Libra27 on 2012-09-27
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Hi there,
The following additional information is required to help you. Therefore, please do the best you can in providing a detailed and accurate data.
1. ID
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Single/Married
5. weight
6. Height .
7. country
8. climate
9. List of your complaints
10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint
11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Thirst
14. Tongue and Taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
16. What exactly is happening?
17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?
19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?
22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?
24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?
25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
26. Family Background
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient
28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?
29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
30. Name of foods which increase your problem
31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)
33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)
34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
For Females Only
37. When is the period during the month approx date? Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems, pain, any other discharges?
38. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues?
Regards
Nawaz
The following additional information is required to help you. Therefore, please do the best you can in providing a detailed and accurate data.
1. ID
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Single/Married
5. weight
6. Height .
7. country
8. climate
9. List of your complaints
10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint
11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
13. Thirst
14. Tongue and Taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
16. What exactly is happening?
17. How do you feel?
18. How does this affect you?
19. How does it feel like?
20. What comes to your mind?
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?
22. How did that feel like?
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?
24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)?
25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
26. Family Background
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient
28. Nature of work, what do you do for living?
29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
30. Name of foods which increase your problem
31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)
33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)
34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
For Females Only
37. When is the period during the month approx date? Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems, pain, any other discharges?
38. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues?
Regards
Nawaz
♡ nawazkhan last decade
Hello Dr Nawaz,
Thanks for taking interest in my case. here is other detail.
1. ID
Libra27
2. Age
44
3. Sex
female
4. Single/Married
married
5. weight
170 lbs
6. Height .
5feet 0inch
7. country
usa (pakistani,living in usa since 2005)
8. climate
mostly cold
9. List of your complaints
shyness,procrastination,
10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint
I am always like this
11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
non diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
sweets
13. Thirst
normal
14. Tongue and Taste
tongue is pink with slightly darker edges,no specific taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
120/80 avg
16. What exactly is happening?
I cannot do anything because of my shyness. when i am in good mood,i make plans like join gym to do some excercise or to do some phone calls but the next day I feel i am too shy to speak to somebody in the gym.or to any stranger on the phone
all the necessary work that i know i must do,i will do it at the last minute.
17. How do you feel?
I find excuses not doing what i planned to do,though I know it is my weakness. then regret.
18. How does this affect you?
negatively. I feel depressed.
19. How does it feel like?
very bad.
20. What comes to your mind?
'why am i such a shy or lazy person?'
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?
my father's death,when i was 6. my marraige. i had been very calm and quiet,happy person but after living with my in laws,i converted into depressed,irritable(sometimes), and negative thinker.
22. How did that feel like?
sometime i feel ashamed on myself for being such a lazy and negative thinker.
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?
headache
24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)? i dont understand this question
25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
a- Aloe sokotrin for pilessome 18 years ago.
b-lemna minor and phosphoric acid for white hair 15 years ago.( my hair started turning white since the age of 13,now mostly all of my hair is white)
c-Sepia1M for perimenopause symptoms, occasionally
d-sulphur for burning sensation in feet whenever i feel it
e-some 5 years back ,seasonal allergies( very severe,cough,cold,headache,burning red eyes etc. no allopathic medicine could help) started. In last may, I found some remedies in this forum, calc carb30,phosphorus30,and lyco 30 each one dose ,2 hours apart.for 1 day. i took them for one day, and repeated that after one week. the next day,allergies were gone.now i have no seasonal allergies.
f- allopathic synthroid for hypothyroidism daily
26. Family Background
father died when i wa s6 ,then we had to live in poverty. mother is a hard working woman. now all of my siblings and i are settled.
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient
have MSc degree from pakistan
28. Nature of work, what do you do for living? I am a house wife. my husband is an engineer
29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
i want to live separatly from my inlaws( which is almost impossible).I am a very choosy person,only eat afew things. no vegetable ,no meat,except minced meat.
30. Name of foods which increase your problem
nothing.
31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
i used to be a very calm ,coolminded,never critisize anybody or anything.forgiving in nature,but after i got married,i became angry,irritable,moody, depressed. i am shy . usually quiet,always try to be calm for the sake of my kids.I love my kids,can do anything for them. husband is okay but he wants me to be someone from heaven. that disturbs me alot.i love him,but he has his own affairs. though he cares about me. i cannot speak in public. nor can i start conversation with any stranger.
32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases) in summer i am a little more active. but in winter which lasts about8 months, i feel depressed.
33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)
34. Location of the disease
mind
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
urine yellow,stool brown
For Females Only
37. When is the period during the month approx date? Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems, pain, any other discharges?
approx date is 15 of the month. but period starts a little early.
usually irritable before periods start.sometimes painful.
38. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues?
no.
I hope i have told most about myself. please suggest a remedy for me.
thank you
Thanks for taking interest in my case. here is other detail.
