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I understand what you are saying. You have emotional wounds,
and you cannot fix them by doing mental work- 'I should' be
type stuff. You can do that, and it is good practice, but it is
always going to be a mental over-ride on the bubbling emotional
wounds trying to keep them down. I help with a lot of teens,
and hear them say, 'I should' be happy, etc and I am very depressed-
and they either have a physical thing going on-or abuse has gone on.
Your desire for the gf to be the only trusted support is
too much pressure on one person- usually the one person
who is 'unconditional' and always there is the Mother-but the only
unconditional true thing is the creator- not humans. A lot
of abused people want to find the one partner for support and then
hide away with that person, bc it is too painful and scary to
have other relationships. You will 'burn out' the other person after
a time. Therapy could help you form some new habits, like
realize you are projecting past wounds onto the gf, and forbid
yourself to project. It is lighting up where you wanted love in
the past and did not get it- in therapy you would be guided
to grieve the original instance and thus neutralize the pain,
and then next time you heard something it would not cause
pain. That is how it works and you want the homeopathy to erase
the pain which it can do, but I think it is good if you are
educated about what NOT to do bc it is something you can learn to
stop and control yourself and vent elsewhere. There are tools to deal with it, but
you are not up for that yet, and that is ok.
[message edited by simone717 on Sat, 30 Mar 2013 02:42:19 GMT]
and you cannot fix them by doing mental work- 'I should' be
type stuff. You can do that, and it is good practice, but it is
always going to be a mental over-ride on the bubbling emotional
wounds trying to keep them down. I help with a lot of teens,
and hear them say, 'I should' be happy, etc and I am very depressed-
and they either have a physical thing going on-or abuse has gone on.
Your desire for the gf to be the only trusted support is
too much pressure on one person- usually the one person
who is 'unconditional' and always there is the Mother-but the only
unconditional true thing is the creator- not humans. A lot
of abused people want to find the one partner for support and then
hide away with that person, bc it is too painful and scary to
have other relationships. You will 'burn out' the other person after
a time. Therapy could help you form some new habits, like
realize you are projecting past wounds onto the gf, and forbid
yourself to project. It is lighting up where you wanted love in
the past and did not get it- in therapy you would be guided
to grieve the original instance and thus neutralize the pain,
and then next time you heard something it would not cause
pain. That is how it works and you want the homeopathy to erase
the pain which it can do, but I think it is good if you are
educated about what NOT to do bc it is something you can learn to
stop and control yourself and vent elsewhere. There are tools to deal with it, but
you are not up for that yet, and that is ok.
[message edited by simone717 on Sat, 30 Mar 2013 02:42:19 GMT]
♡ simone717 last decade
Thanks I have just ordered Reckeweg R26.
And thanks for telling me that you are a mom with kids my age, I dont know why but it made me happy :)
And I don't know what to say about your post, but I do understand it. It is one deep hole I cant explain you, my gf had a messed past too and she is very much against seeking treatment because for her 'love' should be enough. It hurts her that I take medicine or smth for mental stuff.
She has had an as touch life as me, childhood wise and also even now. So I feel I am being so so unfair to her, ruining her for hours over her past, insulting her so much, she still takes it. Not that she is holy, she has her anger too at times, but again its her past just like mine.
Somehow we are perfect for each other, our pain is the same and we understand each other. I just wish to rise above this and give her the love she deserves and also... have even 50% of the pain i've had but in the form of PLEASURE and happiness. If i see my life in a flashback I mostly have negative memories, me never being able to enjoy
always hurt bullied alone, and I dont know, life will pass like this... Me, despite having parents, a family, a home, education, born in a 'developped country' but despite that I perhaps have had as much pain as any orphan can have in a developping country. My cover seems so beautiful; an ideal life in an ideal country but it is not.
I really wish to spend the remaining years of my life happily, I want to marry my girlfriend and travel with her, sit with her in evenings and make her open up about her deepest fears and pains and then comfort her, I dont know...
I just need help... I understood from Dr David that homeopathy works with similimum. Basically in your life at one point or another things start getting messed affecting your 'vital energy' and then all things go downhill. And when you take homeopathic remedies the aggravations make you go back into time (so bringing back symptoms that shudve been treated then) and slowly to your original statE.
