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Hair thinning and spot balding from past year
HiI am from Mumbai.Working female. Age 32 years. I have one kid and from past one year I am facing hair loss in on-off mode.I had a natural bald spot in middle of my hair line.Now, the hair is receding from both sides of the natural bald spot.
I used to have very very thick hair voluminous actually. Even post pregnancy hair loss did not not cause a reduction uptil from last year May.
The hair volume on both sides of bald spot has become very sparse and although there are fine hair they contribute to a balding type look.
Secondly, the volume of my hair is really gone down.
I usually tie a pony and always see hair in hair band.
My hair has almost become brittle ,coming off easily when brushed or pulled.even during sleep over the pillow.
I have naturally wavy hair.
Let me give background on nutrition
I am a vegetarian. Have multivits, calcium tabs, milk,no rice and veggies(most of them).
I take 3-5 cups of tea in a day.
I take very less water(almost a litre a day only)
Breakfast is erratic and not regular.
Kindly help as I want my voluminous hair back and ofcourse my receding hairline to be full of hair again.
I dont want to try Minoxidil or whatever that is chemically sold.
I have faith in homeopathy that it will solve my issue without fail.
lamisleandra on 2014-06-11
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1. Your age & sex
2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc)
Weight
Height
Body type (Very thin, Thin, Medium, Chubby, Fat, Obese)
Any significant feature (e.g. sunken cheeks, stooped shoulders, thin chest etc.)
3. Your profession
4. Describe your personality in at least 20 words (e.g. stubborn, lazy, suicidal, dont want to work, always in a hurry etc.)
5. If money was not an issue and you had a month of vacation, what would you do
6. How is your relationship with your parents, spouse, siblings, children etc.
7. If relationship is not ok, whats wrong and how is it affecting you
8. Do you smoke/drink/drugs, if yes, details of why & since when
9. What is your main health problem & its symptoms
10. When did this main problem begin
11. What is the cause of this problem in your view
12. What non-medicinal actions make the main problem better (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.)
13. What makes it worse (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.)
14. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (e.g. weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.)
15. What other health problems do you have
16. List down all health problems and when did they start (approximate month & year)
17. What non-medicinal actions make these other health problems better (explain each problem)
18. What makes these other health problems worse (explain each problem)
19. What animals or insects are you afraid of
20. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc)
21. What occupies your mind mostly
22. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy
23. Do you want to stay alone or with people
24. How is your sleep, if not good, why
25. Do you have any recurring dreams
26. Is your complaint affected by weather, if so, which weather affect & how
27. Do you normally feel hot or cold
28. What foods you crave & love (not what you eat due to health or other reasons, rather what you love)
29. Is there any food that you hate and cant tolerate
30. What taste you crave & love (e.g. sweet, salty, sour, bitter)
31. Is there any taste which you hate and cant tolerate
32. Do you like warm or cold food
33. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, lead pencil, mud .)
34. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive)
35. Do you have excessively dry lips or mouth or both
36. Do you have any coating on tongue first thing in the morning, if yes, details
Is coating thick
Color of coating
Where exactly (back, middle, sides etc)
37. Any taste in your mouth first thing in the morning (e.g. bitter, sour)
38. How is your skin (dry, oily, rough, acne, pustules, boils, psoriasis etc), upload here or email me a picture of the skin problem
39. Please upload here or email me a close up picture of your hand nails (without nail polish or any treatment done). Picture should be of nails, not hands. Click my username for my email address.
