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I am 28 yrs old..I want to get married soon..but I am afraid of having sex with females as I was sexually abused in childhood..I have homosexual feelings because of that.I had gf in past but didn't have sex just kissed and hugs..I am too depressed fear anxiety..please help I want to lead a normal and happy married life...ritik123 on 2013-06-02
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With your problem you most probably need homeopathy
and counseling at the same time to help get thru this.
The remedy for sexual abuse is usually staphysagria and it
would be good for you to find a homeopath who is also
trained in psychology and has experience with abuse cases.
Check out drbidani.com/panel-of-doctors, he does online
and is one of three homeopaths and he is focused on
psychological issues.
and counseling at the same time to help get thru this.
The remedy for sexual abuse is usually staphysagria and it
would be good for you to find a homeopath who is also
trained in psychology and has experience with abuse cases.
Check out drbidani.com/panel-of-doctors, he does online
and is one of three homeopaths and he is focused on
psychological issues.
♡ simone717 last decade
staphysagaria 1m weekly dose along with mimmulus bach flower three times daily for one month .first dose of staphysagaria 1m two doses after one hour of first dose and same way weekly dose
♡ akshaymohl last decade
HDr.Shaikh Waseem last decade
HDr.Shaikh Waseem last decade
okay..but actually major problem is I just fear of having sex with female..rest homosexuality is not big issue coz they r just feelings..low confidence
ritik123 last decade
Hi,
so what you are saying now is... this is performance anxiety?????
That would be a different prescription set up.
Ritik, please understand you have to follow one person's advice.
You cannot combine the prescriptions. My feeling is the pulsatilla
and nat mur prescription is about getting certainty on your sex
orientation and for grief.
Staph is for getting your power back after abuse,being able to
have appropriate anger and so on. Mimmulus is for tension.
you may click on posters names and see who they are and how
long they have been on here advising people-but I Think you
need a different prescription set up now that you make it more
clear what you are most concerned about.
so what you are saying now is... this is performance anxiety?????
That would be a different prescription set up.
Ritik, please understand you have to follow one person's advice.
You cannot combine the prescriptions. My feeling is the pulsatilla
and nat mur prescription is about getting certainty on your sex
orientation and for grief.
Staph is for getting your power back after abuse,being able to
have appropriate anger and so on. Mimmulus is for tension.
you may click on posters names and see who they are and how
long they have been on here advising people-but I Think you
need a different prescription set up now that you make it more
clear what you are most concerned about.
♡ simone717 last decade
see actually I had homosexual encounters in past.but now for 4 years I haven't had them..I now feel homosexuality as disgusting..but. still there are feelings...actually I keep on thinking over those homosexual feelings I think my past will haunt my future life after I am married..with all this makes me irritable due to this fear of sex I cnot completely involve in relationship with females but I like females I love to talk I want to marry but this fear makes me unable.I fantasied abt having sex with female while masturbating.but when getting in real with a girl it makes me fear and anxious.I just think will I be able to satisfy my wife will she be happy with me..that is the main problem.
ritik123 last decade
Yes.
What I am hearing is... due to the abuse and subsequent encounters
it is very confusing and then you worry due to these 'feelings'
coming up etc, will you be able to fully engage and perform.
Do I have that right?
If so, we are back to the abuse. This is what happens when people
are sexually abused at a young age. You need to know that feelings
and memories are actually stored in the body and need to get released.
This is what happens when females are rape victims, they don't
want to be touched or feel very anxious and upset, even with
their own husband who they knew before a rape happened. This
is what the staphysagria is for. It will help get rid of those
feelings--
This is common what you are talking about, boys molested by
Catholic priests, women being raped, etc, people are so confused
they just withdraw from intimacy. This is why I said counseling will
help you here to sort out what is going on in your mind- bc
you were a victim and none of this is your fault. You are doing well
with this being able to talk about it, bc many people won't even
talk about it and suffer in isolation.
What I am hearing is... due to the abuse and subsequent encounters
it is very confusing and then you worry due to these 'feelings'
coming up etc, will you be able to fully engage and perform.
Do I have that right?
If so, we are back to the abuse. This is what happens when people
are sexually abused at a young age. You need to know that feelings
and memories are actually stored in the body and need to get released.
This is what happens when females are rape victims, they don't
want to be touched or feel very anxious and upset, even with
their own husband who they knew before a rape happened. This
is what the staphysagria is for. It will help get rid of those
feelings--
This is common what you are talking about, boys molested by
Catholic priests, women being raped, etc, people are so confused
they just withdraw from intimacy. This is why I said counseling will
help you here to sort out what is going on in your mind- bc
you were a victim and none of this is your fault. You are doing well
with this being able to talk about it, bc many people won't even
talk about it and suffer in isolation.
♡ simone717 last decade
yes my cousin use to abuse me..he use to say its good thing u hve to do it and further I got addicted to the thing..but now I feel disgust about all this things when I came to know wats right and wats not
ritik123 last decade
yes my cousin use to abuse me..he use to say its good thing u hve to do it and further I got addicted to the thing..but now I feel disgust about all this things when I came to know wats right and wats not..and of talking sex was considered as taboo so no 1 was to guide
ritik123 last decade
My opinion is take dr. Mohla's prescription and
report in how it is going if you feel you need to
before the month is up. Get the mimulus bach flower
also.
I don't quite understand the dosing procedure.
For Dr. Mohla: does this mean he should take staphysagria
1M one day per week. And that he takes it 3 times
in a row on that day? Like one dose 2 drops in water
at 5 pm and then another dose at 6 pm and another dose
at 7pm?
report in how it is going if you feel you need to
before the month is up. Get the mimulus bach flower
also.
I don't quite understand the dosing procedure.
For Dr. Mohla: does this mean he should take staphysagria
1M one day per week. And that he takes it 3 times
in a row on that day? Like one dose 2 drops in water
at 5 pm and then another dose at 6 pm and another dose
at 7pm?
♡ simone717 last decade
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