Hursutism painful sex yet overly horny herbalist needs help badly!!

To all of you amazing homeopathic experts out there, I beg for your help. I am a long time herbalist with some very stange problems that I just can't seem to get a handle on. I'll try to give as much info as I can. I was laways fearful, always had horrible nightmares as a child. I had a very very difficult time in school. I got teased alot. I became very sexualy attractive (or so I'm told) in high school, but was never able to have intercourse. I'm now 28 years old, and still have this problem. I have night sweats, and quite alot of facial hair. I'm half european, half israeli. Can be high strung, but conciously slow down on purpose... can also be sluggish. get nausious in cars sometimes. Was intolerant to cold, but not so much anymore. swelling of joints sometimes. headaches with menstrual cycle. periods always late, usualy painful. agressive PMS. VERY VERY sensitive, internalizes everything. Fear of rejection, fear of working, fear of abondonment above all else. nightmares of abandonment. afraid to be sexual, yet very sexual by nature. Sometimes urge to orgasm that seems unnaturaly strong, urgent, needs to masturbate immediately. laziness... i'm 5'3, about 125 lbs, in pretty good shape (i'm a dancer), dark hair and light eyes. fair skin... please, if any of you could shed some light on this for me, I would be extremely grateful. I take saw palmetto, vitex, and holy basil... thanks for taking the time to review this post!!