help needed

black male, 44 years old, works as a manager (great sense of responsibility)
married for 20 years (by his wife referred to as “a good man”), says he thinks on hindsight he was not “build” for marriage
3 daughters (stopped making (physical) contact with them since their puberty) (great sense of responsibility for family but only on material level – does not feel responsible for household)
avoids eye contact
high blood pressure
easily offended
stubborn
lack of emotions (doesn’t miss loved ones, says: he doesn’t know what love is) but on the other hand very sensitive (puts head in hands (as if a child) if wife is frustrated and shouting towards him or children)
difficulty reasoning (more like a child than like a grown up)
sugar cravings
night sweat on head
high sex drive but lack of initiative
does not what to talk about feelings, answers mostly with: I don’t know how I feel about …….
born 2 months premature
meningitis at 9 months, hospitalized. After hospitalization he was send to relatives abroad (taken by flight attendant) later on he was send back on doctors recommendation for being homesick.
has a “beer belly” but only drinks alcohol occasionally.
Stool immediately after coming home from work (sits on toilet for >20 minutes).
Loves to watch football and play online games.
No initiative for anything else
“Depressed” since he can’t play football himself (knee problems 20 years ago)
Does not like to communicate, quiet, stay’s to himself. Started speaking when he was 4 years old with help of a speech therapist. When tired he is difficult to understand for others.
Loves music, dislikes dancing
Low self-esteem (hidden)
Older sister with “autistic like behaviour”
Younger brother with personality disorder, anger issues, drugs and alcohol problems
Both parents high bloodpressure, very “cold” father, mother very childish, more focused on their relation than on their children (but spoiled them with material things).

no reaction with natrium muriaticum
staphisagria makes him “milder”

sachharum?