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Hi Simone,
Hope you are doing well my father's angioplasty has been done now he is better than previously. He is taking crategusQ 10 drops thrice a day.
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in my case i am in the same position when i work in shift i drink about 1.5 to 2 liter water and go to urinate 4-6 times during 8 hours at my office temperature is around 16 and i am alone on the floor so it is little cold for me.
at office when i have urge to urinate and if i do not go due to some work it starts irritating me and gives me a pain in kidneys.
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in second scenario when i am at home at week offs after getting up i pee first, then at empty stomach i drink about 500-700 ml water after drinking water i have an urge in next 30-45 minutes after that again i need to pee after 15-30 minutes. so this thing continue all day when i am at home.as per me somehow stream is ok but frequency and an irritating urge is always high.
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i am putting up third scenario during these days one night my mind was filled with sexual thoughts and my male organ was erected i was in dilemma to masturbate or not due to this i touched it many times meanwhile what happened i started feeling a kind of pain below my naval at right and left and in urethra also but this pain is not like the kidneys pain it is quite different. in addition to this. during the masturbation i feel a kind of sensation in my brain. after masturbation i had an urge to urinate, i observed that urine after 15 minutes of masturbation was dark yellow frothy and had bed smell. after masturbation i really became mentally weak since that day i am not able to sleep again and it is taking me too long to sleep again as well i am hardly able to sleep for 5 hours continuously.
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so overall what i feel my stream is better but frequency is high.
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one more thing my past is always haunting me i do not want to go outside specially to the places which are far from my home due to this killing urge and frequency which embarrasses me. i avoid going for dinner with friends or for anything due to this.
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last thing is this now a days i am taking less spicy and more fiber rich food but from last 15 days except few days i am badly suffering from constipation my stomach is not getting clear now a day i hardy pass stool in 24 hours where the quantity is less as well as color is very dark. but after taking nat sulphar gas problem is little reduced. and due to this constipation i am seeing acne at face it happens only when i am severely constipated
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at last i would say my stream is better but frequency is high
[message edited by shaizdin on Mon, 22 Sep 2014 01:49:27 BST]
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

Very Happy your father is doing so much better.

Questions for you-

1. We are working on the stricture-
do you feel that the stream is back up to the level after surgery?
Do you feel that the stream is ok/normal now ?
If not is it improving every day or few days?
What do you notice?

2. On slow bowels, Have things got better since Nat sulph on this
and are you still taking Nat Sulph?

3. It is totally understandable why you don't want to go out when
you have this frequency-
did you notice at all after surgery that the frequency was down
or was normal??

4. What does the urine look like most of the time now-
and is there any smell or burning or anything else you notice.

Thanks.
 
simone717 9 years ago
1.after surgery i was peeing like a horse that stream has not come back but with my current stream i would say it is satisfactory because previously when stricture was found before surgery stream was too low. Now urine comes with good flow but at the starting point of the stream it looks like it is coming from a squeezed pipe. just for example when we wash our car through a pipe at that time we cover and squueze the mouth of the pipe a little to make the pressure to wash the car. same stream i feel.
second thing i have noticed multiple times when my organ is half or fully erected then always urine starts with two streams. this is what i forgot to mention before. so stream is not back upto the level of post surgery neither i have seen much improvement i would say it is improved by 5 % just to satisfy myself but not a major improvement. I think post surgery stream was improved because of Catheter what they placed for a week

2. i am still taking nat sulphar i have just noticed an improvement in gas problem otherwise my constipation has worsen hardly there is an urge to pass the stool and if i pass the amount is very less and black.

3. after the surgery also stream was improved but frequency did not come down like a normal person. there was little change only. i complained the same thing to Dr. but he did not agree with me.he said this is normal.

4. the urine which is more than 1.5 Hours old is yellow i mean the older the darker. otherwise the supplementary urine is always clean has no color and no smell. and most of the time now urine is not frothy.

5 i just wrote about acne because i know it is caused by constipation which increases toxins in my body.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-Thio can take some months, so
I want you to change the bottle hits
to 10x each time instead of 6.

I have to take some time to go over
all the other and will get back to you
soon.

Best regards,

Simone717
 
simone717 9 years ago
simone,

is it ok if i make the medicine into 300 ml water which would end after a long time. beacause that amount of water i can shake and hit better compare to half cup if u agree on this then let me know how many drops of the medicine is required for 300 Ml water
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Ok- put 5 pills in that amount.

