a lot of issues, needing proper diagnosis and treatment

I have a lot of issues, and I heard it is best to diagnose something in homeopathy based on all the symptoms together, because everything is linked.

But first the basic questionaire:
1. Age 30
2. female
3. married
4. 56 kg
5. 160 cm
6. southasian
7. HOt (but grew up in cold areas with hardly any sun during puberty)
8. a few are listed below

i) severe calcium deficiency since childhood. (probably linked to vitamin D because hardly got any during puberty). didn't have many bone problems but had nutritional problems, had severe bone growth pains as a child, had extreme abdominal pains without any cause during childhood and puberty, had a protruding abdomen since I was a child, because of lax abdominal muscles, exercise never helped, the muscles are soft and all my life I have had and still have a protruding soft belly (lax muscles because the belly button isn't sunken). I have constantly had to suck in my tummy my entire life and have been so good at hiding it that nobody knows, not even my husband. But now due to some abdominal fat it has gotten difficult. I used to be extreme skinny and in the bathroom i would look at my belly and it would look around 7 to 8 months pregnant. Now I still try holding it in so it only looks like a 6 months pregnant belly, but if I let go it looks huge. It is hard to hide something so emotionally painful and tiring your entire life, but I had to do it because I could not handle people's remarks. I didn't even know what caused this abdomen and neither could I tell anyone to take me to a doc because then they'd know, mostly I feared my parents wouldn't care, that was the worst fear. I tried talking to a few doctors about it but they never understood. It was just recently through years and years of research that I figured this out. After ruling out every other possibility.I'm taking vitamin D and calcium but it doesn't seem to be helping, desperately need my tummy muscles to be normal like everyone, hope it is not too late to fix that.
Other than that my tummy muscles are fine, but I have constipation.
I also have crooked teeth and a receding chin. Due to stress my teeth are also deteriorating fast and I might have to have a root canal done of a few teeth at the front (which I don't want).

ii) breast asymmetry, (left breast is over a whole cup size smaller than the right and it is too obvious)

iii)premature greying since I was 24, mainly because of too much stress

iv)had hypothyroidism, but treated it with herbs and nutrition, but the fat that I gained won't go away, especially around abdomen

v) cellulite problem, especially belly and thighs

vi) fatigue and feeling sleepy a lot.

vii) anxiety, OCD, stress induced vertigo.

viii) yeast infection

ix) bad breath that sometimes goes away if I take zinc sulphate syrup a few times.

x) sensitive nose because of a broken nose a long time ago which isn't exactly straight. and it twitches a lot

xi) extreme leg pain at night ( probably related to vitamin D)

xii) since a few months I have been having sudden extreme back pain can't figure if it is ribs or backbone

xiii) have had UTIs a few times and kidney pain over the last 4 years.

xiv) constipation because of diet and because of abdominal muscles

xv) anal fissure that get worse with calcium intake

xvi) bunions

xvii)itching in throat and seasonal allergies

xviii) weak hair and nails that break easily

I would like an improvement in overall health, especially mental and emotional, and physically I would like my abdominal muscles to be tightened. You may address one problem at a time but starting with this one first.

9. Most symptoms since childhood or puberty

10. non-Diabetic
11. used to desire sour, now for the last few years desire sweet more. I used to hardly ever be hungry as well, now I am hungry all the time.
12. Thirsty a lot, always dehydrated, but sometimes water makes me feel nauseous
13. taste in mouth is always nasty (bad breath type)
14. BP is normal mostly

15. a few situations when I was a teenager, and feeling neglected most of my life since I was a baby. Also malnourished (accidentally) during childhood, being cheated on in love and can't seem to get over it because I feel there will be another surprise lurking round the next corner if I am not prepared to handle it. Have had a few nervous breakdowns.

16. Because there are so many different ailments I have tried a lot of things (herbal mostly), but most of my problems have never been diagnosed or treated at all.

17. Postgraduate
18. HOuse wife

19. OCDs, when i get obsessed with something it is hard to let go, always in a hurry, prone to sudden outbursts, always have anxiety and fears of what might happen, irritated easily. Extremely caring and loving and sensitive (the kind that comes under the calcarea PHos types. Extremely loving and caring when I like someone, but once I feel they have rejected me, slowly and slowly I have fantasies of leaving them in pain and feel satisfied at their torture (only in fantasy), and once I start these fantasies, slowly and slowly that person loses that love and there comes a time when I no longer care for them but only pretend to the world so nobody knows. But when I love, I love to the extreme. It is something that devours me and I'm obsessed. I have only loved one man and am married to him. But extremely needy, need a lot of reassurance of love, always fear I'm not loved.
Issues with trust since being cheated on (by the only person I have ever loved)and feeling paranoid despite being assured it won't happen now, and I think it won't but still have anxiety that what if it happens again. Can't shake the what-if. As if it might happen if I am not careful and forget what already happened.
Extremely low self-esteem, feeling like I am not good at anything (even though highly educated and proven to have a high IQ) but still feel that was all a coincidence or accidental.
Feeling ugly all the time even though everyone thinks I'm beautiful, but hate it when people insult me or degrade me in any way and no matter how much others praise me, I get stuck on the negative ones.
Afraid to get up on stage and face starts strange involuntary twitching, especially one eye when I feel a lot of people have their attention on me. Yet fight these feelings and still pretend to the world I am extremely confident, and nobody ever suspects that I am so extremely shy. Only I know the struggle. As a child I couldn't make eye contact, but forced myself to learn how to do it and only but he age of 12 did I actually learn to look someone in the eyes while talking to them.
By nature a person who never wants to harm anyone because I consider it the highest of sins, Only want to harm people that have harmed me, but even if I have the power and even if harming them is the right thing to do I try not to, and try to leave it to the higher power to handle. Mostly because of fear that event though they deserve it, they might not deserve it from my hand and so God's hand should handle it better.
Extremely spiritual, the kind that always has dreams that are true (premonitions). I always know when something is going to happen. It used to be a lot worse but now it's a little better. Used to have pain in solar plexus a a day before something extremely bad was going to happen.
Can't seem to forgive or forget childhood traumas, but can face the ones in adulthood. Yet can't forget when treated unjustly.
Seem to be blunt and honest (like a persona) but I actually can never be honest completely when I think someone might get hurt.
Very sensitive to family issues and feel like i should do something, don't like otehr people suffering.
feeling helpless and hopeless easily and always fighting with these feelings.
Feeling like life holds no charm and as if I only live for my kids.
Have a lot of friends who consider me their best friend but I can never truly open up to anyone, because of fear of being judged. I feel only I know and understand the problems I have, and even if a loved one wronged me only I have the right to judge them, because I know them better.

Get really stressed, had a few nervous breakdowns over the years, mostly in the last 3 years though due to circumstances.
Can't handle people's remarks about my face or body if negative.
Techincally fair skinned but body joints are dark and so is neck, and seem to be getting darker with age after kids.

Once I temporarily developed asthma for a few months due to stress.
Have self-treated hypothyroidism through herbs and nutrition.

Yes most of my problems are stress induced, because I can't control how I react to them, I just breakdown, and am overly sensitive.

20. only off-white vaginal discharge, and in times of severe stress have blood tinged mucous when I cough.

For Females Only
21. periods are mostly regular, 25 to 27 day cycles, severe PMS (extreme depressed and volatile), a lot of discharge before and after. Only cramping pain.


22. not pregnant, but when I am my babies are always born exactly 2 weeks before the due date.

I think I have overshared for the first time in my life , only in hopes of finding the right cure.
[message edited by dariakhan on Mon, 16 May 2016 09:55:23 UTC]