1. ID
Libra27
2. Age
44
3. Sex
female
4. Single/Married
married
5. weight
170 lbs
6. Height .
5feet 0inch
7. country
usa (pakistani,living in usa since 2005)
8. climate
mostly cold
9. List of your complaints
shyness,procrastination,
10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint
I am always like this
11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic
non diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt
sweets
13. Thirst
normal
14. Tongue and Taste
tongue is pink with slightly darker edges,no specific taste
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
120/80 avg
16. What exactly is happening?
I cannot do anything because of my shyness. when i am in good mood,i make plans like join gym to do some excercise or to do some phone calls but the next day I feel i am too shy to speak to somebody in the gym.or to any stranger on the phone
all the necessary work that i know i must do,i will do it at the last minute.
17. How do you feel?
I find excuses not doing what i planned to do,though I know it is my weakness. then regret.
18. How does this affect you?
negatively. I feel depressed.
19. How does it feel like?
very bad.
20. What comes to your mind?
'why am i such a shy or lazy person?'
21. One situation that had a
big effect on you?
my father's death,when i was 6. my marraige. i had been very calm and quiet,happy person but after living with my in laws,i converted into depressed,irritable(sometimes), and negative thinker.
22. How did that feel like?
sometime i feel ashamed on myself for being such a lazy and negative thinker.
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation?
headache
24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)? i dont understand this question
25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past?
a- Aloe sokotrin for pilessome 18 years ago.
b-lemna minor and phosphoric acid for white hair 15 years ago.( my hair started turning white since the age of 13,now mostly all of my hair is white)
c-Sepia1M for perimenopause symptoms, occasionally
d-sulphur for burning sensation in feet whenever i feel it
e-some 5 years back ,seasonal allergies( very severe,cough,cold,headache,burning red eyes etc. no allopathic medicine could help) started. In last may, I found some remedies in this forum, calc carb30,phosphorus30,and lyco 30 each one dose ,2 hours apart.for 1 day. i took them for one day, and repeated that after one week. the next day,allergies were gone.now i have no seasonal allergies.
f- allopathic synthroid for hypothyroidism daily
26. Family Background
father died when i wa s6 ,then we had to live in poverty. mother is a hard working woman. now all of my siblings and i are settled.
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient
have MSc degree from pakistan
28. Nature of work, what do you do for living? I am a house wife. my husband is an engineer
29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food
i want to live separatly from my inlaws( which is almost impossible).I am a very choosy person,only eat afew things. no vegetable ,no meat,except minced meat.
30. Name of foods which increase your problem
nothing.
31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
i used to be a very calm ,coolminded,never critisize anybody or anything.forgiving in nature,but after i got married,i became angry,irritable,moody, depressed. i am shy . usually quiet,always try to be calm for the sake of my kids.I love my kids,can do anything for them. husband is okay but he wants me to be someone from heaven. that disturbs me alot.i love him,but he has his own affairs. though he cares about me. i cannot speak in public. nor can i start conversation with any stranger.
32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases) in summer i am a little more active. but in winter which lasts about8 months, i feel depressed.
33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)
34. Location of the disease
mind
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.
urine yellow,stool brown
For Females Only
37. When is the period during the month approx date? Any monthly cycle issues? Regular, early, late, before problems, after problems, pain, any other discharges?
approx date is 15 of the month. but period starts a little early.
usually irritable before periods start.sometimes painful.
38. Are you pregnant? If yes, please give pregnancy start date? Any current issues?
no.
I hope i have told most about myself. please suggest a remedy for me.
thank you
Libra27 last decade
Hi,
Please take Pulsatilla 30C, 4 drops mixed in 1/4 glass of mineral water, 2 times a day, for 5 days.
Report after 3 days.
Many prayers for your happy and healthy life.
Please take Pulsatilla 30C, 4 drops mixed in 1/4 glass of mineral water, 2 times a day, for 5 days.
Report after 3 days.
Many prayers for your happy and healthy life.
♡ nawazkhan last decade
Dear Dr Nawaz,
Thank you for your advice. In USA,we can easily find Boiron brand,which comes in pills form. Can I take pills?
Thank you for your advice. In USA,we can easily find Boiron brand,which comes in pills form. Can I take pills?
Libra27 last decade
Dear Dr Nawaz,
As you advised,I took pulsatilla 30c for three days in pills form.
day 1= nothing new happened
day2= felt sleepy all the day,little cough at bedtime,loose motions 2times.
day3= sleepy throughout,cough in the morning, loose moton 3times.
No change in procrastination and shyness so far.
please advise.
As you advised,I took pulsatilla 30c for three days in pills form.
day 1= nothing new happened
day2= felt sleepy all the day,little cough at bedtime,loose motions 2times.
day3= sleepy throughout,cough in the morning, loose moton 3times.
No change in procrastination and shyness so far.
please advise.
