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Unable to control eye movement

Dear Doctor,

I am a 38 years old male executive, and I have come up well in life mainly due to my technical knowledge. Since last last 3 to 4 years I am unable to look at peoples face and eyes slide to their (men or women, it does not matter)private parts. Even if I try to look else where, the private parts of nearby people always remain at the corner of my eye.
I consulated three doctors. The first one said it is a personality problem and gave me three month course for epitril and C-Pram. The next doctor trained me self hypnosis and said it will solve my problem, but it does not seem to give results but only sleep. Third one could not even understand the problem.

The problem is so severe that people do not come to meet me and take long alterante routes while walking thru office. I plan to take a happy retirement than roubling people like this. I often and constantly tell myself hell with it, but it is only increasing.

It seemed those doctors have not come across such problem, and I also have not seen such habit in anybody else. I need kind guidnace from doctors/patient who have faced such issues.
 
  utpal1999 on 2008-03-02
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
why u think ur eyes cant be controled?
 
John Stanton last decade
Thanks for your reply. That question I also ask myself. But at the end when I meet people, my eyes tend to take a wide view and I actually see the personal parts of men and women infront of me. Worst case is some body sitting next to me, my eyes cannot be any where else then, nobody would sit in my car or take me in their car for this reason.

I have gone through various shocking situations in my life in last few years, all one after the other, for my fault or not. I feel guilty about that. The only person in my current life who understands and accomodates me is my wife.

Kindly advise what could be of help to resolve this.
 
utpal1999 last decade
Staphy Sag 2ooc ,3 doses with equal space on same day.

Dr.Tahira
 
Dr Tahira last decade
I am unable to understand why this is happening. Unless I know this I think the fix cannot be there. I am still looking for advise from those who have come across simillar cases.
 
utpal1999 last decade
U should discuss the event after which it happened.I have found above remedy usefull for such cases but more detail can through light on the back ground.

Dr.Tahira
 
Dr Tahira last decade
had similar symptoms. think it is caused by social anxiety (fear of embarassment in social/peer situations) and obsessive compulsive disorder (repetetive intrusive thought that patterns itself). Recommeded remedy makes sense and might help. Medication helps also. A book called 'The Eyes Have It' helped me strengthen eye control muscles and that helped to maintain focus and tune out peripheral vision which helped deal with it..1. try focusing on a spot and holding your stare there a while ....2 look at wall ahead...very very very slowly move your focus bit by bit to the right, then slowly back to centre...then to the left then back to centre..then down and back...then up and back. Do not do too many times at once as very powerful and might get a headache. Also, go for a run daily before work if you can, to sort of run some tension out of the body/brain. I was told in China they treat OCD with intensive exercise. Also, very important, try to remain calm and not too panicy with the symptoms as panic, frustration and fear fuel it more. Another book called Brain Lock explains the brain is stuck in a pattern and the way to eventually get it unstuck is a 4 step program.
1. Reattribute it to what it is...not you but a brain pattern to be ignoredmore to suggest if you want.
 
palmtree last decade
Had similar symptoms. Think might be caused by a combinaton of social anxiety (fear of embarassment in social/peer situation) and obsessive compulsive disorder (intrusive upsetting repetetive thought that patterns and repeats itself. Two books helped me Brain Lock (explains how the brain gets stuck in a pattern and how to get it unstuck by 1. Relabel it as a faulty brain signal to be ignored. It is not you. 2. Reattribute it to the OCD. 3. Refocus on what you are doing to get your mind to spend less energy on it and fuel it less. 4. Revalue the thought as worthless distraction to be ignored, 'mental garbage'. Keep calm as being upset, embarassed, worried fuels it and strengthens the pattern.
Second book The Eyes Have It..eye exercises to strengthen eye control muscles to help deal with it. 1. Focus on a spot on the wall and hold your stare there for a good while, which seems to strengthen focus and tune out peripheral distractions. 2. from spot in center, very very very slowly move your focus bit by bit by bit to the right, then slowly back, then repeat to the left and up and down. Do not do these exercises too many times as they are powerful and will give you a headache. Medication helps. So does yoga and tai chi and chi king. Get videos and do at home. More to suggest if you have an email I can write to that would be easier than posting here and it is very complicated to explain here. Not sure if you are able or it would help, but I took time off work to get a break from the peer situation that triggered the symptoms, which may have helped to break the cycle, and give me a chance to de-stress as the constant stress of dealing with it was probably making it worse. That was 10 years ago, and it occasionally creeps back but not enough to get a hold on me.
 
