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Hi,I am 37 years old and I have a 10-month old baby. I realized that sometimes when I want him to go to sleep and he does not, I get a weird feeling inside myself that I want to yell and to break things around me and I want to punch as hard as possible into a wall and then because I dont do these crazy stuff (or maybe I should say I suppress them) I burst into cry. This doesnt happen all the time. Just once in a while when I really need a break for myself or I am exhausted. I am all by myself and I dont have any help. I would say this happens maybe 2-3 times in a month.
Can somebody please tell me what remedy should I take for this condition? I feel a big big pressure inside me during these sessions.
I also have a tooth with chronic infection, no abscess though.
Thanks,
Beth
beth2006 on 2008-07-01
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Alright then , just 3 doses of Sepia 30c equally spaced for 1 single day only.
Just wait and watch after these 3 doses for 5 days and report status.
Just wait and watch after these 3 doses for 5 days and report status.
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameervemani,
Thank you for your help. FYI last time I took sepia it was 4 months ago and I took sepia 200c.
do you think 30c will have any affect on me? I mean considering the fact that I took sepia 200c before?
please let me know.
Best regards,
Beth
Thank you for your help. FYI last time I took sepia it was 4 months ago and I took sepia 200c.
do you think 30c will have any affect on me? I mean considering the fact that I took sepia 200c before?
please let me know.
Best regards,
Beth
beth2006 last decade
And how many doses did you take ?
This irritability at your child , was it there before you took Sepia 200c ?
What other remedies were taken between the Sepia 200 and now.
This irritability at your child , was it there before you took Sepia 200c ?
What other remedies were taken between the Sepia 200 and now.
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
First of all I have to say that I dont have these sessions just with my baby. I get these anger feelings sometimes when I discuss with other people as well (for example with my husband).
Anyway, I had 3 doses of sepia 30c in jan and then 1 dose sepia 200c in feb and then another dose of sepia 200c in march. I had a few problems that sepia had a good affect on them but I wasnt like this back then. I mean I had suppressed anger but I didnt have this desire to break things or punch. Then on april I took a few doses of arnica 30c for jet lag cause we went overseas. And finally it was sometime in april that I took 1 dose of avena sativa 30c.
That is about it. If I should explain more please let me know.
Thank you,
Beth
First of all I have to say that I dont have these sessions just with my baby. I get these anger feelings sometimes when I discuss with other people as well (for example with my husband).
Anyway, I had 3 doses of sepia 30c in jan and then 1 dose sepia 200c in feb and then another dose of sepia 200c in march. I had a few problems that sepia had a good affect on them but I wasnt like this back then. I mean I had suppressed anger but I didnt have this desire to break things or punch. Then on april I took a few doses of arnica 30c for jet lag cause we went overseas. And finally it was sometime in april that I took 1 dose of avena sativa 30c.
That is about it. If I should explain more please let me know.
Thank you,
Beth
beth2006 last decade
Hmm.. okay tell me when did this suppression of anger start.. and can you correlate the start of these problems to any life event ?
Let me know any fears or anxieties you have got as well.
Also, tell me do you like to share things ?
Are you an inrovert or an extrovert ?
How do you respond when consoled ?
What are your primary concerns ?
What do you love to do if given free time ?
Let me know any fears or anxieties you have got as well.
Also, tell me do you like to share things ?
Are you an inrovert or an extrovert ?
How do you respond when consoled ?
What are your primary concerns ?
What do you love to do if given free time ?
sameervermani last decade
Hi,
Please find answers inline.
Hmm.. okay tell me when did this suppression of anger start.. and can you correlate the start of these problems to any life event ?
I guess it gradually happened after my marriage. It is along story so I dont explain it more. If you need more explanation let me know.
Let me know any fears or anxieties you have got as well.
fear of ghost, fear of height, fear of burglar,
Anxiety by thinking about intercourse, and after having baby anxiety about raising a perfect human being.
Also, tell me do you like to share things ?
Nooooo. Not at all, in terms of stuff but I will share my experiences easily if somebody asks.
Are you an introvert or an extrovert ?
I used to be introvert but since 4-5 years ago I decided to be extrovert and still trying to stay extrovert. This way I become less angry.