40. Details about your sweat, answer all these points: where mostly, how much, smell, does it stain, if yes what color
41. Any problems with eyes/vision, if yes, since when
42. Any problems with ears, nose, throat (e.g. nose always blocked, runny, discharge color)
43. How is your stool, answer all these points: how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.
44. How is your urine, answer all these points: color, smell, any blood etc.
45. How is your sex desire (e.g. no desire, low, moderate, high, very high)
46. Are you satisfied with your sex life, if no, why not
47. Do you masturbate, if yes, how frequently
48. Are you satisfied after that or want more
49. Males genitals (any problems with erection, any pain, any itching etc.)
50. Females menses details (reply to all these points)
Regularity (early, late, irregular, duration of cycle)
Flow (low, moderate, high)
Clots (none, some, a lot, huge clots, bright color, dark color)
Any discharge (color, consistency, smell)
51. What illnesses are running in your family
Mothers side
Fathers side
Siblings (brother/sister)
52. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic, homeopathic, supplements, acupuncture etc.)
53. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details
54. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological), if yes, give details (what, when, where, why, the list of medicines used)
55. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dosage, approx. time frame)
IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ THIS FIRST BEFORE ANSWERING QUESTIONS:
Homeopathy works only if you give truthful answers, no matter how awkward or intimate. If you dont want to do that, its better you stop here and dont proceed.
Please reply to all that is being asked and give details.
Short answers such as Yes/No/Normal are not helpful.
I want answers which explain the What, When, Where, Why, Better by & Worse by.
Example: I have a sore throat (it explains the what), since 3 days (it explains when), on the left side of my throat (explains where), due to eating sour food (explains why), the pain is better when I drink warm tea (explains Better by), the pain is worse when I swallow food (explains worse by)
Please leave the questions in place and give your answers under each of them.
I cant prescribe if these directions are not fully adhered to.
QUESTIONS:
1. Your age & sex
2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc)
Weight
Height
Body type (Very thin, Thin, Medium, Chubby, Fat, Obese)
Any significant feature (e.g. sunken cheeks, stooped shoulders, thin chest etc.)
3. Your profession
4. Describe your personality in at least 20 words (e.g. stubborn, lazy, suicidal, dont want to work, always in a hurry etc.)
5. If money was not an issue and you had a month of vacation, what would you do
6. How is your relationship with your parents, spouse, siblings, children etc.
7. If relationship is not ok, whats wrong and how is it affecting you
8. Do you smoke/drink/drugs, if yes, details of why & since when
9. What is your main health problem & its symptoms
10. When did this main problem begin
11. What is the cause of this problem in your view
12. What non-medicinal actions make the main problem better (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.)
13. What makes it worse (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.)
14. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (e.g. weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.)
15. What other health problems do you have
16. List down all health problems and when did they start (approximate month & year)
17. What non-medicinal actions make these other health problems better (explain each problem)
18. What makes these other health problems worse (explain each problem)
19. What animals or insects are you afraid of
20. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc)
21. What occupies your mind mostly
22. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy
23. Do you want to stay alone or with people
24. How is your sleep, if not good, why
25. Do you have any recurring dreams
26. Is your complaint affected by weather, if so, which weather affect & how
27. Do you normally feel hot or cold
28. What foods you crave & love (not what you eat due to health or other reasons, rather what you love)
29. Is there any food that you hate and cant tolerate
30. What taste you crave & love (e.g. sweet, salty, sour, bitter)
31. Is there any taste which you hate and cant tolerate
32. Do you like warm or cold food
33. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, lead pencil, mud .)
34. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive)
35. Do you have excessively dry lips or mouth or both
36. Do you have any coating on tongue first thing in the morning, if yes, details
Is coating thick
Color of coating
Where exactly (back, middle, sides etc)
37. Any taste in your mouth first thing in the morning (e.g. bitter, sour)
38. How is your skin (dry, oily, rough, acne, pustules, boils, psoriasis etc), upload here or email me a picture of the skin problem
39. Please upload here or email me a close up picture of your hand nails (without nail polish or any treatment done). Picture should be of nails, not hands. Click my username for my email address.