I have experienced getting back 3-4 years into my past with some homeopathic remedies, where I was happier than now but still had pain, but that for short time. I want to go fully back to my childhood without any pain and just lead atleast a normal life where I wont have such bad thoughts and I dno I feel I got the right to live too... :(
I have been jealous of my cousins who enjoyed life more than me, my classmates who had good parents who had an easy life compared to me...
There is so much Simone.. If you don't mind, can you continue talking to me here?
In real life I have never shared my problems nor will I because I had saved them for one person who would also share their probelms with me, but I want to talk here anonymously some time too, till I feel better.
This board and the members, esp Simone and Dhundun have alreayd helped me gain confidence and more hope for the future due to which I have been happy overall today.. THanks
[message edited by badshah19 on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 20:59:04 GMT]
And thanks for telling me that you are a mom with kids my age, I dont know why but it made me happy :)
And I don't know what to say about your post, but I do understand it. It is one deep hole I cant explain you, my gf had a messed past too and she is very much against seeking treatment because for her 'love' should be enough. It hurts her that I take medicine or smth for mental stuff.
She has had an as touch life as me, childhood wise and also even now. So I feel I am being so so unfair to her, ruining her for hours over her past, insulting her so much, she still takes it. Not that she is holy, she has her anger too at times, but again its her past just like mine.
Somehow we are perfect for each other, our pain is the same and we understand each other. I just wish to rise above this and give her the love she deserves and also... have even 50% of the pain i've had but in the form of PLEASURE and happiness. If i see my life in a flashback I mostly have negative memories, me never being able to enjoy
always hurt bullied alone, and I dont know, life will pass like this... Me, despite having parents, a family, a home, education, born in a 'developped country' but despite that I perhaps have had as much pain as any orphan can have in a developping country. My cover seems so beautiful; an ideal life in an ideal country but it is not.
I really wish to spend the remaining years of my life happily, I want to marry my girlfriend and travel with her, sit with her in evenings and make her open up about her deepest fears and pains and then comfort her, I dont know...
I just need help... I understood from Dr David that homeopathy works with similimum. Basically in your life at one point or another things start getting messed affecting your 'vital energy' and then all things go downhill. And when you take homeopathic remedies the aggravations make you go back into time (so bringing back symptoms that shudve been treated then) and slowly to your original statE.
I have experienced getting back 3-4 years into my past with some homeopathic remedies, where I was happier than now but still had pain, but that for short time. I want to go fully back to my childhood without any pain and just lead atleast a normal life where I wont have such bad thoughts and I dno I feel I got the right to live too... :(
I have been jealous of my cousins who enjoyed life more than me, my classmates who had good parents who had an easy life compared to me...
There is so much Simone.. If you don't mind, can you continue talking to me here?
In real life I have never shared my problems nor will I because I had saved them for one person who would also share their probelms with me, but I want to talk here anonymously some time too, till I feel better.
This board and the members, esp Simone and Dhundun have alreayd helped me gain confidence and more hope for the future due to which I have been happy overall today.. THanks
[message edited by badshah19 on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 20:59:04 GMT]
badshah19 last decade
. You and the gf are trying
to heal each others wounds, bc you don't know how to
really face the wounds themselves, release the energy of
the original wound, and then you won't be seeing things
thru the 'wound glasses' which you are doing now.
When you find a partner, there is always some unconscious
level going on where people play out and project the
parent problems on the partner. It usually never gets fixed,
bc your partner is not the parent but gets forced into
a parental role of some kind.
You cannot be each others therapist-you are not neutral and
people resist looking into what is a healthy relationship-
She probably could use homeopathy to help her, and both
of you need a therapist to get whole- so there is two
healthy people who enjoy themselves. That is the goal
here- but unfortunately most people don't see this
and muddle along, get divorced and find a similar person
to do this with again.People do NOT want to go there-
and look at those emotions.
I hope at some point you do this and she does also-
I can't be the relationship counselor- but her thinking her
love should be enough is wrong thinking and you going over
her past is wrong thinking- so you both need some education
here which would make things much easier. It is like that old
story of a person going down the same road that has a hole
in it and they fall in. You go down a different road, but
first you need to know there is one, and you two don't
have that information.
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:18:05 BST]
to heal each others wounds, bc you don't know how to
really face the wounds themselves, release the energy of
the original wound, and then you won't be seeing things
thru the 'wound glasses' which you are doing now.
When you find a partner, there is always some unconscious
level going on where people play out and project the
parent problems on the partner. It usually never gets fixed,
bc your partner is not the parent but gets forced into
a parental role of some kind.
