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Checked the site. This is what happens to me when there are several sites for the same person. I forget some detail, and unless reminded, I do not finish. I wish I knew what my "idea" was. I will try to regain this info.
After reading that site I really would like more details about the fact that your wife is not so very keen sexually??? When, how long? etc. Do I have this correct? Age, and other pertinent info. I will go back to that site to work with you and her there. This note will remind me.
Blessings, Sabra
After reading that site I really would like more details about the fact that your wife is not so very keen sexually??? When, how long? etc. Do I have this correct? Age, and other pertinent info. I will go back to that site to work with you and her there. This note will remind me.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
Sabra thank you so much for helping us like that.
Actually its my fault. I did not know how this forum works so I started another post to regain your attention!
Initially at the start of our marriage two years back she was interested but slowly the interest withered away. She also lost some weight and had sciatica problem (in the left leg) which did not arise since one year now. She also complain being in depression most of the time, which can be related to her father's death 5 years back.
I guess rest of the info is correct. thanks again.
Actually its my fault. I did not know how this forum works so I started another post to regain your attention!
Initially at the start of our marriage two years back she was interested but slowly the interest withered away. She also lost some weight and had sciatica problem (in the left leg) which did not arise since one year now. She also complain being in depression most of the time, which can be related to her father's death 5 years back.
I guess rest of the info is correct. thanks again.
tjalal last decade
Gads, lets do it here, then I will not have to go back and forth. I will check the site to make sure I know the things you wrote.
Depression will stop the sexual response. Also, even though, it has been 5 years, she could still be grieving for father. (male?) She could have a hormone imbalance.
Many women do not "seek" sexual encounters like men do, they are more passive unless love feelings and special treatment brings the activity forth.
Husbands are the monitor of the entire marriage. If the communication is not of natural and sincere, sweetness and consideration the wife either emotionally pulls away, or becomes (silent) emotionally angry, which is the basis of depression. (anger=depression)
You both need to find a good therapist to help the unsaid communication to be able to be said. Avoid religious leanings in this matter. No need to place "guilt" and "shoulds" on her at this time. Begin every sentence with "I feel...." and if a question, "how do you feel about....."
The thing to think about is that sincerity is something that cannot be forced or faked. One can "act" it out until it becomes reality, but one must be in the process of seeking the sincerity in the first place. All people can tell if it is an act or not.
Please continue to post here.
Blessings, Sabra
Depression will stop the sexual response. Also, even though, it has been 5 years, she could still be grieving for father. (male?) She could have a hormone imbalance.
Many women do not "seek" sexual encounters like men do, they are more passive unless love feelings and special treatment brings the activity forth.
Husbands are the monitor of the entire marriage. If the communication is not of natural and sincere, sweetness and consideration the wife either emotionally pulls away, or becomes (silent) emotionally angry, which is the basis of depression. (anger=depression)
You both need to find a good therapist to help the unsaid communication to be able to be said. Avoid religious leanings in this matter. No need to place "guilt" and "shoulds" on her at this time. Begin every sentence with "I feel...." and if a question, "how do you feel about....."
The thing to think about is that sincerity is something that cannot be forced or faked. One can "act" it out until it becomes reality, but one must be in the process of seeking the sincerity in the first place. All people can tell if it is an act or not.
Please continue to post here.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
Dear Sabra, thanks again for going to the trouble.
I have taken her to a therapist and he says there is nothing wrong with her.
As far as our relationship is concerned, she exceeds my expectation when she describes me as her husband. I have never forced her into anything. We believe we love each other and general loving sessions are pretty intense but both the generally disinterested in further action. In the begining when my response was more she was less interested though our feelings for eachother cannot be denied.
I still think it has someting not to do with me.
I have taken her to a therapist and he says there is nothing wrong with her.
As far as our relationship is concerned, she exceeds my expectation when she describes me as her husband. I have never forced her into anything. We believe we love each other and general loving sessions are pretty intense but both the generally disinterested in further action. In the begining when my response was more she was less interested though our feelings for eachother cannot be denied.
I still think it has someting not to do with me.
tjalal last decade
Dear Tjalal, printed it out. I feel several things about this situation.
One being that emotionally, you have reacted to her lack of enthusiam. Men find this quite difficult, a sense of indifference. Women too, but I would guess one out of a hundred by comparison. This is part of your problem.
Give your wife PANCREATINUM 10M. This contains certain enzyme memories that may "set" the body and mind a little different and let's see how she responds. I would not be telling this to her. Just use it as a "body balancer."