40. Details about your sweat, answer all these points: where mostly, how much, smell, does it stain, if yes what color
41. Any problems with eyes/vision, if yes, since when
42. Any problems with ears, nose, throat (e.g. nose always blocked, runny, discharge color)
43. How is your stool, answer all these points: how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.
44. How is your urine, answer all these points: color, smell, any blood etc.
45. How is your sex desire (e.g. no desire, low, moderate, high, very high)
46. Are you satisfied with your sex life, if no, why not
47. Do you masturbate, if yes, how frequently
48. Are you satisfied after that or want more
49. Males genitals (any problems with erection, any pain, any itching etc.)
50. Females menses details (reply to all these points)
Regularity (early, late, irregular, duration of cycle)
Flow (low, moderate, high)
Clots (none, some, a lot, huge clots, bright color, dark color)
Any discharge (color, consistency, smell)
51. What illnesses are running in your family
Mothers side
Fathers side
Siblings (brother/sister)
52. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic, homeopathic, supplements, acupuncture etc.)
53. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details
54. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological), if yes, give details (what, when, where, why, the list of medicines used)
55. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dosage, approx. time frame)
fitness 9 years ago
Replying to your questions
QUESTIONS:
1. Your age & sex - 32, FEMALE
2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc) :
Weight -69 Kgs
Height - 5 feet 4 inches
Body type (Very thin, Thin, Medium, Chubby, Fat, Obese) - Medium with a fatty belly which is apparent in tight clothes. Would not really describe myself as
healthy looking. Arms are flabby.thighs are also little bulky.
Any significant feature (e.g. sunken cheeks, stooped shoulders, thin chest etc.) mid-riff flabby, arms flabby but not too fat. broad shoulders,
small breasts post-pregnancy
3. Your profession - Software programmer, having an IT job.
4. Describe your personality in at least 20 words (e.g. stubborn, lazy, suicidal, dont want to work, always in a hurry etc.) :
lazy about career, always trying to do many things at a time, very fickle minded,focus/concentration is poor(from past 5 years this is emerging trait)
hateful towards Mother-in-law & husband's attitude towards me. Timid about taking bold steps in career, life. short tempered but this has greatly reduced
in past 3 years. creative,stubborn about own beliefs, day-dreamer, not far-sighted about career,MONEY especially. not overly concerned about status,
appearance,fashion,though I dress well and get complimented on every important occasion about my looks, very protective of my child and eager to teach child
new things,desire to make my child a successful person. I forgive easily,but do not forget. I dont keep grudges except in case of my in-laws and husband.
5. If money was not an issue and you had a month of vacation, what would you do :
feed orphaned kids at orphanages, buy them clothes and needed stuff.
practice meditation.
travel to far Paris, London, US,Australia, New Zealand, the Taj , pyramids, and some beach side with just my kid.
Buy an independent house with lots of space for gardening.
learn cooking various cuisines.
buy a car, a scooty.
Invest in such a way that I do not have to work and can live off my investments and educate my child and spend time maximum with him.
6. How is your relationship with your parents, spouse, siblings, children etc.
I have a very damaged and unrepairable relationship with my hubby. I am still in the marriage for the sake of the kid. He is very insulting about me,my
family.My Parents are also aware of this.
I have a love-hate relation with my parents. but I know i can count on them till I die.
I do not trust my husband or his parents. He has been violent and his Mother is aware of it.
I hate my Mother in law.I can not forgive her for the things she has said about me,and the biased way she treats me.
She supports and encourages my husband to dominate me.belittles me on everything.infact she also advises me to bear the torture coz she thinks her son,my
hubby is a very caring person and looks after me very well. I am regarded as a ZERO in the family.i have no respect from my husband and my in-laws.
I have a brother and we have a cordial relationship these days.we have not fought or any dislike is present between us.but we just refrain from interfering
in each others life.
About my SON: i love him beyond my understanding and I make every effort to imbibe in him good things.
I am very protective of him and fear him being converted by my husband considering the way he treats me in the house in front of my child.
