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MASTURBATION a scientific paper

Hither to , I am finding quite a few posts on ill effects of masturbation & many of the patients are requesting prescriptions. Some of the Doctors are doing a good job by providing the Rx for genuine cases.Still there are some myths regarding masturbation, which needs to be addressed so as to teach the facts about this phenomenon.

Following article by Melissa Bee an expert may be of help to those who don't have proper knowledge about this subject.

Whatever your perspective on masturbation, humans and mammals masturbate because it feels good. Only humans torture themselves over moral, ethical and religious taboos surrounding any sexual practice aimed at gratification.
To enjoy your own body, to rejoice in the touch and feel of your own self and the sensations of pleasure by self-masturbating (sometimes called solo sex) or mutual masturbation (shared with a partner of the same or opposite gender) is nothing to be ashamed of. It is a thrill that is normal and healthy, not a sign of weakness, abnormality or madness as authorities in the past would have you believe.
One of the first myths surrounding masturbation was the claim that masturbation was wrong/bad/evil. This belief carried over from religious ideology that looked upon lust and the fulfillment of lust to be bad. Masturbation sated lust and therefore was evil. Many sermons were given on this topic and bizarre rituals to resist the temptation were carried out. Girls were made wear steel mesh gloves or chastity belts and padlocked devices. Boys may have had to use a powder that made the genitals painful to touch, or a chastity device that made any erection painful. The overall result was that people were ashamed of their bodies, their sexual drives and felt immense guilt. This emphasis on guilt is still sometimes seen today, on a more subconscious level, and is a remnant of a more prudish generation. While it is unlikely people will ever masturbate openly and publicly like chimps, dogs, horses and possibly dolphins do, we are still working on the guilt aspect, the insistence of our forebears that anything that felt this good had to be wrong.
The second myth, springing from the first, was that it had to be harmful to health. The religious perspective incorporated guilt and evil; the potential damage to marriage along with the wastage of sperm and the anatomical purpose of the organs, simply to reproduce. We now know that masturbation is normal and healthy, irrespective of age. It does not reduce the capability to reproduce, nor does it affect ones sexual potency after marriage.
People who dont masturbate are more likely to have sexual problems when they marry. Masturbation can be a substitute for the partner when the partner isnt available and masturbation can also aid or enhance a relationship, like a tool. If you dont know your own body, how can you teach and show your partner what feels good for you?
Some men or women use fantasy along with masturbation, for example fantasizing about homosexual activity while masturbating alone. For men with premature ejaculation, masturbation techniques and exercises can help delay ejaculation and orgasm with their partner. Mutual masturbation can be used as forms of foreplay and watching your partner masturbate him/herself can teach you a great deal about their pleasure zones, the right amount of touch, pressure, temperature and sensitivity - simply by observing their masturbating technique.
Another myth that has swung in two opposite extremes in the last hundred years was that nobody masturbates to everybody masturbates. Kinseys early work in the 1940s established that 95% of men masturbated. In the 60s Masters and Johnson raised that figure to 99%. Kinsey Institute data in the 80s, showed 92% of men and 62% of women reported masturbating. Kinsey data in 1990 revealed 94% of men and 70% of women masturbate to orgasm.
Almost everyone has or will masturbate at some point in their life. Recent data shows that about 92% of all men report masturbating at some stage in their life. Many adult men continue to masturbate occasionally after they marry. A recent survey found that 97% of men and 90% of women have masturbated by the time they reach 21 years of age.
About 60% of women masturbate to orgasm at some time in their adult lives, with about 17% of all women doing so weekly. Women who have had a masturbatory experience are more likely to have orgasms during intercourse.
Have you heard the myth that people over 50 dont masturbate? Well it is untrue. While an interest in having or thinking about sex may wane over time, it doesnt disappear. If people are relatively healthy and maintain active sex lives, they are able to perform well into their older years. While long breaks from sexual activity in the middle years can lead to vaginal atrophy or erectile dysfunction, older people report that as passions wane, sexual satisfaction and intensity of orgasm can actually increase. A 2001 survey showed that 66% of men and 47% of women in their fifties masturbated on a regular basis. Hormone replacement therapy also extends a womans active sex life, thus increasing desire, so older women masturbate more now than in the past.
When you were a child (particularly if you are a boy) you may have been told that if you masturbate lots of dreadful things may occur, such as going blind, stunted growth, permanent erections, hairy palms, warts on your fingers, diseases, impotency, penis shrinkage, never being able to have intercourse or father children, going insane or becoming a sex pervert. Today, most men are sane and of normal health, height and sanity. Have hair-free palms and are married fathers of children. Clearly the myths are false. But it doesnt stop a teen worrying, after being told such nonsense.
Is there such a thing as too much masturbation? Logically anything in excess can have the potential for harm. Excessive masturbation may make you sore and/or disinterested in sex in the short term, but is not generally something with irreversible long term consequences.
Many men masturbate quickly, standing up, using one hand and condition their body to this response. It works well for immediate release of sexual tension or to aid sleep. However, in the long term, it can cause some problems.
For men with little sexual contact, frequent masturbation may make it more difficult to sustain an erection, contribute to rapid or premature ejaculation when with a partner, delay orgasm or have the effect of an inability to ejaculate during intercourse. Less masturbation and allowing sexual tension to build with a longer, more drawn-out release can help reverse some of these trends. The body is an amazing thing and can unlearn and relearn new ways of responding to pleasurable stimuli. Sometimes it just takes time.
So that covers most of the common myths about masturbation. There are others dealing with foodstuffs such as cornflakes that research has shown has no bearing on the sex drive.
Masturbation no longer has the taboo it once had. Films in the last few years such as Angelas Ashes where the main character and his friends confess to masturbation, only to run out of the Church into the meadow to indulge again. Theres Something About Mary and American Pie focused strongly on masturbation. Well known comedian Jerry Seinfeld dedicated an entire episode of Seinfeld to the topic. Called 'The Contest,' its catch phrase was 'master of your own domain.' It was one of the shows most popular and funniest episodes.
Whatever you call it, masturbating is a normal part of exploring your sexuality. Its not something you need to be ashamed of and its one of the safest forms of sex
 