One dose once a week for 6 weeks. 10M.....
Blessings, Sabra
One being that emotionally, you have reacted to her lack of enthusiam. Men find this quite difficult, a sense of indifference. Women too, but I would guess one out of a hundred by comparison. This is part of your problem.
Give your wife PANCREATINUM 10M. This contains certain enzyme memories that may "set" the body and mind a little different and let's see how she responds. I would not be telling this to her. Just use it as a "body balancer."
One dose once a week for 6 weeks. 10M.....
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
Dear Sabra
Thanks for giving your analysis. I would definately give her this medicine.
Right now, after 40 days of cesear, she is bleeding profusely again. . Plus she was given an epidural for which she would be given a doze of thuja 200C. Once that is over, I would give her that.
As for me, I hope rhus radicans solves it for me!
Thanks again.
Thanks for giving your analysis. I would definately give her this medicine.
Right now, after 40 days of cesear, she is bleeding profusely again. . Plus she was given an epidural for which she would be given a doze of thuja 200C. Once that is over, I would give her that.
As for me, I hope rhus radicans solves it for me!
Thanks again.
tjalal last decade
tjalal last decade
Once a week doses should not affect the baby. No "hurt" with homeopathy. There may be something noticable, but not hurt. Do not look for things to be upset about.
Blessings, Sabra
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
now you know my nature and I'm getting sick of it. I am too conscious about everything. I have difficulty believing in people and am most of the time suspicious or have suspicious thoughts :)
anyway thanks!
anyway thanks!
tjalal last decade
"getting sick of it" seems an odd way to describe a feeling of being known. I do not know you as you may think.
Is this a remark because you feel "revealed" or because you are aware of your sensitivity and wish it was not so?
Many people ask for details and reasurances during the treatments. Many ask as you have asked. My answer is always similar.
This reminds me of the man that tried to hide from God, where did he go? Everywhere. Is not God everywhere?
Some people understand others more than some. This is called experience or whatever one would like to call it. It is not an invasion of privacy.
I talk to so many people, I don't WANT to remember details of every person. I do not keep records of what I suggest on the forum. I have to go back to see what I have suggested.
90% of the human race does not give a d... what or who the other person does or is.
Look at this from another point of view. Are you conscious of who and what other people are?
Or are you critical. You do not have the right to be critical.
Are you one of those that "see" through another? Who cares? Not me, and not the other 90% of the human race.
When one is sensitive and believes others know too much, it is usually one's truth about themselves. This so-called truth is NOT really known by others. It just seems so.
Fear and accusation comes from self, directed at self first. When one understands this, life changes for the better.
One accepts oneself in peace so one can go to the next level of understanding. One lives and works with self. It is not important what others think or say. IT DOES NOT MATTER what others think.
When you face your God after death, he will not ask what did people thought of you. He will ask "what love and kindnesses did you show for my people?"
Life is a two sided mirror. You cannot escape it any more than you can hide from God.
So be at peace and know you are probably more normal than you think. Join the human race in all our similarities and frailities and all our strengths. Learn to really love. In doing so, one loves oneself FIRST. Then one knows how to love others.
Do you think your wife may be afraid of you? She may be a person that does not understand others. Not understanding causes fear.
Blessings, Sabra
Is this a remark because you feel "revealed" or because you are aware of your sensitivity and wish it was not so?
Many people ask for details and reasurances during the treatments. Many ask as you have asked. My answer is always similar.
This reminds me of the man that tried to hide from God, where did he go? Everywhere. Is not God everywhere?
Some people understand others more than some. This is called experience or whatever one would like to call it. It is not an invasion of privacy.
I talk to so many people, I don't WANT to remember details of every person. I do not keep records of what I suggest on the forum. I have to go back to see what I have suggested.
90% of the human race does not give a d... what or who the other person does or is.
Look at this from another point of view. Are you conscious of who and what other people are?
Or are you critical. You do not have the right to be critical.
Are you one of those that "see" through another? Who cares? Not me, and not the other 90% of the human race.
When one is sensitive and believes others know too much, it is usually one's truth about themselves. This so-called truth is NOT really known by others. It just seems so.
Fear and accusation comes from self, directed at self first. When one understands this, life changes for the better.
One accepts oneself in peace so one can go to the next level of understanding. One lives and works with self. It is not important what others think or say. IT DOES NOT MATTER what others think.
When you face your God after death, he will not ask what did people thought of you. He will ask "what love and kindnesses did you show for my people?"