You cannot be each others therapist-you are not neutral and
people resist looking into what is a healthy relationship-
She probably could use homeopathy to help her, and both
of you need a therapist to get whole- so there is two
healthy people who enjoy themselves. That is the goal
here- but unfortunately most people don't see this
and muddle along, get divorced and find a similar person
to do this with again.People do NOT want to go there-
and look at those emotions.
I hope at some point you do this and she does also-
I can't be the relationship counselor- but her thinking her
love should be enough is wrong thinking and you going over
her past is wrong thinking- so you both need some education
here which would make things much easier. It is like that old
story of a person going down the same road that has a hole
in it and they fall in. You go down a different road, but
first you need to know there is one, and you two don't
have that information.
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:18:05 BST]
♡ simone717 last decade
I see what you mean, but if i by any means could become 'happy' or atleast get my vital energy back with no abnormal thoughts and pulsations, urges I'd much easier be able to live a normal life you see. It is not just with my gf but life in general, I have concentration issues, pessimistic and depressed in general since some years. And once I am healed I will try to help my girlfriend as much as possible too, will try to cure her. ANd I dont blame her vision to cure with love, perhaps she just believes in the power of Love but the fact that we both are messed does take a toll upon our daily life.
As of now I will take those homeopathic remedies and hope they can soothe my mind and just help me regain a good mood generally in life, a better approach to life and just get rid of those stupid thoughts I always have.
Ill try to get the Reckeweg soon.
Dhundun, please try to keep in mind that I have many many issues;
a. depression
b. weird thoughts, living in the past, giving importance to trivial things
c. severe concentration issues with procrastination (perhaps ADD)
d. hyperhidrosis
e. female body fat distribution/gynecomastia
f. premature ejaculation
(g. fears of different kinds, of heights etc )
[message edited by badshah19 on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 23:49:22 GMT]
As of now I will take those homeopathic remedies and hope they can soothe my mind and just help me regain a good mood generally in life, a better approach to life and just get rid of those stupid thoughts I always have.
Ill try to get the Reckeweg soon.
Dhundun, please try to keep in mind that I have many many issues;
a. depression
b. weird thoughts, living in the past, giving importance to trivial things
c. severe concentration issues with procrastination (perhaps ADD)
d. hyperhidrosis
e. female body fat distribution/gynecomastia
f. premature ejaculation
(g. fears of different kinds, of heights etc )
[message edited by badshah19 on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 23:49:22 GMT]
badshah19 last decade
Badshah,
I suggest ordering ' Growing Yourself Back Up ' by John Lee-
On Amazon for $11 plus shipping. Check it out-
about how we regress into the child helpless states
and how to retrain yourself into knowing when it goes on and what to do.
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:19:42 BST]
I suggest ordering ' Growing Yourself Back Up ' by John Lee-
On Amazon for $11 plus shipping. Check it out-
about how we regress into the child helpless states
and how to retrain yourself into knowing when it goes on and what to do.
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:19:42 BST]
♡ simone717 last decade
Thanks that seems very interesting. I will order his book and time being watch his videos
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnIAFgwFwsw
and read more about it.
Thanks
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnIAFgwFwsw
and read more about it.
Thanks
badshah19 last decade
♡ simone717 last decade
Low testosterone, high estrogen and high prolactin are responsible for gynecomastia.
Heavy exercises cause conversion of testosterone to estrogen. So it is recommended to avoid gym related exercises. Instead do some yoga and stretching exercises.
Hard stool also adds to estrogen. Healthy liver and healthy colon are needed for estrogen clearance after testosterone is converted to estrogen. You can include some of the yogic asanas helping liver and colon.
Heavy exercises cause conversion of testosterone to estrogen. So it is recommended to avoid gym related exercises. Instead do some yoga and stretching exercises.
Hard stool also adds to estrogen. Healthy liver and healthy colon are needed for estrogen clearance after testosterone is converted to estrogen. You can include some of the yogic asanas helping liver and colon.
dhundhun last decade
I see, will do so Simone. I won't hide my situation from you, I am pretty young and financially dependant on my parents. I have spent an equivalent of over 500 USD on homeopathy (over 8 remedies and one homeopath on skype) and to be honest my situation now doesn't allow me to do much like financially. So talks with a psychatrist or whatever on skype will be difficult but will try to get that book though.
I am really relying on Dhundun now...