7. If relationship is not ok, whats wrong and how is it affecting you : I am in the marriage for the sake of the child. I badly want to have second child
but i can not tolerate my husband at all. I have seen all levels of violence and rage tactics by him,like breaking things, hitting me, hitting/cutting
himself, taunts , insults over my job, looks, my side of family.and these days i do not argue most of the time with him. I try to be a role model for my
child by not engaging in arguments in front of child, not insulting his father.I have said this same thing to my husband time and time again to correct but
he doesnt. my MIL has always added fuel to fire in our fights.Although they do not stay with us in same city, when ever they visit, our rate of number of
fights increase as my hubby gets a support from her.MY FIL is a coward and suppressed person.me and him are treated in same insulting degraded way at home.We
both have no respect.even in small matters when i have bought a water bottle in the house, Both MIL and Hubby have insulted me over my choice and pointed out
that i have no sense in buying stuff or about life in general.I have contemplated suicide but I love my child and do not wish to agonise my child/parents
over my death. i am also lacking confidence in myself that I can succeed in job or anything at all. my self esteem has gone down and I constantly have mental
chatter which is either hateful or negative when i am in bad mood. most of the days I do not let the insults and rest of it bother me,and do my own stuff,
but at night I recollect it and cry about it.I have no willpower left to learn new things or fight back. I have become timid and maybe a suppressed person.
but there is huge amount of rage in me. which I do not want to show coz i do not want my child to be affected by it.
i yearn for respect and fair treatment from hubby at least.but I am convinced he will never do it.
He is accusing me of adultery.but this is not the case.I am popular in my office due to my looks and my nature in between my friends is very vibrant and
outgoing. Male/Guys flirt with me and compliement me. i have more male friends but very few select female friends who are my friends from more than a decade.
I vent my issues with my friends and feel good,but really its not taking me anywhere.coz all they do is advise me to divorce my hubby.
which i do not want to do, at this stage. I want to prove to myself that I am not a failure like my hubby thinks and really succeed as a person on the whole.
On some level I want him to be ashamed thru his own deeds and come to realization that he has mistreated me as a person.
8. Do you smoke/drink/drugs, if yes, details of why & since when - No.I treasure my body and never done smoking ,drugs or drinks ever.
9. What is your main health problem & its symptoms : weight is not reducing. Hairfall is my biggest issue as it used to make me feel confident about myself.
I was very proud of my hair. You can say, it was my strength in terms of my looks. losing my hair has made me lose confidence in myself on a very deep level.
Symptoms: I had a natural bald spot in the mid-line of my hairline.but both sides of that spot and rest of the head had volumionous hair.
I literally couldnt hold the hair in one hairband when i was younger. Post my marriage, my hair length is not going beyond shoulder level. only during my
preganancy i refused to cut it and so it grew till waist length. post partum i lost a lot of my hair volume. Now from 2013 May till date, I have lost 3/4 volume of my hair. Also the hair near the naturally bald spot has also reduced and is making my hair line go inside and the hair around it is sparse and small hair only cover it.Hair quality has reduced greatly. and is often brittle,easily pluckable from root, shineless, weak, and turns oily in couple of days.I feel like hair is getting pulled when i tie in pony tail and if i leave it open ,they tangle easily.My hair is naturally wavy.
10. When did this main problem begin : 2013 may.
11. What is the cause of this problem in your view : STRESS and poor nutrition.
12. What non-medicinal actions make the main problem better (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.) : NO.
13. What makes it worse (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.) : Weather changes, washing hair with water, oiling it makes me lose more strands of hair.sending me into depression for almost a day.
14. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (e.g. weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.) : Depressed. I do not look at old pics out of shame.I catch myself looking in the mirror and invariable focusing on hairline
15. What other health problems do you have : Plantar fascitis, Vit deficiancy. Black marks/age marks on facial skin. Amebiosis although not recurrant if i eat carefully.