palmtree last decade
The homeopathic remedy sounds worth a try for sure. Meantime, the more time spent dwelling on the symptoms and worrying about them, probably re-enforces and fuels them. I think that is most important to keep in mind. Try to focus on positive solutions to deal with the symptoms ie ignoring, rigorous excercise, eye focus or eye muscle control exercises if you find they help, slow head/neck rotations seem to destress a bit. Build calming and destressing habits you enjoy into your life like reading, exercise, tai chi, yoga etc. Learn new interests in life which help to gradually build new and different brain pathways, occupy the brain positvely and gradually distract it from this pattern over time. See your coworkers as compassionate or not understanding instead of judgemental. Massage or chiropractic or craniosacral therapy might help calm the body and emotions/central nervous system and help get out of a state of chronic stress. Re meds I have used buspar and luvox in combination..not sure how well they worked.
 
palmtree last decade
Hi,
I am suffering from exactly the same problem described here from past 1.2 years.
any remedies?
This problem has totally ruined my social life.can anyone help.
 
sunilstuck last decade
Describe in detail.

Dr.Tahira
 
Dr Tahira last decade
Everything was normal about a year and a half ago.But then some bad things happened in life.After sometime,I started realising that everytime a see a woman(or even man),my focus was shifting to her/his private parts.This was very weak earlier,but with time,it is becoming severe.now i try not to talk to people scaring that i may look at their private parts while talking.
Doctor, if you need any other information, please tellme.
 
sunilstuck last decade
I am also have exacty same problem for past 12years. I am 24 years old. At beginning of this problem, it affected my studies, since I can,t able to listem deeply my teachers lecture. Basically I am a first rank student. But after this problem I can't able to get good marks instead I got only average marks. However I completed my engineering degree with average marks. Because during High school and college life, this problem was severe to me.
After completing college, I cant able to get a job related to my engineering degree, because I was failed in all of the personal interviews due to this problem. Since I continuously tried, I got a job with less salary but I cant able to get good increment in the same company. So I came out of that company and searched for another job with my 1 year experience but I failed continuously in the personalinterviews because they didn't like me eventhough I am suitable to that jobs. I have some ideas like doing a business to come up in life but I can't able to interact with people due to this problem. So how I can execute the ideas and how to come up in life. I have no friends for the past 7 years due to this problem. I am verymuch affected by this eye+mind OCD problem. What is the remedy to this. How to live the normal life like others?
 
Anonym last decade
I have seen a programmebefore 5 years in SUN TV in which a psychiatrist has spoken about various types of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I remember some of that as follows.
a) Unreasonable fears continuously in day today activities.
b) Doing same thing continuous again and again. This will severe while important days (like the days while studying for examinations (For students))
c) checking the doors and windows have closed or not, gas stove, fan, etc., are turned off or not, Checking the TV controls and speakers continuosly again and again.
d) Being more cleanliness so that he/she always clean his/her hands, rooms or other things, etc., again and again eventhough it is already clean.
e) Unable to control the eyes while speaking with others since the one eye tries to see the private parts of the man and woman (It's not a case whether the OCD affected person is man or woman) and thus getting a bad opinion from the others and thus they will lose their friends. But anyone can't able to understand this problem Unless otherwise he/she was affected by this problem.

In all the above said problems I have affected by the problems a, b, c and e in past 12years. The most mentally disturbed problem to me is 'e' since It affects the career and the life since It makes very bad opinion from others, eventhough the OCD affected person is a gentle man.

The above said problems are not understand by ordinary persons.
 
Anonym last decade
peace be unto
I had the same problem as you, what i am about to tell me seem strange to u but its the truth Allah o alam . I had the same problem it occurred twice and then again a third time . The second time it occurred i got rid of it without any medication or eye exercises. I Believe this occurs when a jinn posses your body a jinn is a creature that was created by Allah(god) alongside humans , however they (the jinns) reside in another dimension and we cannot see them unless they take the form of animals. The jinn possess a humans body and controls his eye movements and or his body movements as well.the second time this occurred with me i recited the Quran for a long period of time and by Allah grace and mercy i was healed the same as the first time. I suggest that you contact a raqi or Islamic healer that can get rid of the jinn by reciting the Quran and follows the sunnat of the holy prophet(pbuh) and it would be best i believe if the Islamic healer Inshallah followed the way of the salaf in his understanding of Islam. The first time i also got rid of this problem by constast recitation of the quran mashalah .IF u go to an RAqi inshallah your problem will be solved
 
mir123 last decade
I have also had the same disease since two years ago. With exactly the same symptoms. It seems that these posts are written at 2008. So, please if your problem has been solved tell me how did you solve it. I had almost given up when I encountered this page. Can any doctor/patient help me with this disease? If you need my email address tell me.
 
