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Thank you Rana! I am a hypnotherapist and have used eft for a while now. I don't know why the eft hasn't worked on her (perhaps I should try it remotely ie. using myself in place of her?), but it hasn't. She is a truly sweet child and I had thought for a long while that perhaps this was something she needed to do (in the same way some children suck their thumbs), but I am now starting to wonder if there isn't a deeper clearing that needs to happen.
 
gentlemother last decade
finally someone who has used this wonderful tool. do you believe in past life experiences coming into the present life? just a thought. have you tried the eft on her fear of spiders? i am asuming you did. honestly with my son and his bed wetting i found when i spanked him for punishment that it would cause him to wet the bed. it made him feel angry unloved ect. it took me less them 2 weeks to figure it out but i did learn a valuable lesson.
do you know anyone else in your area that does eft? sometimes an outsider can have more effect than a parents close relationship. just a thought. please keep us posted.
 
rana1968 last decade
I just want to give you some form of hope. My daughter also did this as a young child and it really was distrubing. I asked tons of questions to a number of doctors cause this to me was not normal. But i guess some children just discover it and they like the way it feels so they continue it. She was also the same would get mad if you stopped her. She did this from about a year old until she was a little over 3 i told her one time it was naughty and that little girls should not do it and i have never seen her do it again. I think its a phase ours took a long time to grow out of but i think its just the feeling they like may be distrubing and uncomfortable but it will pass. Hope that helps a little :)
 
angvallance last decade
Dear Gentlemother,

Could you let me know if your daught is getting better now followed by the medication recommanded on this website or is she still continue doing it? Please get in touch as I have some information to share.

Amy
 
lostlost last decade
Dear Gentlemother, i have a 2 year and 5 month old daughter who has the same symptoms and behaves the same way. Only when I catch her, I make her stop. However, I am afraid to leave her with anyone, since she probably will do this when I'm not going to be there to stop her, then everyone will know our secret. Please let me know if anything has helped you. My next step is to seek medical advice, hard to do because we are embarassed. Thank you.
 
mommy4 last decade
To all parents reading this, please don't let your embarrassment get the better of you.

I have only just joined this group because I was searching these exact symptoms, especially the chronic masturbation and insomnia (which explains why I'm posting at almost three in the morning). According to my mother I had these symptoms myself when I was a toddler. But, because of embarrassment about the subject and years of being told what a naughty thing it was to do, I have hidden the the fact that I never grew out of it from everyone, especially family, since I was very young (probably around 4 or 5 years old). I've grown up being too ashamed and disgusted with myself to look for help before now.

Nothing was ever done about this and I am still having problems with it now as a young adult. I haven't been sleeping for more than 2 or 3 hours at a time. And instead will use my time in bed masturbating for hours.

I am even considering dropping some incredible offers and going to a local college simply because I don't know how I would be able to explain myself to a roommate. I'm genuinely concerned now that I may have a medical problem. If this is the case, please be sure to help your daughters and not ignore their problem hoping it will go away despite the embarrassing nature of this subject.
 
Sigma last decade

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