16. List down all health problems and when did they start (approximate month & year) : plantar F: May 2013. Amebiosis : since birth (1982) age marks increasing since 2008(year of marriage), hair loss (2011 start-post partum)
17. What non-medicinal actions make these other health problems better (explain each problem) : Eating carefully does not cause upset stomach. for rest of issues, nothing seems to work or limit health issues.
18. What makes these other health problems worse (explain each problem) : Plantar F: standing too long, walking for long time.Stomach upset: too much oily/spicy food. Hair loss: mood swings, stress, anger, crying.
19. What animals or insects are you afraid of : Cockroach, lizards, rats, cats,flying insects.
20. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc): stranded in an ocean, very lonely places, violent fights,getting beaten, losing my job,losing my child, ill-health of child,losing my parents.
21. What occupies your mind mostly : how to gain freedom from my troubled marriage and live life alone with my child on my own terms.
22. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy : i sometimes like it,but i know it doesnt help me in anyways,its just temporary. These days , i find it frustrating to talk to people about my issues as they have only one option to give me ;DIVORCE. i find people dont want to help.just listen and move on!
23. Do you want to stay alone or with people : ALONE. maybe socialise sometimes, but really prefer to live alone.
24. How is your sleep, if not good, why: good . only if I am very troubled i sleep late.else i sleep very quickly as i am exhausted by EOD.
25. Do you have any recurring dreams: YES.
26. Is your complaint affected by weather, if so, which weather affect & how : yes. Summer, I lost a lot of hair volume, winter : SAME thing.
27. Do you normally feel hot or cold: HOT.but i dont like AC too much for long periods.
28. What foods you crave & love (not what you eat due to health or other reasons, rather what you love): ICECREAMS, MILK PRODUCTS LIKE ENERGEE, LASSI, DAHI, CHOCOLATE(NOT ALWAYS), DOSA,IDLI,DAHI RICE, TEA.
29. Is there any food that you hate and cant tolerate : NONVEGETATRIAN FOOD OF ALL KINDS.
30. What taste you crave & love (e.g. sweet, salty, sour, bitter) : SWEET
31. Is there any taste which you hate and cant tolerate: BITTER
32. Do you like warm or cold food: WARM,HOT TEA
33. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, lead pencil, mud .): NONE
34. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive): LESS.HARDLY GULP ONE LTR A DAY
35. Do you have excessively dry lips or mouth or botH : NO
36. Do you have any coating on tongue first thing in the morning, if yes, details :
Is coating thick
Color of coating
Where exactly (back, middle, sides etc)
37. Any taste in your mouth first thing in the morning (e.g. bitter, sour) : BITTER-ACIDIC.SOMETIMES SOUR.
38. How is your skin (dry, oily, rough, acne, pustules, boils, psoriasis etc), upload here or email me a picture of the skin problem : NORMAL.FACE SKIN IS AGING,WITH AGE MARKS, WITH PIGMENTATION ON CHEEKS. WILL MAIL PIC TO UR ID.
39. Please upload here or email me a close up picture of your hand nails (without nail polish or any treatment done). Picture should be of nails, not hands.
Click my username for my email address.
I will email the pics,in a day on your id.
40. Details about your sweat, answer all these points: where mostly, how much, smell, does it stain, if yes what color : YES, UNDER ARMPITS, MODERATE. STAINING : PLAIN WATER COLOR,NEVER SEEN YELLOWISH STAINS IN MY SHIRTS. SMELL: not sweet, or sour,its not strong either which will leak thru my clothes. I dont use deos often.
41. Any problems with eyes/vision, if yes, since when : NO.
42. Any problems with ears, nose, throat (e.g. nose always blocked, runny, discharge color) : NO
43. How is your stool, answer all these points: how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.: 3 times a day which is normal for me.consistency is soft and brown.no occult blood, no smell except what normal stool i think smells like. Unless I have upset stomach, i get loose motions but never blood in it.watery and with pungent smell.dark brown in color and undigested food comes out. i cant normally tolerate some vegetables like ladyfingers,and seedy veggies, chole etc give me gas and i Avoid such food.