  sbahl on 2007-02-28
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
there are better and healthier ways of doing an act.so is masterbation.it sheer delight and extremely fulfilling experience provided one masters the art .
 
KHATTAK last decade
Well....I can tell you for sure that if done excessively over a long period of time, there are many health affects. I belong to a form which has many men with the same symptoms that can't be explained by our doctors. We all mastuburbated to pornography a least once per day for many years. Traditional chinese medicine has know about the dangers of sexual excess thousands of years. In fact, even homeopathy does ! Please look into the indications for Staphysagria, Lyocopodium Clavatum, Phosphoric Acid. Agnus Castus. They ALL mention sexual excess. If you don't believe the Materia Medica, then you are on the wrong forum. I believe, because I am living it, as well as many others at recover.forumup. org

Western Science has told me there is nothing wrong with me...even though I have MANY problems such as hair loss, eye floaters, skin problems, anxiety, tinnitus, muscle loss shrunken penis, tucked up testicles, sleep problems, rapid aging. The other guys have the same symptoms.

The problems seem to result from Zinc deficiency from excessive loss os sperm , which contains a lot of zinc. Adrenal problems from repeatedly putting yourself in fight or flight. Deficiency in neurotransmitters such a Dopamine from too many orgasms. The dopamine spike from an orgasm is almost a high as a heroine rush.
 
Frank O last decade
Excess of every thing is bad & masturbation is no exception to it. My all sympathies with you, since you are suffering from the excesses comitted by you.

It is quite surprising to note that,despite your wholesale sufferings, western Doctors have given you a clean chit.

PLEASE CONTACT & CONSULT HOMEOPATH, WHO SPECIALIZES IN REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH. Wish you happy life ahead.
 
sbahl last decade
Hi chaps,

I will second Frank O. I have had the same symptoms from the same cause, escessive masturbation. It has taken me a long time to recover but it is posible and these symptoms are not irreversable as many would have you think (especially TCM).

I have so far made a huge improvement in my symptoms. First thing I did was find tools to counter feeling horny - Running worked for me.

My most effective has been to supplement zinc last thing at night with a digestive enzyme supplement.

Chances are gut flora has been damaged or lost due to weakened immunity from zinc deficiency. I have found Probiotics and digestive enzymes have helped me tremendously.

My eyesight is clear most days, muscle mass is significant, appetite is now normal and I wake up with an erection most days, I am strong and feel like a real man again.

It can be done, don't feel lost, email me if you like.

But before that see an excellent homeopath. My remedy is Staphysagria apparantly, you may like to read up on it.
 
Joshb0y last decade
Frank O would you plz tell me what is the forum you talked about? i think i also suffer from too much masturbation, pornography is addictive
 
Looking_for_answer last decade
Porn is definatly addicting. I wish it was like it used to be where you had to get vhs tapes and magazines now theres live webcam shows and unlimited amounts of different scenarios.

(AT) Frank O
How are you? It looks like you havent posted in a long time and I dont even know if you will get to read this but I am having some issues. I for the past few months have been having extreme fatigue, bad headaches, cant stand on my feet for long periods of time, reocurrening respiratory infections, dizzyness when standing. I have basically formed my symptoms to what is called ADRENAL FATIGUE. Now I believe I have this but what brought me here was how did I get it. What in my lifestyle contributed to this and what makes it go from better to worse? I was laying on my couch a few minutes ago and realized there has to be a connection to sex,masterbation to your adrenals because its part of the same system. So this search brought me to multiple sites and this one and I read what you wrote

'But starting at 36, I started to get libido problems, then muscle loss, the hair loss, anxiety, groin pain, shrunken penis, eye floaters, tinnitus, sleep problems, sore joints, light sensitivity, shortness of breath, skin problems, headaches and a few more problems. '

And I know right away that either we have the same lifestyle which could be or we have the same problem.
Now I never noticed how much I masterbated before but I know its a minimal of once a day and sometimes up to 3 times a day. This has been going on for years. Now that accompanied with stress from day to day life its no wonder my system is a mess. What I need to do if figure a plan out and was seeing if you were still around that we might talk. Maybe I could see where your at today, how your feeling what you have done to feel better other than stop the addiction.

Well anyone else is welcome to post on this comment just wanted to introduce myself and hopefully get some insight.
 
Dunhill411 last decade
Repression and Suppression both are harmful for human. To keep health and happiness, only have two option:
1. Avoid sexual desire and thought.
2. Become married in time.
 
sadeqahmed last decade

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