henix last decade
I have read all your posts and have come up with the same problem in my life. I have a gf and for some reason when im watching TV or talking to females or males (males more) i can not help but look at their private parts. Along like everyone else I am loosing friends and becoming very alone. If anyone found a way to over come this disease please let me know. I am in desperate need of help because i feel as if my life is going to waste because i don't want to do the things i use to enjoy doing like going to the gym or just plain being around people in fear of being judged.
 
lonestar29 last decade
Hi lonestar29
I'm the writer of previous post. As far as I know, it's all about OCD. I've started with OCD related medications. Unfortunately exposure method which is the most common way for curing OCD cannot be applied to us. So, instead of that I'm using drug. I've started with 5-htp. Somebody in youtube recommended it and I found it a bit useful. I strongly suggest you to try it. It doesn't need prescription and you can buy it from amazon. There is a lot of things that I've not tried yet. Maybe I'll switch to something else sooner or later BUT THE IMPORTANT THING FOR US IS TO KNOW THAT THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH US. IT'S A DESEASE. SOMETHING FROM OUTSIDE. IT'S NOT US. This way of thinking helped me have a better feeling about myself. So, that's it. Try 5-htp and hopefully it will help you.
 
henix last decade
henix,
Thank you for replying to my post. the only thing i don't understand is with it its almost like my mind is bored all the time. In so many words to describe its as i want attention even though its negative.. its weird i know but that is what i have pieced together after laying in bed late night thinking all the in's and outs to it. as for medicine is concerned i have been taking a generic xanax for a few months now and at first it worked miracles but now my body's become immune to it but at the same time i feel like i cant function without it...
 
lonestar29 last decade
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brisbanehomoeopath last decade
First, I want to say thank you for being courageous and creating this conversation. It has been over a year that I too have also pretty much experienced this same disorder. I'm 18 years old and have lost many friends due to this and lost concentration in school. I never thought i would find other people with this same disorder...any help would be very appreciated and will certainly try those meds you listed. Please tell us how you feel now and new meds you may take. I also think it started after neighbors started spreading false rumors about be so i got paranoid and i also suffer different types of ocd. Again, any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
 
johnco1992 last decade
I Thank God for this person who posted this to let us share our same problems with each other we know how hard it is to be us. This problem had been with me for yrs. I used so many weird methods. Even went to the IMH to see phychaitrist, went for hypnotism, ate vegetarian for a yr!
The worse time was when I just couldn't go out anymore bcoz I couldn't stop my eye n it was getting too bad n I couldn't take all the stares n weird looks anymore n was falling into depression.
Now I specially created this a/c now to share wat I had just learnt n knew n hopefully I can put in practical gd use when I leave Hm tmr!
N tat is to just STAY CALM! The More I meditate to myself calm down just calm down u seem to feel better already. I really hope it will work! N I also found this! Google socialanxietysupport! It's a forum! Im not allowed to post the link so pls google n read up! We r definitely nt alone n we will be cured! CALM down! Just always meditate CALM dwn whenever we r in a depressing n agonizing situation. This is the very big lesson I summarized! Really hope it will work please!!!! it has many ppl tat faces such problems like ours too! After having this problems so many yrs I finally googled it today! N I hope my sharing will be able to save all of us n get us back our CONFIDENCE n get back on track!!!!!!
 
Share last decade
i am 36 year old i am suffering from unable to control eye movement since 8years any suggestion from any one so pls email me

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nadeem1978 last decade
I m also suffer by this problem. If have solution then please mail me.

Thanks
 
sureshmalviya last decade
Hi friends,
for me it seems quite impossible that somebody with a different mental disorder than mine, share such a specific behavioral problem with me. So I strongly encourage you to read about the following, to see whether this is your problem or not. 'Asperger's Syndrome'
 
henix last decade

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manicmpf last decade

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