Libra27 last decade
Dear Dr Nawaz,
I have taken pulsatilla 30C for five days.
day 4-5= slightly drowsy ,no loose motion,but unusual heartburn even in empty stomach.
please advise.
Thank you
I have taken pulsatilla 30C for five days.
day 4-5= slightly drowsy ,no loose motion,but unusual heartburn even in empty stomach.
please advise.
Thank you
Libra27 last decade
Sir, how can i tell you about my own mental symptoms? In my opinion I am OK. But my husband says I am not,which is true. let me tell you one recent example of my shyness.
our credit card payment was due on october 6.some 10 days ago, i was asked to pay it online as i usually do. but since I procrastinate,i did not do it until october 2. when I tried to pay it online , i found that website is not working. my husband asked me to call the credit card company to pay the bill on phone. but since I cannot speak to strangers,i couldn't call them,though i tried atleast 3 times to call them but everytime hang up before talking to anybody. finally today,on october 5, i somehow managed to find out their web adress which has been changed. and then I finally paid the bill online.
Although my husband scolded me several times for not calling credit card company,i could not call them. this was not good,but I find myself helpless. that's why I asked for your help.
Thank you.
our credit card payment was due on october 6.some 10 days ago, i was asked to pay it online as i usually do. but since I procrastinate,i did not do it until october 2. when I tried to pay it online , i found that website is not working. my husband asked me to call the credit card company to pay the bill on phone. but since I cannot speak to strangers,i couldn't call them,though i tried atleast 3 times to call them but everytime hang up before talking to anybody. finally today,on october 5, i somehow managed to find out their web adress which has been changed. and then I finally paid the bill online.
Although my husband scolded me several times for not calling credit card company,i could not call them. this was not good,but I find myself helpless. that's why I asked for your help.
Thank you.
Libra27 last decade
Thanks
You need to take the remedy Pulsatilla 30C as before for 4 more days, only if you are not in period?
More prayers for you.
You need to take the remedy Pulsatilla 30C as before for 4 more days, only if you are not in period?
More prayers for you.
♡ nawazkhan last decade
Dear Dr Nawaz,
as suggested by you,I took pulsatilla 30C for four more days. we were invited to some friends' gathering in other city last weekened. I planned for 4 tasks to do before leaving. I could finish 2 of them. is this a positive sign? i packed my stuff on the last moment as i ususally do.
please advise.
as suggested by you,I took pulsatilla 30C for four more days. we were invited to some friends' gathering in other city last weekened. I planned for 4 tasks to do before leaving. I could finish 2 of them. is this a positive sign? i packed my stuff on the last moment as i ususally do.
please advise.
Libra27 last decade
Great! Sure, it is a positive sign.
How is your shyness now?
Is the current period early?
When was the last period?
How is your shyness now?
Is the current period early?
When was the last period?
♡ nawazkhan last decade
Thanks for your reply.
I think shyness is alittle better since i met afew new people in the gathering.But I still feel shy.
my last periods were started on september 21.
I think shyness is alittle better since i met afew new people in the gathering.But I still feel shy.
my last periods were started on september 21.
Libra27 last decade
Hi,
You are welcome!
Very nice to see some improvement in your shyness, but, as you know, shyness is the fine jewellery of nice woman.
Let's wait and see that your next period is on time or early?
As I have indicated before about the remedy Pulsatilla 30C must not be taken during period. So, let's wait with patience and more prayers.
Many prayers for your good health and comfortable life.
You are welcome!
Very nice to see some improvement in your shyness, but, as you know, shyness is the fine jewellery of nice woman.
Let's wait and see that your next period is on time or early?
As I have indicated before about the remedy Pulsatilla 30C must not be taken during period. So, let's wait with patience and more prayers.
Many prayers for your good health and comfortable life.
♡ nawazkhan last decade
Dear Dr Nawaz,
I am sorry for being so late in posting. power failure and other problems due to hurricane made our lives paralyzed.
well,my periods started on 24th of october,that means 3 days late.(isn't it because of perimenopausal condition? after all i am 44 yrs old).
As far as shyness and procrastination is concerned,I am feeling much improvement.
should i start pulsatilla30 again? Please advise.
thank you.
I am sorry for being so late in posting. power failure and other problems due to hurricane made our lives paralyzed.
well,my periods started on 24th of october,that means 3 days late.(isn't it because of perimenopausal condition? after all i am 44 yrs old).
As far as shyness and procrastination is concerned,I am feeling much improvement.
should i start pulsatilla30 again? Please advise.
thank you.
Libra27 last decade
Hi, May God Bless You.
'should i start pulsatilla30 again? Please advise. '
No
Please get hold of Pulsatilla Q.
Many prayers for you.
'should i start pulsatilla30 again? Please advise. '
No
Please get hold of Pulsatilla Q.
Many prayers for you.
♡ nawazkhan last decade
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