44. How is your urine, answer all these points: color, smell, any blood etc.: yellow in morning. no blood ever. smell:ammonic,
45. How is your sex desire (e.g. no desire, low, moderate, high, very high): High
46. Are you satisfied with your sex life, if no, why not: NOPE.
47. Do you masturbate, if yes, how frequently: yes. once a week.
48. Are you satisfied after that or want more: pretty much satisfied.
49. Males genitals (any problems with erection, any pain, any itching etc.)
50. Females menses details (reply to all these points)
Regularity (early, late, irregular, duration of cycle) : REGULAR
Flow (low, moderate, high) : moderate.2-3 pads a day, lasts only 3 .5 days.
Clots (none, some, a lot, huge clots, bright color, dark color) yes.clots present, deep red to bright red clots
Any discharge (color, consistency, smell): smells like dead fish.makes me want to vomit.
51. What illnesses are running in your family
Mothers side : diabetes.high BP
Fathers side : cholestrol, diabetes, high bp, smoking
Siblings (brother/sister): none
52. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic, homeopathic, supplements, acupuncture etc.): mutlivitamins, vit D3 tablets, fish oil(seven seas) calcium tab, spirulina(started recently)
53. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details: ano-rectal abcess surgery in 2013. C-section -2010.no implants
54. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological), if yes, give details (what, when, where, why, the list of medicines used) : None.contemplating of seeing a psychiatrist for self improvement.
55. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dosage, approx. time frame) : had taken.no records or recollection of it.this was for poly cystic ovaries i have. in year 2005.
QUESTIONS:
1. Your age & sex - 32, FEMALE
2. Describe your appearance i.e. weight, height, body type (thin, medium, chubby, fat etc) :
Weight -69 Kgs
Height - 5 feet 4 inches
Body type (Very thin, Thin, Medium, Chubby, Fat, Obese) - Medium with a fatty belly which is apparent in tight clothes. Would not really describe myself as
healthy looking. Arms are flabby.thighs are also little bulky.
Any significant feature (e.g. sunken cheeks, stooped shoulders, thin chest etc.) mid-riff flabby, arms flabby but not too fat. broad shoulders,
small breasts post-pregnancy
3. Your profession - Software programmer, having an IT job.
4. Describe your personality in at least 20 words (e.g. stubborn, lazy, suicidal, dont want to work, always in a hurry etc.) :
lazy about career, always trying to do many things at a time, very fickle minded,focus/concentration is poor(from past 5 years this is emerging trait)
hateful towards Mother-in-law & husband's attitude towards me. Timid about taking bold steps in career, life. short tempered but this has greatly reduced
in past 3 years. creative,stubborn about own beliefs, day-dreamer, not far-sighted about career,MONEY especially. not overly concerned about status,
appearance,fashion,though I dress well and get complimented on every important occasion about my looks, very protective of my child and eager to teach child
new things,desire to make my child a successful person. I forgive easily,but do not forget. I dont keep grudges except in case of my in-laws and husband.
5. If money was not an issue and you had a month of vacation, what would you do :
feed orphaned kids at orphanages, buy them clothes and needed stuff.
practice meditation.
travel to far Paris, London, US,Australia, New Zealand, the Taj , pyramids, and some beach side with just my kid.
Buy an independent house with lots of space for gardening.
learn cooking various cuisines.
buy a car, a scooty.
Invest in such a way that I do not have to work and can live off my investments and educate my child and spend time maximum with him.
6. How is your relationship with your parents, spouse, siblings, children etc.
I have a very damaged and unrepairable relationship with my hubby. I am still in the marriage for the sake of the kid. He is very insulting about me,my
family.My Parents are also aware of this.
I have a love-hate relation with my parents. but I know i can count on them till I die.