Since I made this post, I have made sligth changes in my lifestyle;
my girlfriend is away for some time so I am feeling even more alone, the first few days I was on computer all days etc bvut now after this thread I tried to reason with myself, I try to think so what if my girlfriend worked for another man (like id stuff for him, etc did things with him) and dno im trying to pass time by doing things which have been lying for some time:
i have started studying for my driving license, also for my exams and just trying to pass time somehow... But I am feeling VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY empty, I am trying to not think negative but still feel so empty that I feel like vomiting and really don't feel like living...
I am trying to help myself as much as I can, I have evolved alot and accept much more of my gf (before I wud get p*ssed even seeing her in miniskirts on pictures before me, but lately i discovered such pictures of her, I was hurt but not much - i tried reasoning).
So simone I dont know what to do.
And Dhundun, I will get Reckeweg 26 on monday, how often shall I take it...? and dont mind, but will I have to take many other remedies sir?
What is the Reckeweg for exactly, why did you prescribe it to me?
I am really relying on Dhundun now...
Since I made this post, I have made sligth changes in my lifestyle;
my girlfriend is away for some time so I am feeling even more alone, the first few days I was on computer all days etc bvut now after this thread I tried to reason with myself, I try to think so what if my girlfriend worked for another man (like id stuff for him, etc did things with him) and dno im trying to pass time by doing things which have been lying for some time:
i have started studying for my driving license, also for my exams and just trying to pass time somehow... But I am feeling VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY empty, I am trying to not think negative but still feel so empty that I feel like vomiting and really don't feel like living...
I am trying to help myself as much as I can, I have evolved alot and accept much more of my gf (before I wud get p*ssed even seeing her in miniskirts on pictures before me, but lately i discovered such pictures of her, I was hurt but not much - i tried reasoning).
So simone I dont know what to do.
And Dhundun, I will get Reckeweg 26 on monday, how often shall I take it...? and dont mind, but will I have to take many other remedies sir?
What is the Reckeweg for exactly, why did you prescribe it to me?
badshah19 last decade
Hi,
dhundhun said to take it- read page one of your thread- to detoxify,
drain and reactivate the system ( response to you saying you had
too many remedies, so this is to clear the slate)
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:21:36 BST]
dhundhun said to take it- read page one of your thread- to detoxify,
drain and reactivate the system ( response to you saying you had
too many remedies, so this is to clear the slate)
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:21:36 BST]
♡ simone717 last decade
Well it is true that me and my gf cut off mostly from outer world and went into each other completely last one year. Due to this we ruined ourselves more because we had lots of fights and stayed with each other even during that, thought too much about it and dont know we just cut off from world so there was so much. We both were/are over possessive so we wanted to keep ourselves for each other.
But now, since this thread, I have worked out a plan, where as I told we both will restart our worldly life too, she has to start attending her uni again , be more with her family and same with me. In fact i tried studying today but it was impossible, millions of thoughts come in my mind and I cant focus AT ALL and I cant even remember it later if i study (in contrast with my childhood where I had an abnormally sharp brain)
But as I said now Im trying to focus more on the individual too, which will do us good as being each others only supports and THEN fighting 24/7 on the top just made it worse, much worse.
The thing now is I have worked alot on myself, but my GF lied to me in the beginning alot too due to which I lost lots of confidence in her. So I feel empty because of several things:
1. All my life i stayed in house due to various reasons; strict parents, no friends, gynecomastia (so not even going out alone in summer, beach) and so much more. and I did nothng people my age have done, going on holidays (except trips with class..)
2. I always wanted a 'pure' wife, a gf/wife who preserved herself completely for herh usband blabla, and now after breakups etc over this issue, i have finally come to term that the Love of my life is not what I wanted but ILL HAVE to do with it. Even though I cant live without her, I do feel as if I am in some kind of agreement with life. Its really weird, I just feel as if im 'living' with her, not enjoying myself. Its difficult to explain, its just as if im alive only biologically but i feel empty because my deepest inner expectations died somehow with her past and also her behaviour with me in the beginning (and also now, but she has a messed past/childhood too)
3. The fact that she lied etc makes it worse, so I'll try to talk it through but PROPERLY a to z when shes back about what she lied and what not and then go ahead...
I feel empty because of all those things. Im like i ruined my 19-20 years, I will be in the same situation (dependant on parents, not seeing gf often etc not going out often) for another 3-4 years atleast and theres my youth gone?? What have I gained in life? I swear I've spent years closed in a room Simone, years just in house and escaping life on the internet on movie forums games religious forums, u name it.