Life is a two sided mirror. You cannot escape it any more than you can hide from God.
So be at peace and know you are probably more normal than you think. Join the human race in all our similarities and frailities and all our strengths. Learn to really love. In doing so, one loves oneself FIRST. Then one knows how to love others.
Do you think your wife may be afraid of you? She may be a person that does not understand others. Not understanding causes fear.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
what you said is very correct but may not in this case.
I was just refering to this habit of mine that has become some sort of nature. I really love people and mostly open to them and I think I am a helpful person and get inspired from people like you and others on this forum.
I dont try to see thru people, I look at them ..they are Allah's loved ones.
Its just that sometimes my nature gets into way. take your example, you propose a medicine to me after going to a lot of trouble but even then I try to see what this medicine is about, investigate it and feel some sort of discontenment.
I feel I'm belittling other peoples efforts with this habit of mine.
I want to live free from negative thoughts and tensions. I want to stay in peace and help people and be helped.
I do many times force myself to do against this habit esp when I feel miserly and calculated towards someone.
My wife loves me and is not afraid of me:) and I have not problem about a doctor or a sincere loving person knowing me. Being exposed to such people somewhat give me safety. Like my wife knows so much about me!
I was just refering to this habit of mine that has become some sort of nature. I really love people and mostly open to them and I think I am a helpful person and get inspired from people like you and others on this forum.
I dont try to see thru people, I look at them ..they are Allah's loved ones.
Its just that sometimes my nature gets into way. take your example, you propose a medicine to me after going to a lot of trouble but even then I try to see what this medicine is about, investigate it and feel some sort of discontenment.
I feel I'm belittling other peoples efforts with this habit of mine.
I want to live free from negative thoughts and tensions. I want to stay in peace and help people and be helped.
I do many times force myself to do against this habit esp when I feel miserly and calculated towards someone.
My wife loves me and is not afraid of me:) and I have not problem about a doctor or a sincere loving person knowing me. Being exposed to such people somewhat give me safety. Like my wife knows so much about me!
tjalal last decade
I am so glad you replied. I was completely at a loss at what you meant.
I would expect you to examine a remedy I suggest. I expect people to find out for themselves.
Each individual must find his/her own way and life's purpose that is for them personally.
If, as you indicate you think this is incorrect, I disagree. It is like I said about one having the right to be who they are. Self criticism holds us back from growth mentally and spiritually.
The best example of a person in personal growth is the cynic. This person wants each thing explained and does not want to "jump in" just because someone else says so. They may sound difficult, but when they choose, it has been examined carefully first.
Like I told my boys, would you leap from the roof just because "....." told you to do so? One needs to form one's own choices about what one prefers in life. This is a personal choice on what path to take or not.
Look at the people that go to the doctor and hand over their children as if the doc was God and could do no wrong. One must NOT be passive, but examine and investigate, ask, learn for oneself. Make one's own decisions, right or wrong...who's to say?
It is personal and individual and this is the right of the human being to do this. While we do this freedom for ourselves, it is not our right to criticize anyone else's personal decisions.
So, continue to examine and question. It is your right. No need to actually do anything about it. what you learn can be held privately inside your internal reference bank.
Blessings, Sabra
I would expect you to examine a remedy I suggest. I expect people to find out for themselves.
Each individual must find his/her own way and life's purpose that is for them personally.
If, as you indicate you think this is incorrect, I disagree. It is like I said about one having the right to be who they are. Self criticism holds us back from growth mentally and spiritually.
The best example of a person in personal growth is the cynic. This person wants each thing explained and does not want to "jump in" just because someone else says so. They may sound difficult, but when they choose, it has been examined carefully first.
Like I told my boys, would you leap from the roof just because "....." told you to do so? One needs to form one's own choices about what one prefers in life. This is a personal choice on what path to take or not.
Look at the people that go to the doctor and hand over their children as if the doc was God and could do no wrong. One must NOT be passive, but examine and investigate, ask, learn for oneself. Make one's own decisions, right or wrong...who's to say?
It is personal and individual and this is the right of the human being to do this. While we do this freedom for ourselves, it is not our right to criticize anyone else's personal decisions.
So, continue to examine and question. It is your right. No need to actually do anything about it. what you learn can be held privately inside your internal reference bank.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
sabra you are such a nice person :) and that is why the world survives. I wish I could have the honor to meet you :)
I do agree with you & that is why most of the times I do investigate, question and stay conscious!
