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Victim Mentality

Hey Everyone!

Out of curiosity, does anybody have ideas on homeopathic remedies that might be indicated for someone stuck in a victim type mentality? That being the main cause of serious depression as well as focusing/dwelling on circumstances. Not very good at the physical realities of life, taking care of oneself, having money, a job. Kind of in his own "emotional" world. Sees little hope, no way out of situations. Unable to look at or see the small steps that need to be taken to reach the desired result and out of a situation. Lots of self-pity, low self-worth/self-esteem. Allows other people to walk all over him. Very little will, unable to decide on anything (mind wavers). Not grounded, spacey, dreamy. Remembers lots of specific times and details of when people criticized him, even going back 20 years ago. Doesn't always necessarily blame others all the time, most often is harsh towards himself. Melancholy, not very happy, finds very little joy in life. Regrets every decision, looking back, thinking what would have happend if he had done something different. Also tends to be a "grass is greener on the other side," type person.

Thanks so much!

Steve
 
  Herbalguy451 on 2006-03-01
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Forgot to add, though this may go without saying, but tendency to feel that he is cursed, that life/God is out to get him, life is unfair, that everything happens to him and everybody else around him is getting lucky.
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
your detail is ok but it is not in format and some other related symptom are required to select the right medicine so I request you present your sign & symptoms with your expression / sensation / Feeling / Event / Gesture in turn of . I will present you a healthy prescription to you

1. Age
2. Sex
3. Married/Unmarried
4. weight
5. country
6. climate
7. List of you complain first 1. 2.. 3 ……
8. Diabetic or non Diabetic
9. Desire sweets/sour/salt
10. Thirst
11. Tongue
12. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
13. What exactly is happening ?
14. How do you feel ?
15. How does this affect you ?
16. How does it feel like ?
17. What comes to your mind ?
18. One situation that had a big effect on you ?
19. How did that feel like ?
20. What sensation do you experience in that situation ?
21. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand.(habits or Action) ?
22. current medicine you are taking
23. family back ground
24. qualification of patient
25. Nature of working
26. desire and aversion of food
27. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so.. on and how you are peculiar from other person, public speaking or not , you can describe all the detail about behavior, love and affection. Any confidential and private matter to be discuss by email.
28. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)

Dr. Deoshlok Sharma
 
deoshlok last decade
Hi Dr. Sharma,

1.) 28
2.) Male
3.) Unmarried
4.) 170
5.) USA
6.) Mountainous, currently Winter, cold, snowy.
7.) Depression, Vestibular Type Disorder
8.) Non-diabetic, but family history of
9.) Mostly desire sweets
10.) Generally not very thirsty, will go a long time without drinking anything and then be thirsty and gulp down two glasses of water.
11.) Coated white
12.) Not sure, has been higher than normal 130/90. One time was 60-110 when realy worked up, emotional, anxious.
13.) In addition to the mental/emotional symptoms mentioned earlier in this post, sensation as if moving, even when still, almost like moving along in a car, sometimes feel a rocking back and fourth, swaying sensation (worse when sitting and standing, better when moving. Riding in a car helps,coming to a stop makes it worse). Also sometimes things look like they are moving, or a swimming or jumping sensation. Like a book on the table, looks like it's jumping or moving up and down, or words on a page tend to swim or move. Feeling as if there is not enough "life force" energy in the lower parts, like lower legs and feet. Feel as if not grounded or feet do not touch the ground.

15.) The effect is not wanting to do anything, not wanting to carry out basic daily functions. Avoiding life, would rather sleep. Feel as if going to die or come out of body. Family and friends think crazy or being a baby.

17.) Never going to get better, no hope, nothing can be done. Feel like a failure, loser, nothing ever works out.

18.) Extreme fear/terror, feeling as if being psychically attacked, like going to die, be sucked out of body.

19.) Scared, frightened, screaming.

22.) None
23.) Diabetes, Lupus, Prostate Cancer, Depression (Mild), Acid Reflux.
25.) Currently Unemployed.
26.) Dislike VINEGAR. Like breads, cereals.

Thanks,

Steve
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
Forgot to mention, being under fluorescent lights, that makes the symptoms worse, feeling floaty, out of body, less energy in my lower legs/feet. Very sensitive to electrical/geopathic energy.

From a nutritional counselor I went to, kidneys and adrenals are very stressed/weak.
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
Some additional notes I thought of:

7.) Teeth - Weak enamel, dentin. Almost as if I'm losing so many minerals, some teeth, down toward the gums, at the bottom are starting to Lose structure, enamel wearing away, down to the dentin, and even through the dentin on one tooth. Almost as if the tooth was being eaten away or disentegrating.

13.) Sometimes when things are moving, it looks unreal, or almost like the object flickered or something, almost like you're watching a movie, one of those old ones on a projector reel and it doesn't always play at the same rate of speed, so something looks like it moves at normal speed and gets stuck for a fraction of a second and then moves the rest of the way. It's really strange.

27.) In addition to the mental symptoms previously mentioned in the first part of this post, very sensitive to criticism, easily takes offense to things. Overreacts. Take things VERY PERSONALLY. Try to avoid conflict, avoid problems rather than facing them. Withdraws. Likes to keep peace.

28.) Emotional symptoms are much worse by conflict. Least criticism or conflict and get depressed, hopeless, not wanting to live, hate myself, think negative things about myself even if it's just something small that someone says.

