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my totally annoying friend needs serious help
Oh, Lord, my friend needs help. (And she's driving me nuts.)I've tried some remedies with some success, but she's still very, very sick.
All she does is
-complain about her parents
-she's 44 and lives at home
-severely depressed, anxious
-cannot work (or too lazy to work)
-totally dependent on her parents, but complains about how they are emotionally abusing her
-has no friends
-has a teenage son who she makes responsible for her happiness.
-gives guilt trips to people
-cannot take no for an answer. Badgers people until they say yes.
-totally annoying, whining voice. Whines, and complains all the time.
-doesn't care about her appearance
-obsese.
-severe, dark under eye circles
-everything is always about her, her, her.
-She turns every conversation to her.
-She has no friends, except me, and I am about ready to kick her out of my life because I can't handle her, but I want to compassionate.
- I know she's sick, but she's driving me nuts with her constant self-absorption and constant complaining, and inability to take no for an answer. If I have a bad day and don't want to talk to someone, she'll badger me to go out over and over again. She doesn't care about anyone else's feelings but her own.
-On the outside, she's nice, but it's only to get sympathy. She lives for sympathy.
-she has severe scoliosis of her back (had back surgery as a child)
-tall, obese
-mental illness runs in the family
-very smart - went to law school and nursing school, but refuses to work.
-wants everyone to take care of her, but refuses to take care of herself.
-hoarder. She had to move out of her house because she was afraid of germs, so she wouldnt clean the cat box, and the cats ruined the house by pooping and peeing everywhere. Ironically, she was afraid of germs but lived in filth. She had to move in with her parents.
-she has fixations on famous men (famous country singers) and thinks she's going to marry one of them one day (delusional!)
-total lack of self-confidence, very, very insecure.
-very awkward - never matured into an adult. Even though she has a child, she seems stunted at the age of 14.
-problems began when the father of her child got her pregnant, and wanted nothing to do with her (18 years ago). Never recovered.
I've recommended arsenicum, pulsatilla. Pulsatilla helped somewhat. She won't take arsenicum, because she's afraid of being poisoned. Lol.
Gelsemium helped her somewhat. she used to have terrible, terrible intolerance to hot weather, and gelsemium has improved that symptom.
She's a miserable, depressed person and I feel bad for her, but I don't know what to give her, and I think I'm too close to her to see her objectively.
I also tried nat-m and ignatia, due to problems that stemmed from grief/heart break, but they didn't help that much.
Ideas?
Single remedies, only, please...no combinations of multiple remedies. I have a hard enough time getting her to take one of them!
Thank you!
[message edited by nature_girl on Thu, 12 Sep 2013 05:39:04 BST]
nature_girl on 2013-09-12
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give her sulphur 200,5 pills ones evry three days early morning empty stomach.
what potency of nat mur was tried?
feed back every 4 days.
what potency of nat mur was tried?
feed back every 4 days.
♡ anuj srivastava last decade
nature_girl last decade
Hi,
I have to say that I think the Nat Mur should be
tried in 200c first. If it does nothing you can go up.
If she is sensitive and the nat mur at 1M is too much
she will be in outer space, laying on the couch ,
relaxed but not able to get into her body and this
can go on and on . I have seen this with several people
who got Nat Mur too high and never wanted to
see a remedy again. They all had to get deep massage
to get back into their body after 2 or 3 weeks of
being out there.
I have to say that I think the Nat Mur should be
tried in 200c first. If it does nothing you can go up.
If she is sensitive and the nat mur at 1M is too much
she will be in outer space, laying on the couch ,
relaxed but not able to get into her body and this
can go on and on . I have seen this with several people
who got Nat Mur too high and never wanted to
see a remedy again. They all had to get deep massage
to get back into their body after 2 or 3 weeks of
being out there.
♡ simone717 last decade
Thanks. I'll give her 200c of nat-m. I never use anything higher than 200c, anyway.
She probably only took a dos or two of the nat-m, and that might be why she didn't get the full benefit of it.
Thanks so much, everybody. I really, really appreciate your help.
N
[message edited by nature_girl on Thu, 12 Sep 2013 13:33:00 BST]
She probably only took a dos or two of the nat-m, and that might be why she didn't get the full benefit of it.
Thanks so much, everybody. I really, really appreciate your help.
N
[message edited by nature_girl on Thu, 12 Sep 2013 13:33:00 BST]
nature_girl last decade
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