But you must agree with me, there is great joy in letting yourself go, in having faith on someone who you think is true to you! I just think I sometime lack this ability..not totally but many times!
you wouldnt call me a hopeless romantic would you! or perhaps I should read more Asimov!
many thanks again!
I do agree with you & that is why most of the times I do investigate, question and stay conscious!
But you must agree with me, there is great joy in letting yourself go, in having faith on someone who you think is true to you! I just think I sometime lack this ability..not totally but many times!
you wouldnt call me a hopeless romantic would you! or perhaps I should read more Asimov!
many thanks again!
tjalal last decade
I love Asimov! Been reading Si Fi since I was a small child. I read my mother's books. I thought I was doing something wrong, so I sneaked...like she didn't know?!! I love any book on survival in great odds.
Thanks for your kind words. I must confess there are times I would like to reach across this world and shake a few people. The human race is their own worse enemies sometimes.
Blessings, Sabra
Thanks for your kind words. I must confess there are times I would like to reach across this world and shake a few people. The human race is their own worse enemies sometimes.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
then what I thought was right!
you are a hopeless romantic too :) LOL.
take care of yourself!
By the way, I have taken 4 doses of Rhus Radicans. it seemed to have help a bit in the start but now I'm doubtful. it is too premature to say anything yet? havent gotten that testo cream yet, sorry.
you are a hopeless romantic too :) LOL.
take care of yourself!
By the way, I have taken 4 doses of Rhus Radicans. it seemed to have help a bit in the start but now I'm doubtful. it is too premature to say anything yet? havent gotten that testo cream yet, sorry.
tjalal last decade
actually I got datura made form the doctor that had that machine.
he tested both datura and rhus rad with the pendulum and rhus rad indicated suitable and datura had no effect.
should I still go for datura?
he tested both datura and rhus rad with the pendulum and rhus rad indicated suitable and datura had no effect.
should I still go for datura?
tjalal last decade
This person must not let his own "self" get in the way.
Try at least two doses in one day to see any effects.
Let me know.
Blessings, Sabra
Try at least two doses in one day to see any effects.
Let me know.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
tjalal last decade
Sometimes homeopathy does not do any noticable activity. In a few days to a week examine your feelings and compare if you have "changed" in any way.
Remember, you are the cynic, and you need to work around this in your mind. The mind has complete control over the body when it is strong in it's convictions as you are.
Try to pretend you are another person examining your feelings/body and see if this helps determine any changes.
Blessings, Sabra
Remember, you are the cynic, and you need to work around this in your mind. The mind has complete control over the body when it is strong in it's convictions as you are.
Try to pretend you are another person examining your feelings/body and see if this helps determine any changes.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
yes, i think you are right. Its more of a mind thing than anything.
examining my own feeling: i think that is the thing that has been done so much that I seems to lose its effect. Sometimes I feel I dont even want to get better, but I really do want to!
I will try do what you said in true spirit.
thanks.
examining my own feeling: i think that is the thing that has been done so much that I seems to lose its effect. Sometimes I feel I dont even want to get better, but I really do want to!
I will try do what you said in true spirit.
thanks.
tjalal last decade
dear sabra
erection has been restored to normal but desire is still lacking.
I love to watch porn and Fantasize about other women. always thinking about sex but lose desire when goto bed.
erection has been restored to normal but desire is still lacking.
I love to watch porn and Fantasize about other women. always thinking about sex but lose desire when goto bed.
tjalal last decade
Stop watching Porn and fantasizing, let the body takes over, let the mind sleeps
Your problem is your mind
it is too excited
sazim
Your problem is your mind
it is too excited
sazim
sazim1 last decade
The human does not realize that fantasy becomes addictive, and removes one from the present NOW and the only real thing IS the NOW.
Can you not see that fantasy will NEVER live up the the expectations of the human body in the NOW. Fantasy is never in the moment and always way beyond the human body to realize satisfaction.
I have known those that use the fantasy as a "way of a game or play" that two agree to perform. One cannot complete the fantasy by one's self and still remain objectively happy. Fantasy is subjective, hence the addiction.
Blessings, Sabra
Can you not see that fantasy will NEVER live up the the expectations of the human body in the NOW. Fantasy is never in the moment and always way beyond the human body to realize satisfaction.
I have known those that use the fantasy as a "way of a game or play" that two agree to perform. One cannot complete the fantasy by one's self and still remain objectively happy. Fantasy is subjective, hence the addiction.
Blessings, Sabra
♡ sabra last decade
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