Keep it in the fridge, Make a new batch
of it every 5 days. Note any differences
and we can adjust.
 
simone717 9 years ago
sorry to bother you.
i have medicine in liquid form
so please tell me how many drops in what quantity of water for 5 days.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
How many drops have you been using?
 
simone717 9 years ago
3 drops in half cup of water i mean about 50 ml
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
keep using 3 drops
 
simone717 9 years ago
simone,

yesterday i was in night shift after finishing my shift i could not sleep whole day.
this sleeplessness is ruining my life i have empty of time to do many things but i cant do anything.
i had different thought coming to my mind can i resume taking five phos.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Yes - you can start that again and see if it helps.

I know you were getting 5 hours of sleep off and on-
have you ever had this before where you could not sleep
the whole day?
 
simone717 9 years ago
let me tell you what happened today. after coming back i slept around 9:15 AM after that i got up i thought it would be 4:00 PM but when i saw the time it was just 11:25. then i saw my phone i had a miss call from office once i call them back i came to know there was once escalation marked on my name due to a service outage. but i was not the culprit anyways then i prayed after that i took some milk and went to bed again and i kept thinking about the explanation what i will give in office that is y from 1:30 PM to 9:30 PM i was on the bed but i could not sleep i was always half awake. i was just turning my sides.
well it has happened with me many times when i could not sleep whole day after doing night shift
but recently when i took first two doses of thio i slept very well.
whenever i have something in mind i can not sleep
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
this extra non sleep is due to you worrying about whatever
that was on your name and having to explain. I think I understand
this better due to some intense media coverage here on
where you are working and the extra strange instability or
unpredictable outcomes and random expectations-

this is not a normal work experience-it is a high stress
work experience- like having lab rats with random conditioning-
which is the worst kind of conditioning bc you don't know
what may happen.
 
simone717 9 years ago
yesterday you had asked some questions about frequency and all then u said u will research on it and get back to me let me explain you few more things.
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i am trying to recall the things and what i remember back in 2006 i was studying computers this was the year when i started facing higher frequency as well as constipation i think both came together. at that moment stream was good i did not know what the hell this urethral stricture is. in 2008 i had started working in a university there i remember i was doing 9-5 job i used to take breakfast at 7:30 and before breakfast i used to drink enough water also. i remember i used to board college bus to reach office during the drive i never used to have urge but after reaching office i used to have urge to urinate. so at that time i had seen my frequency was more than my colleagues but there i never felt a poor stream, further i moved to a different city for studies and better job there also i had higher frequency but i used to do fun with friends and used to go out also nobody knew about my problem. In 2011 NOV i moved here still frequency was high here but stream was ok. gradually things started worsening frequency increased stream decreased, there was only one change in the atmosphere of the middleeast for me. here i always live in Air conditions there back in India Most of the time Hot and Humid.Even if now i go to India frequency will decrease because of Hot and humid conditions.
second thing this insomia and continous thoughts in mind started in 2010 last one more of this was i started working in 24*7 shifts.
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if a notice the first problem was higher frequency not the urethral stricture, back in india if i consult a ayurveda Dr. he would say your urinary bladder is weak that is why frequency is high. having pain below naval is also due to problem in pelvic muscles this is all what i am saying from the expereince of the people . they say those who do excessive masturbation from childhood their urinary bladder gets weaken.
well i know your know more than me and we have discussed this previously also but i just wanted to tell you shared with you for your research
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
I have to revisit all of this again-

I am short of time for the next couple of days-

You can't mix Ayurveda system with homeopathy system-They
do not work the same way-

Will get back to you.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi Simone,
hope you are doing well.
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No improvement in stream so far.
frequency also looks to be same.
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Nat sulphar is giving good results. Now stool looks to be ok. but constipation is there.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Will get back tomorrow-due to construction here and interruptions -I have not had quality time to go over
this the way I want.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi Sorry this took so long-finally I had some time
to really focus.

First lets go over everything as of now.

1. What is the percentage of better since taking the thio?

2. Do you feel it is at a standstill or are there tiny improvements?

3. Tell me what you are taking now- I think it is thios 6c, nat sulph 6x and 5 phos?

4. How is your sleep now after starting 5 phos?

5. What is the stool frequency- daily? What is the color?

6. What is the urine color and is there a smell?

7. What is the masturbation urge now?

8.How is your physical stamina?

9. How are your nerves?

10. Memory problems?

11. Takes too long to do things or longer than other people?

12.Sitting and numbness and cracking of joints when you move?