I feel empty I dont know how to explain, I feel as if I have ruined my life, whats there to live for? Even though I love my gf, I dont know I dont see happines in anything.
I used to get happy by watching movies, i dont anymore. Reading about history religion made me happy, not anymore. Nothing makes me happy anymore. Even the things I craved for all life long, such as partying friends travelling dont excite me anymore. I feel so so empty I cant even explain simone... and my gf has issues herself so atleast I want to be okay :(
I dont think i've had nat mur, but I prefer to take one similimum or atleast partial similmum instead of diff remedies? Or is it okay to take several remedies? Becuse I was with Dr david for a long time and he was pretty much into having one remedy over a time (i had bad aggravations with him though and he used to reply pretty late, still i respect him for the time he took out)
And thanks for clearifying for Reckeweg 26 (how long do I need to take it?)
How will accupuncture help me?
And Dhundun, dont mind sir but it seems you are not reading details of my posts? Because you havent asked anything specific related to my mental health etc?
[message edited by badshah19 on Fri, 29 Mar 2013 21:41:37 GMT]
But now, since this thread, I have worked out a plan, where as I told we both will restart our worldly life too, she has to start attending her uni again , be more with her family and same with me. In fact i tried studying today but it was impossible, millions of thoughts come in my mind and I cant focus AT ALL and I cant even remember it later if i study (in contrast with my childhood where I had an abnormally sharp brain)
But as I said now Im trying to focus more on the individual too, which will do us good as being each others only supports and THEN fighting 24/7 on the top just made it worse, much worse.
The thing now is I have worked alot on myself, but my GF lied to me in the beginning alot too due to which I lost lots of confidence in her. So I feel empty because of several things:
1. All my life i stayed in house due to various reasons; strict parents, no friends, gynecomastia (so not even going out alone in summer, beach) and so much more. and I did nothng people my age have done, going on holidays (except trips with class..)
2. I always wanted a 'pure' wife, a gf/wife who preserved herself completely for herh usband blabla, and now after breakups etc over this issue, i have finally come to term that the Love of my life is not what I wanted but ILL HAVE to do with it. Even though I cant live without her, I do feel as if I am in some kind of agreement with life. Its really weird, I just feel as if im 'living' with her, not enjoying myself. Its difficult to explain, its just as if im alive only biologically but i feel empty because my deepest inner expectations died somehow with her past and also her behaviour with me in the beginning (and also now, but she has a messed past/childhood too)
3. The fact that she lied etc makes it worse, so I'll try to talk it through but PROPERLY a to z when shes back about what she lied and what not and then go ahead...
I feel empty because of all those things. Im like i ruined my 19-20 years, I will be in the same situation (dependant on parents, not seeing gf often etc not going out often) for another 3-4 years atleast and theres my youth gone?? What have I gained in life? I swear I've spent years closed in a room Simone, years just in house and escaping life on the internet on movie forums games religious forums, u name it.
I feel empty I dont know how to explain, I feel as if I have ruined my life, whats there to live for? Even though I love my gf, I dont know I dont see happines in anything.
I used to get happy by watching movies, i dont anymore. Reading about history religion made me happy, not anymore. Nothing makes me happy anymore. Even the things I craved for all life long, such as partying friends travelling dont excite me anymore. I feel so so empty I cant even explain simone... and my gf has issues herself so atleast I want to be okay :(
I dont think i've had nat mur, but I prefer to take one similimum or atleast partial similmum instead of diff remedies? Or is it okay to take several remedies? Becuse I was with Dr david for a long time and he was pretty much into having one remedy over a time (i had bad aggravations with him though and he used to reply pretty late, still i respect him for the time he took out)
And thanks for clearifying for Reckeweg 26 (how long do I need to take it?)
How will accupuncture help me?
And Dhundun, dont mind sir but it seems you are not reading details of my posts? Because you havent asked anything specific related to my mental health etc?
