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Teenage love

My friends daughter and her boyfriend recently broke up. The boy broke it off suddenly for no apparent reason - though he asked when breaking off 'How long have we been going out', and other things. He wanted to come to her house the next day to talk to her. Backing up a bit, she was so shocked when he broke it off over the phone that she went histerical. Half hour later she called him and told him not to come over, that she didn't want to talk to him again. She was very distraught. They are both 14, really nice kids, going out about 8 months. Apparently they never got to the kissing stage - both nervous, he seems to suffer from severe tiredness at times got worse as the relationship deepened, possibly from the nervous tension of wanting to move forward with the relationship. He gave her love letters. She went on vacation over the summer and when she got back he looked like he was under great stress, broke up a week later.
Seems now that he is trying to get her back, (she has a new boyfriend, possibly a rebounder) but she really wont give him much chance to talk, seems he may want to still explain his actions but she seems to want to block the pain.
Both these kids look very much like Phosphoricum Acidum, have both had good friends move house, also there is homesickness on both sides, both have thinned down, she has itchy nose, loud stomach rumbling, he nervous tiredness, better from sleeping, possible he is masturbating to get himself over his teenage emotional crisis, seems very enervated now, sometimes sits down suddenly or lays on the floor, has back pain.
My heart is breaking for these two kids who clearly loved each other very much but struggled with losing some of their best friends.
(They are both military children). I gave a dose of Phos Acid to the girl and she seems a bit cheerier.
Question is: will she regain her love of the troubled boyfriend and go back to him, or will she continue with the current one? She really needs to give him a chance to explain himself.
thanks
salty
 
  saltOftheEarth on 2006-10-01
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Romeo and juliet ?
You cant use homeopathy to procure what YOU see as a happy ending.
Here there is a stage of 'growing up ' , how they deal with it will determine their maturity.

Thats life -- as they say.

Sorry if I seem heartless.
 
walkin last decade
Very well said Walkin.
There are some situations which pose a moral dilema for us all, do we step in to facilitate a situation WE want to see happen, or do we let nature take it's course, and only act if we are called upon for help?

The answer of course should always be the latter.

If she feels the need to go back with this boy, then she will do so. They are 14, they don't even know what 'love' is yet, and are therefore hardly the love of eachother's lives.


-Jacob.
 
Hahnemania last decade
'Romeo and juliet ?
You cant use homeopathy to procure what YOU see as a happy ending.
Here there is a stage of 'growing up ' , how they deal with it will determine their maturity.

Thats life -- as they say.

Sorry if I seem heartless.





Very well said Walkin.
There are some situations which pose a moral dilema for us all, do we step in to facilitate a situation WE want to see happen, or do we let nature take it's course, and only act if we are called upon for help?

The answer of course should always be the latter.

If she feels the need to go back with this boy, then she will do so. They are 14, they don't even know what 'love' is yet, and are therefore hardly the love of eachother's lives.


-Jacob.'



I guess I should have known better than to come here looking for a professional opinion in relation to the Phosphoricum Acidum state of mind.
I never stated that I wanted for these kids to reunite solely based on my wants and needs. It is their wants and needs solely up for discussion and how they could get from underneath their cloud of unfortunate events to maybe find their way back to each other, as seems clear from the way they look at each other there is much spark there.
Neither of you touched on the remedy state at all, choosing to reflect on a movie.
One would be curious as to why you even come here at all as you don't seem to offer much in the realm of healing or love.
How could teens know love? I remember knowing love when I was a teen and wrote a love letter to a guy, and the moment I got close to him and held his hand, and the overwhelming feeling of happiness and warmth that enveloped me. That is love, and I still feel that today.
I hope you both find some love in your life or maybe you need a few doses of Phoshoricum Acidum?

have an electrically filled lovely day,
Salty
 
saltOftheEarth last decade
'Puppy love' is most definitely not the same thing as real 'love', which comes only with experience and maturity. Kids will 'fall in love' with anyone and anything, and unless you are still experiencing this type of emotion now, in later life, which would worry me greatly, you would know the difference.

You did express a desire to get these two kids together, if you had not two complete strangers would not have jumped upon this, and this is not the purpose of Homoeopathy, which is a medical science.

Why do I come here? to treat the sick, not to play matchmaker. As I said, if this girl wanted to get back with this young man, she will do so, but like all kids her age, and from the sound of it, she has simply moved on to the next, as kids do. It's the 'shiney object syndrome' that all kids suffer from I'm afraid. As stated above, that's life.

Finally, I do not see how Phos Ac fits into the above situation at all, except maybe for the masturbatory habits of the young man, and I'm not even going to ask how you would know these habits...


-Jacob
 
Hahnemania last decade

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