How do you respond when consoled ?
It depends on who that person is, but in general I dont like sympathy or pity. As a result I dont like to share my problems with others. There are some exceptions (I would say maybe 2-3 friends of mine that I would talk to them about my problems). I used to be very ambitious, decisive and aggressive. But after having baby I decided to be more kind of flexible person.
What are your primary concerns ?
Physically:
I get pimples or acne or whatever you call it on my face specially on my right cheek and also on my back.
I have a root canalled tooth that is broken in the root and it has chronic infection.
I have a bartholin cyst (very small one)
Emotionally:
This crazy feeling I get inside from time to time as I mentioned (want to yell and break).
Sometimes about my husband I think I will get a revenge.
Mentally:
Not a good memory
What do you love to do if given free time ?
If you mean after having baby: going for a walk in a sunny warm condition. Taking a long bath, or maybe writing.
But in general I love to go to nature, I love gardening, sports and sometimes baking. which I cant do any of them because of my baby.
I guess it would be helpful if I mention how much I love babies and kids in general. During my pregnancy I took childhood education classes and I went to a daycare for learning practical things about children. I want my baby to be a perfect one. And I am trying my best.
Thank you,
Beth
Please find answers inline.
Hmm.. okay tell me when did this suppression of anger start.. and can you correlate the start of these problems to any life event ?
I guess it gradually happened after my marriage. It is along story so I dont explain it more. If you need more explanation let me know.
Let me know any fears or anxieties you have got as well.
fear of ghost, fear of height, fear of burglar,
Anxiety by thinking about intercourse, and after having baby anxiety about raising a perfect human being.
Also, tell me do you like to share things ?
Nooooo. Not at all, in terms of stuff but I will share my experiences easily if somebody asks.
Are you an introvert or an extrovert ?
I used to be introvert but since 4-5 years ago I decided to be extrovert and still trying to stay extrovert. This way I become less angry.
How do you respond when consoled ?
It depends on who that person is, but in general I dont like sympathy or pity. As a result I dont like to share my problems with others. There are some exceptions (I would say maybe 2-3 friends of mine that I would talk to them about my problems). I used to be very ambitious, decisive and aggressive. But after having baby I decided to be more kind of flexible person.
What are your primary concerns ?
Physically:
I get pimples or acne or whatever you call it on my face specially on my right cheek and also on my back.
I have a root canalled tooth that is broken in the root and it has chronic infection.
I have a bartholin cyst (very small one)
Emotionally:
This crazy feeling I get inside from time to time as I mentioned (want to yell and break).
Sometimes about my husband I think I will get a revenge.
Mentally:
Not a good memory
What do you love to do if given free time ?
If you mean after having baby: going for a walk in a sunny warm condition. Taking a long bath, or maybe writing.
But in general I love to go to nature, I love gardening, sports and sometimes baking. which I cant do any of them because of my baby.
I guess it would be helpful if I mention how much I love babies and kids in general. During my pregnancy I took childhood education classes and I went to a daycare for learning practical things about children. I want my baby to be a perfect one. And I am trying my best.
Thank you,
Beth
beth2006 last decade
Dear Sameer,
Could please advice for the following issues for my baby as well?
He is constipated. I gave him 1 dose of bryonia 6c yesterday and another dose today. I usually solve one globule in 1cc water and give him two teaspoon each time. His stool is hard and dark brown and sometimes very dry. He has difficulty to expel his stool. He has to push to the point that his face gets really red. Despite constipation he has a regular bowel habit, meaning he does it every morning after eating breakfast. Do you think I should give him more of bryonia?
Another problem is his skin. He gets some tiny small red spots on his skin from time to time. They are on his back, mostly on the back of his neck and between shoulders. Some of them are bigger with white head. About 2 weeks ago he got some sort of rash as well (which the appearance was exactly the same as what he has on his skin now but he got lots of them on his torso). They are gone now. When he was younger he got red spots without white head around his neck and ears. He has an organic diet and all his clothes are 100% cotton.
His constitutional is phosphorous.
Thank you for your help and your time.
Beth
Could please advice for the following issues for my baby as well?