13. Are you exercising regular now?

14. At what age did you start to squeeze your penis for 10 to 15 minutes to hold off
urinating? How long did this go on for?

15.When you are In India and the hot weather- you say the frequency of urination is less.
This is often true in hot weather bc the body uses up the water.
In 2006 you had higher frequency and constipation and you were studying computers-
Do you think this has anything to do with new habits of Sitting for long hours-in other
words did you start sitting for long hours starting at this time?

16.up to 2011 there was just increased frequency and no other problem.

in 2011 you developed the stricture, the prostate and urethra infection?

17. I think that a lot of the frequency now has to do with nerves about this happening
before-and I think the before cause had a lot to do with nerve flow in your back.

They are two different things.

Anyway let me know the answers.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi,

Why do you feel sorry.
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1. recently it seems to me my thirst has decreased due to that i am drinking less water so that frequency is also decreases but stream and urgency is same there is no noticeable improvement.

2. I would say tiny improvements.

3.thio 6c, nat sulp6x and BC16.

4. Five phos was finished so i took BC16 after taking that yesterday i slept well otherwise prior to that i was just sleeping 3-4 hours hardly a day.
5.stool frequency is daily any time in a day. but stomach does not empty fully. color is yellow and looks normal too. yesterday i had missed my dinner so it took more nearly 40 hours to pass. one more thing now a days at night i am taking green salad and fruits in dinner which has made these thing easier. gas has also reduced to very low.
5.First urine of the morning in always dark yellow. rest of the day if i go so frequently then it is clean and colorless. if it 2 hours old it is lite yellow. the older the darker. sometime it has smell sometimes not. same sometimes frothy sometimes not. but after masturbation it is always yellow frothy and has bad smell

7.aftert taking Cal Carb masturbation urge happens only after 8-10 days. but erection sometimes so poor and i ejaculate so early too.

8. physical stamina is ok. but i cannot run faster, hardly 100 metres

9.Nervousness is lesser than previously but i still think a lot and lot while on bed. sometimes when prayer time gets nearer i start feeling an urge to urinate although after prayers i can still another half an hour without peeing.

10. forgetfulness was cured upto an extent after taking cal carb. but still i have that remaining about 25 %

11. not too long but longer than others especially in creating reports in MS-excel at office i double check tripe check my work. i switch over from one task to another task without finishing the previous one. and at home i take more time in bathing and eating.

12. Numbness has little decreased but cracking of joints only happens when i prostrate during prayers during that tym my full body pressure is on elbows so at the time of getting up i always listen to the cracking sound.

13. since i was really suffering badly with insomnia so i had no power to do exercise. but i use stairs rather than lift and i do lot of walk too.

14. i started doing it at the age of 20. but not for 15-20 minutes. i used to squeeze it in a such a way inside from my pants pocket so that i could reach home ASAP. i remember i did the same here also in 2011 last and 2012.

15. you know when i was studying computers i had no computer at home i used to sit for hardly two hours at my school.

16. upto 2011 only increased freuency. but after the surgery i saw a very good stream which amazed me so in contrast to that i would say back in 2011 stream was not very good. but situation get worsen only in 2012. actaully one can know about his stream only as i had seen mine so i was ok with that. but after the surgery things were changed. about stricture i got to know in 2013 only.

17. My past really haunts me thats y i avoid mob going out going with friend even if i am alone i can manage but if someone is with me i might pee in my pants. whenever i go out from home i first pee whether i have urge or not and i do not drink water at all
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

I said sorry - another way to apologize
for delay in responding. The Thios can take 3 to 6 months to show full
effects so keep on taking it- and you can keep on the BC 17 if it is helping
you sleep right now.

You wrote early on:



think stricture caused due to my one bad habit whenever i used to had urge to pass urine i used to squeeze my dick tightly to hold it until i reach WC, sometime for 10-15 minutes i think that caused it-

and now you say not for 15 minutes-so what was going on at 20
that you had to do this- a long ride home with no bathroom and you
drank water before - please explain in detail here.

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You had the above increased frequency- but was it really increased
frequency or just a situation where it was not easy to get
bathroom access?

Don't linke the increased frequency up with the stricture- you had this
before any stricture- and it sounds as if perhaps you drank less?
true? and then got UTI prostrate infection which is a cause of stricture.

What you are describing as frequency I would say is Normal. The problem
is the lack of control thru I think 'NERVES' due to accidents etc.

________I want you to read the following article__________ It sounds to me that you have Urge Incontinence. Not overflow
incontinence. I think doing Bladder Training would be a good idea for you.