Atmospheric pressure changes can also worsen the symptoms of the feeling that I'm going to come out of my body.

Thanks a bunch,

Steve
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
Mr. Steve,
Lot of still you forget to metion any how .I come the point. I am not mentioned your symptoms and rubrics those I have selected.
You are advise to take Bufo Rana 6C daily three doses for a week and report me the regular daily followup report. If you will give the daily follow up then contine or otherwise select other doctors.
dr.deoshlok sharma
 
deoshlok last decade
Herbalguy451 said:-
7.) Teeth - Weak enamel, dentin. Almost as if I'm losing so many minerals, some teeth, down toward the gums, at the bottom are starting to Lose structure, enamel wearing away, down to the dentin, and even through the dentin on one tooth. Almost as if the tooth was being eaten away or disintegrating.

What dental work do you have?
Any root canals, implants, silver fillings, caps, crowns, etc.

What vaccinations have you had?

You say you live in the USA.
Do you eat "junk food" containing "aspartame" or "MSG", etc.
Is the water you drink and bathe in supplemented with a fluoride compound?

God Bless,
Tim
 
TimCam last decade
Hi Tim,

Have never had a cavity. I don't eat anything with aspartame or MSG. It's been years, probably 10 since I've had a soda, don't really eat junk food, rarely eat cake or ice cream or anything. Do tend to eat lots of carbohydrates. I think it might be something to do with saliva. My mom is a big drooler at night. Sometimes I'll wake up with a whole mouth full of saliva. Dosn't happen often, but has happened already and I'm convinced that it's related to that, that it's actually breaking the teeth down. My family line has always had teeth issues.

As far as vaccinations, I've had the typical ones. MMR (Mumps, Measels, Rubella). I think I may have had the Polio Vaccine as well. I don't remember which one it was, but when I was really young and got my first one, they had to call in extra people to hold me down cause I was kicking and screaming, I did NOT want to get it. Wow, maybe I intuitively knew back then that it was not something good for me!

I used to get flouride treatments at the dentist, but would throw up on them all the time, so I don't know how much good it ever did me. I live in an area that has hard water, and probably used to supply a lot of my minerals. When I started reading up more on healthy foods and lifestyle I decided that I didn't want to drink the tap water anymore, but there was a big controversy over which water was the best. Some claimed distilled water, others said that pulled too many minerals out of the body. Others said, it only pulls the inorganic ones out. So I started drinking distilled water and that could also be another issue. Have had urine and saliva testing done (Reams testing) and consistently shows that I'm losing minerals and protein. Liver is always congested, and kindeys and adrenals are usually stressed.

Thanks,

Steve
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
I've heard it said many times that excessive drooling at night or really any drooling at night/overnight is indicative of "BRAIN FATIGUE."

Dr. Sharma, Thanks for the response. Will post back when I get the remedy. Thanks again.

Steve
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
Hi Steve,

This may sound strange, but do you stay in the same house as your mother and father?
The reason I ask is a possible environmental agent may be causing your symptoms.
Looking at your family history.
23.) Diabetes, Lupus, Prostate Cancer, Depression (Mild), Acid Reflux.

Diabetes = toxins
Lupus = toxins
Prostate Cancer = toxins & viral
Depression = toxins & many others
Acid Reflux = toxins, bacterial, bad eating habits and diet, many others

If you do still stay in the same house, are the water pipes lead, copper, galvanized, etc.
Is the paint (possibly many coats underneath) lead based, etc.
Cooking pots aluminium?

Some things to look at.

God Bless,
Tim
 
TimCam last decade
Hi Tim,

Up until just a week ago I didn't. Moved back home from another state and staying with them temporarily until I get a job and my own place. Had not been living at home for many years.

Can't say there's been issues with pipes or anything. When I was in middle school, had upset/nervous stomach a lot and before I knew any better had been taking tums/rolaids (ALUMINUM) as if they were candy.

Even younger, had been around lots of chemicals and paint/paint thinner, cause my dad was in remodeling. Also spent a lot of time on a farm with my grandmother, so I'm sure there was stuff there too.

Have always been incredibly sensitive to chemicals/odors. Usually can't be around someone smoking a cigarette for more than a minute, and even then, I usually get a terrible headache instantly. Cleaning supplies do the same thing to me, I can't tolerate to be in a house where someone is using something to clean the windows or wash the floor etc. Usually headache is the first symptom, then it's upset stomach. I rarely get headaches, so I always know right away what caused it when I do. That I was around smoke or some chemical or ate some milk product or other allergen.

Thanks again,

Steve
 
Herbalguy451 last decade
Dr. Sharma,

Got the bufo rana 6c. Going to hold off a little bit though on taking, unless you think I should, because I've got a very nasty cold.

Started sneezing A LOT, like non-stop all day the other day, then started getting a sore throat. The next day woke up with a bad headache (frontal and side (temple)) and kind of achy all over. Just feeling like I was congested (head). Nose stuffed up, originally got more out of my left side than the right side. It's really strange, sometimes I'll feel like one minute my nose is completely clear and the next minute I can't breathe at all through my nose and if I do breathe in it's all stuffed up so I start coughing like crazy. Got about one hour of sleep last night, cause I just felt so miserable. Maybe a slight temperature, but nothing major.

Thanks,

Steve
 
Herbalguy451 last decade

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