He is constipated. I gave him 1 dose of bryonia 6c yesterday and another dose today. I usually solve one globule in 1cc water and give him two teaspoon each time. His stool is hard and dark brown and sometimes very dry. He has difficulty to expel his stool. He has to push to the point that his face gets really red. Despite constipation he has a regular bowel habit, meaning he does it every morning after eating breakfast. Do you think I should give him more of bryonia?
Another problem is his skin. He gets some tiny small red spots on his skin from time to time. They are on his back, mostly on the back of his neck and between shoulders. Some of them are bigger with white head. About 2 weeks ago he got some sort of rash as well (which the appearance was exactly the same as what he has on his skin now but he got lots of them on his torso). They are gone now. When he was younger he got red spots without white head around his neck and ears. He has an organic diet and all his clothes are 100% cotton.
His constitutional is phosphorous.
Thank you for your help and your time.
Beth
beth2006 last decade
Hmm can you please answer these questions as well ?
Do you have a aggravation froma daytime nap or a General aggravation from sleep (irritable, unrefreshed, etc.) ?
Ever had STYES OR TUMORS on the eye lids ?
Do you suffer from insomnia ?
Do you ever have trembling FROM ANGER OR EMOTIONS ?
Do you have a aggravation froma daytime nap or a General aggravation from sleep (irritable, unrefreshed, etc.) ?
Ever had STYES OR TUMORS on the eye lids ?
Do you suffer from insomnia ?
Do you ever have trembling FROM ANGER OR EMOTIONS ?
sameervermani last decade
Are you sure his constitutional remedy is Phosphorus ?
Can you please describe his temperament (without keeping Phosphorus picture in mind ) ?
Can you please describe his temperament (without keeping Phosphorus picture in mind ) ?
sameervermani last decade
♡ gavinimurthy last decade
'Hmm can you please answer these questions as well ?
Do you have a aggravation froma daytime nap or a General aggravation from sleep (irritable, unrefreshed, etc.) ?
Ever had STYES OR TUMORS on the eye lids ?
Do you suffer from insomnia ?
Do you ever have trembling FROM ANGER OR EMOTIONS '
These questions are to confirm Staphy only :), these are ALL keynotes of Staph. if you notice.
Do you have a aggravation froma daytime nap or a General aggravation from sleep (irritable, unrefreshed, etc.) ?
Ever had STYES OR TUMORS on the eye lids ?
Do you suffer from insomnia ?
Do you ever have trembling FROM ANGER OR EMOTIONS '
These questions are to confirm Staphy only :), these are ALL keynotes of Staph. if you notice.
sameervermani last decade
Do you have a aggravation from a daytime nap or a General aggravation from sleep (irritable, unrefreshed, etc.) ?
Well, if I can get a nap after lunch it would be great but with my baby this happens not very often. As for the night time sleep since my baby wakes up a few times I cant get a good sleep so I am not fresh in the morning. But I used to sleep very good.
Ever had STYES OR TUMORS on the eye lids ?
Never.
Do you suffer from insomnia ?
No.
Do you ever have trembling FROM ANGER OR EMOTIONS '
Oh, yes. There were times when I had a fight with my husband and I ended up with trembling, which makes him feel pity for me and makes me puke. I dont need anybody feeling pity for me.
Well, if I can get a nap after lunch it would be great but with my baby this happens not very often. As for the night time sleep since my baby wakes up a few times I cant get a good sleep so I am not fresh in the morning. But I used to sleep very good.
Ever had STYES OR TUMORS on the eye lids ?
Never.
Do you suffer from insomnia ?
No.
Do you ever have trembling FROM ANGER OR EMOTIONS '
Oh, yes. There were times when I had a fight with my husband and I ended up with trembling, which makes him feel pity for me and makes me puke. I dont need anybody feeling pity for me.
beth2006 last decade
Okay then please take 3 doses of Staphysagria 30C equally spaced for a single day only.
Dissolve 2 pellets in 250 ml water bottle, and 1 teaspoon from this bottle is 1 dose.
Report in 1 week after this.
Sameer
Dissolve 2 pellets in 250 ml water bottle, and 1 teaspoon from this bottle is 1 dose.
Report in 1 week after this.
Sameer
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
Followings are my sons characteristics. Please let me know if I am wrong about his constitutional.