[message edited by badshah19 on Fri, 29 Mar 2013 21:41:37 GMT]
badshah19 last decade
You should see that:
After this thread i have thought of alot to clarify with my gf, patch up (our one year past has been constant fights and more sh*t with some good moments here n there). I have killed the suicidal thoughts and have started putting focus on other things, and certainly am keeping myself busy, have started studying for school n driving license but its hard cos i get SEVEREE concentration problems
But the thing is despite all that i have an empty feeling in me which KILLS Me, what have i gained from this life? I think of the thing that would've made me most happy in the past, but now it doesnt excite me at all. for example if before I wanted to go out to bars club with friends, and now i think 'what if i go out' ? I dont get any wow feeling just 'hmm even if i get to go there, so?' same with other stuff, cant enjoy anything.
And the stuff i mentioned above just made it harder, my gf whome i love but she lied alot to me in the beginning and i dontk now but i love her... and then her past which were my biggest aspirations to have a pure girl and then dno :(
its really complicated and i have done ALOT to work on myself and i HAVE succeeded, but the FACT that I CANT CANT CANT concentrate on anything, think about millions of things ALWAYS in bed walking sitting eating, I think of extreme things lots of things and dont know just think think and ruin myself my mind. cant concentrate on studies just start thinking of my past, my gfs past, how it ruined me, how others ruined me just think think think i think WAY TOO MUCh i swear you have no idea Simone how much I think, i spend my DAYS thinking, yday i spent 2 hours thinking in bed and even though i was tired i couldnt fall asleep because i KEPT thinking and dno couldnt stop thinking.
(request to dhundun, please read also my posts adressed to simone as it might help you? please help me, i want to have had Something in this life, because as everyone says i should be happy i got hands feet a gender everything but the fact that DESPITE HAVING ALL THAT i cant enjoy life or so many years of my life have been ruined just kill me... whats the difference betw me and some handicapped person? minus the physical disabilities my emotional system is same, im unhappy, and empty nothing in life. when i think of my life as a flashback all i see is home home fights school home sleep escapism on net, nothing nice, no friends, we dont have family friends either as my dad is too reserved and just its been a jail lifetime... I get tears to my eyes even thinking that ive had close to none thrilling or enjoyable moments in my life?
After this thread i have thought of alot to clarify with my gf, patch up (our one year past has been constant fights and more sh*t with some good moments here n there). I have killed the suicidal thoughts and have started putting focus on other things, and certainly am keeping myself busy, have started studying for school n driving license but its hard cos i get SEVEREE concentration problems
But the thing is despite all that i have an empty feeling in me which KILLS Me, what have i gained from this life? I think of the thing that would've made me most happy in the past, but now it doesnt excite me at all. for example if before I wanted to go out to bars club with friends, and now i think 'what if i go out' ? I dont get any wow feeling just 'hmm even if i get to go there, so?' same with other stuff, cant enjoy anything.
And the stuff i mentioned above just made it harder, my gf whome i love but she lied alot to me in the beginning and i dontk now but i love her... and then her past which were my biggest aspirations to have a pure girl and then dno :(
its really complicated and i have done ALOT to work on myself and i HAVE succeeded, but the FACT that I CANT CANT CANT concentrate on anything, think about millions of things ALWAYS in bed walking sitting eating, I think of extreme things lots of things and dont know just think think and ruin myself my mind. cant concentrate on studies just start thinking of my past, my gfs past, how it ruined me, how others ruined me just think think think i think WAY TOO MUCh i swear you have no idea Simone how much I think, i spend my DAYS thinking, yday i spent 2 hours thinking in bed and even though i was tired i couldnt fall asleep because i KEPT thinking and dno couldnt stop thinking.
(request to dhundun, please read also my posts adressed to simone as it might help you? please help me, i want to have had Something in this life, because as everyone says i should be happy i got hands feet a gender everything but the fact that DESPITE HAVING ALL THAT i cant enjoy life or so many years of my life have been ruined just kill me... whats the difference betw me and some handicapped person? minus the physical disabilities my emotional system is same, im unhappy, and empty nothing in life. when i think of my life as a flashback all i see is home home fights school home sleep escapism on net, nothing nice, no friends, we dont have family friends either as my dad is too reserved and just its been a jail lifetime... I get tears to my eyes even thinking that ive had close to none thrilling or enjoyable moments in my life?
badshah19 last decade
I have irrational fears, whenever i see any movie or hear of some unfaithful woman i think my gf might be betraying me too or might sleep with someone else when we in a fight or smth (as it happens alot) not just sleep just seek contact with others males. and once that thought comes in mind, i keep thinking of it all time, and i swear i cant do anything to change the thought, i am with that thought 24/7 with a weird feeling in my chest. and its not just about my gf going unfaitfhul, its just about her lying too about her past and just all kind of other stuff not even related to my gf... Dont know what to do, i swear i cant just keep these thoughts out, only medicine can help me
cos as I told I have tried hard to keep myself busy, think positively but there is still this feeling in my chest, of feeling 'anxious'? which just ruins me, stops me from enjoying anything...