Stress incontinence: Sudden pressure on your abdomen (such as from a cough, sneeze, or laugh) causes you to accidentally lose urine.
Urge incontinence: You feel a sudden, strong urge to go to the bathroom because your bladder contracts even when it's not full. You may not always be able to reach the toilet in time.
Mixed incontinence: A combination of stress and urge incontinence.
Overflow incontinence: A problem emptying the bladder completely that leads to urine leakage.
Bladder retraining may also be used to treat bed-wetting in children.

The Bladder Retraining Technique
Before you begin bladder control training, your doctor will probably ask you to keep a diary. In your bathroom diary, you'll write down every time you have the urge to go, as well as when you leak. Using your diary as a guide, you'll use the following techniques to help you gain more control over urination.

Schedule bathroom visits. Determine how often you're going to the bathroom based on your diary entries. Then add about 15 minutes to that time. For example, if you're going to the bathroom every hour, schedule bathroom visits at every one hour, 15 minutes. Use the bathroom at each scheduled visit, regardless of whether you actually feel the urge to go. Gradually increase the amount of time between bathroom breaks.

Delay urination. When you feel the urge to urinate, hold it for another five minutes or so. Then gradually increase the amount of time by 10 minutes, until you can last for at least three to four hours without having to go to the bathroom. If you're feeling a strong need to go, try distracting yourself by counting backwards from 100 to one or practicing relaxation techniques such as deep breathing. When you just can't hold it any longer, use the bathroom, but go again at your next scheduled void time to stay on your bladder retraining schedule.



After going through bladder training, you should be able to:

Go longer periods of time between bathroom visits
Hold more liquid in your bladder
Have more control over the urge to go
Although you probably want to see results right away, be patient. Bladder retraining can take six to 12 weeks to be successful
 
simone717 9 years ago
I also think it would be worthwhile to consult
with this dr. online. You can see he has a lot
of info on stricture and there are at least
75 remedies for it.

You want to get better as soon as possible.http://www.homeopathictreatment4u.com/strictureurethra.html
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi simone,

Let me help you to understand again with this explanation.

Wat i remember i used to drink enough water at the age of 20 and i had not as higher frequency at that time as it is now. because of the atmosphere of India and here. here i always live in AC environment. there most of the time hot. but in India with lesser higher frequency (compare to current) i used to have irritating urge so to manage that with out washroom i used to squeeze it sometimes. sometimes walking fast with deep breathes but how long i used to do it. i really do not remember. What i remember after 2011 reaching here i tried to squeeze it for hardly 5-10 minutes but at the end i could not control and passes in pants itself. even. It used to leak in India as well but it never happened i passed in pants completely. Even after surgery, just 8 months before once it happened i had a strong urge and i was far away from home.Knowing the fact that squeezing harms me i did that and finally failed to control it at last urinated in pants.
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yes i do agree with you about nerves. Overall my nerves are really poor. bc when i am surronded with people at office or anywhere that irritating urge occurs and irritates me more. when i am alone i can hold hold for long time but in mob i can not. specially at the places where i require more concentration.
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Adding one more incident here before knowing stricture issue i want to a radiologist for ultrasound in india. as the the radialogist kept his instrument below my naval he was shocked and taken aback he said 'OMG since when you are feeding this infection in your body i have and old infection sitting in your body from years' well then urologist did a culture test one bacteria also developed in the culture test accordingly he gave me medicine i was feeling better but i came back here and then you know the story of stricture. if you want i can share the name of bacteria which was developed.
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shaizdin 9 years ago
When was the the ultra sound in India done?

It sounds as if you had a uti - prostrate infection
going on for a long time, which would irritate
your bladder and of course increase frequency-

And that is what eventually led to the stricture
and the operation.

And in India with hot weather one will not need
to urinate as often as I said before.

So at this time, there is no infection. But there is
the urge and you can read the article and
see what you think is the correct description.
And bc there were accidents in the past, when
you get stressed, it automatically sets off.
 
simone717 9 years ago
ultrasound was done wat i remmeber back in oct 2012.
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i will read the description and will stick to that wat matches to me.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Urge incontinence: You feel a sudden, strong urge to go to the bathroom because your bladder contracts even when it's not full.
Mixed incontinence: A combination of stress and urge incontinence.
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Above two lines are matching most of my symptoms.
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one more thing forgot to write after 5 phos were finished i had bc16 so i am taking bc16 not bc17
 
shaizdin 9 years ago

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