First of all I should say I have never seen any baby full of life as much as he is. He is very intelligent, very sweet, very kind and friendly and he is fun to be with. He grabs peoples attention.
He has the most beautiful eyes, very clear and gentle and full of life again. Very nice eyelashes. He loves being hugged and being touched. In one word he a very good tempered baby. He is hyperactive but then he needs to be calm down every 3-4 hours. His crying resembles an innocent baby. You know you want to hug him when he cries. He wont cry unless he has a real issue or problem. When I take him to the doctor he follows doctors hand every time doctor wants to measure him or check something about him. He always very aware of what is going on around him. He has sensitive senses. He likes light.
Please let me know what I should do regarding his issue as I mentioned in my previous posting.
Thank you so much,
Beth
Followings are my sons characteristics. Please let me know if I am wrong about his constitutional.
First of all I should say I have never seen any baby full of life as much as he is. He is very intelligent, very sweet, very kind and friendly and he is fun to be with. He grabs peoples attention.
He has the most beautiful eyes, very clear and gentle and full of life again. Very nice eyelashes. He loves being hugged and being touched. In one word he a very good tempered baby. He is hyperactive but then he needs to be calm down every 3-4 hours. His crying resembles an innocent baby. You know you want to hug him when he cries. He wont cry unless he has a real issue or problem. When I take him to the doctor he follows doctors hand every time doctor wants to measure him or check something about him. He always very aware of what is going on around him. He has sensitive senses. He likes light.
Please let me know what I should do regarding his issue as I mentioned in my previous posting.
Thank you so much,
Beth
beth2006 last decade
Okay , so when was Phosphorus given to him and in what potency , how many doses ?
sameervermani last decade
never. I am asking if this is the right thing to do? so far I just gave him 2 doses of bryonia 6c as I mentioned before. now if you recommend phos please let me know how should I give it to him. and what potency.
thanks a lot.
thanks a lot.
beth2006 last decade
Okay then , start with just 2 doses of Phosphorus 6c spaced by 1 hour.
Dissolve 2 pellets in 250 ml, and 1 tsp from there is 1 dose.
Let me know in 3 days.
Dissolve 2 pellets in 250 ml, and 1 tsp from there is 1 dose.
Let me know in 3 days.
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
It has been 3 days since my son took 2 doses of phos 6c. As far as I can see there are no changes at all. Everything is same as before. Should I repeat the phos?
By the way maybe it is the way I prepare the remedy. I dissolved 2 pellets in 3 ml of tap water and then I pour it into a bottle of tap water (250ml). The bottle I used was a bottle of spring water. Is that the right way? Or should I use bottled water instead of tap water?
I have another guess: I think he has a bashful stool. I AM NOT SURE though. Whenever he wants to poop I hold him as if he is sitting on a potty and I am saying bashful because I can see that his stool comes out while he pushes a lot and then as soon as he stop pushing it recedes so he has to push again.
Thank you for your time,
Beth
It has been 3 days since my son took 2 doses of phos 6c. As far as I can see there are no changes at all. Everything is same as before. Should I repeat the phos?
By the way maybe it is the way I prepare the remedy. I dissolved 2 pellets in 3 ml of tap water and then I pour it into a bottle of tap water (250ml). The bottle I used was a bottle of spring water. Is that the right way? Or should I use bottled water instead of tap water?
I have another guess: I think he has a bashful stool. I AM NOT SURE though. Whenever he wants to poop I hold him as if he is sitting on a potty and I am saying bashful because I can see that his stool comes out while he pushes a lot and then as soon as he stop pushing it recedes so he has to push again.
Thank you for your time,
Beth
beth2006 last decade
Hmm..this is pointing to Silicea very much.
Put 2 pellets of Silicea 6C directly in the 250 ml bottle of spring water. If you leave them for 20 mins they will dissolve by themslves.
Then give two 1 spoon doses from the bottle spaced by 1 hour.
Put 2 pellets of Silicea 6C directly in the 250 ml bottle of spring water. If you leave them for 20 mins they will dissolve by themslves.
Then give two 1 spoon doses from the bottle spaced by 1 hour.
sameervermani last decade
sameervermani last decade
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