And I just gave one example, dont generalise please my fears and these excess obsessive thoughts range from basically from anything minimal to big things in life like gf etc.
cos as I told I have tried hard to keep myself busy, think positively but there is still this feeling in my chest, of feeling 'anxious'? which just ruins me, stops me from enjoying anything...
And I just gave one example, dont generalise please my fears and these excess obsessive thoughts range from basically from anything minimal to big things in life like gf etc.
badshah19 last decade
I am waiting for dhundhun to reply here now. Whether he thinks
you should do the Reckeweg thing still or try another remedy.
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:24:21 BST]
you should do the Reckeweg thing still or try another remedy.
[message edited by simone717 on Sun, 31 Mar 2013 06:24:21 BST]
♡ simone717 last decade
dhundhun last decade
If you need more counseling services, please find some local counselor. Simone's has been doing best counseling. It's like one has to grow-up.
+Ve thinking, meditation, etc. will help to overcome many problems.
+Ve thinking, meditation, etc. will help to overcome many problems.
dhundhun last decade
Simone Ill reply to that after reading more about accupuncture. thanks
Reckeweg thrice a day 10 drops. Before or after eating? And alright Dhundun will get remedy today or monday.
Reckeweg thrice a day 10 drops. Before or after eating? And alright Dhundun will get remedy today or monday.
badshah19 last decade
The shops closed so will get the rmeedy monday and will start taking it monday itself. The three times i take it, how much difference has to be betw each time i take?
badshah19 last decade
Just keep one thing in mind please, last year my education got messed up because of severe aggravations where my concnetration levels dropped even worse than they are - please make sure that remedies now (after this reckeweg) dont have severe aggravations because I have exams in a few weeks (begin of june)
badshah19 last decade
Give a gap of 30 minutes before or after. Reduce dose (make 5 drops initially and increase to 10 drops), if you are concerned about any aggravations.
Combinations can be started with reduced dose and later working up to full dose.
Combinations can be started with reduced dose and later working up to full dose.
dhundhun last decade
Empty stomach is OK.
In general combinations are mild and don't cause aggravations. But homeopathic remedies work in two phases. action and reaction. Rightly selected remedy can cause aggravation during action phase. One need to go slow - e.g. skip or lower dose, whenever aggravation is perceived.
There are four types people:
~ Normal Sensitive
~ Hyposensitive - don't react to stimulus easily
~ Hypersensitive - in general allergic and emotional
~ Idiosyncratic - most sensitive to homeopathic remedies and SHOW UP MEDICINE SYMPTOMS
If you are Idiosyncratic type, any remedy will cause aggravation and you have to manage that.
In general combinations are mild and don't cause aggravations. But homeopathic remedies work in two phases. action and reaction. Rightly selected remedy can cause aggravation during action phase. One need to go slow - e.g. skip or lower dose, whenever aggravation is perceived.
There are four types people:
~ Normal Sensitive
~ Hyposensitive - don't react to stimulus easily
~ Hypersensitive - in general allergic and emotional
~ Idiosyncratic - most sensitive to homeopathic remedies and SHOW UP MEDICINE SYMPTOMS
If you are Idiosyncratic type, any remedy will cause aggravation and you have to manage that.
dhundhun last decade
Can aggravations be done quickly? Because last year i took remedies and felt dull/sluggish/slow for weeks and then i will surely fail my exams, do you understand Dhundun?
and the drops dont have to be mixed in water right?
and the drops dont have to be mixed in water right?
badshah19 last decade
Dhundun, please help me, i hate this feeling, feel so empty and feel like dying, there is no use in living...
badshah19 last decade
Nitric-A in Rickeweg R26 formula is best for you for feeling like dying symptom. I don't want to change it - many can recommend either Aconite 30 or Ars-a 30. I feel Nitric-A to be more closer to you. You can go for either Ars-a or Aconite of your own in 30 potency 3-4 times a day. Take two pills as on dose.
You will find direction of R26 on packet. It should be taken in 15-30 ml water in glass.
You will find direction of R26 on packet. It should be taken in 15-30 ml water in glass.
dhundhun last decade
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