I do not trust my husband or his parents. He has been violent and his Mother is aware of it.
I hate my Mother in law.I can not forgive her for the things she has said about me,and the biased way she treats me.
She supports and encourages my husband to dominate me.belittles me on everything.infact she also advises me to bear the torture coz she thinks her son,my
hubby is a very caring person and looks after me very well. I am regarded as a ZERO in the family.i have no respect from my husband and my in-laws.
I have a brother and we have a cordial relationship these days.we have not fought or any dislike is present between us.but we just refrain from interfering
in each others life.
About my SON: i love him beyond my understanding and I make every effort to imbibe in him good things.
I am very protective of him and fear him being converted by my husband considering the way he treats me in the house in front of my child.
7. If relationship is not ok, whats wrong and how is it affecting you : I am in the marriage for the sake of the child. I badly want to have second child
but i can not tolerate my husband at all. I have seen all levels of violence and rage tactics by him,like breaking things, hitting me, hitting/cutting
himself, taunts , insults over my job, looks, my side of family.and these days i do not argue most of the time with him. I try to be a role model for my
child by not engaging in arguments in front of child, not insulting his father.I have said this same thing to my husband time and time again to correct but
he doesnt. my MIL has always added fuel to fire in our fights.Although they do not stay with us in same city, when ever they visit, our rate of number of
fights increase as my hubby gets a support from her.MY FIL is a coward and suppressed person.me and him are treated in same insulting degraded way at home.We
both have no respect.even in small matters when i have bought a water bottle in the house, Both MIL and Hubby have insulted me over my choice and pointed out
that i have no sense in buying stuff or about life in general.I have contemplated suicide but I love my child and do not wish to agonise my child/parents
over my death. i am also lacking confidence in myself that I can succeed in job or anything at all. my self esteem has gone down and I constantly have mental
chatter which is either hateful or negative when i am in bad mood. most of the days I do not let the insults and rest of it bother me,and do my own stuff,
but at night I recollect it and cry about it.I have no willpower left to learn new things or fight back. I have become timid and maybe a suppressed person.
but there is huge amount of rage in me. which I do not want to show coz i do not want my child to be affected by it.
i yearn for respect and fair treatment from hubby at least.but I am convinced he will never do it.
He is accusing me of adultery.but this is not the case.I am popular in my office due to my looks and my nature in between my friends is very vibrant and
outgoing. Male/Guys flirt with me and compliement me. i have more male friends but very few select female friends who are my friends from more than a decade.
I vent my issues with my friends and feel good,but really its not taking me anywhere.coz all they do is advise me to divorce my hubby.
which i do not want to do, at this stage. I want to prove to myself that I am not a failure like my hubby thinks and really succeed as a person on the whole.
On some level I want him to be ashamed thru his own deeds and come to realization that he has mistreated me as a person.
8. Do you smoke/drink/drugs, if yes, details of why & since when - No.I treasure my body and never done smoking ,drugs or drinks ever.
9. What is your main health problem & its symptoms : weight is not reducing. Hairfall is my biggest issue as it used to make me feel confident about myself.
I was very proud of my hair. You can say, it was my strength in terms of my looks. losing my hair has made me lose confidence in myself on a very deep level.
Symptoms: I had a natural bald spot in the mid-line of my hairline.but both sides of that spot and rest of the head had volumionous hair.
I literally couldnt hold the hair in one hairband when i was younger. Post my marriage, my hair length is not going beyond shoulder level. only during my
preganancy i refused to cut it and so it grew till waist length. post partum i lost a lot of my hair volume. Now from 2013 May till date, I have lost 3/4 volume of my hair. Also the hair near the naturally bald spot has also reduced and is making my hair line go inside and the hair around it is sparse and small hair only cover it.Hair quality has reduced greatly. and is often brittle,easily pluckable from root, shineless, weak, and turns oily in couple of days.I feel like hair is getting pulled when i tie in pony tail and if i leave it open ,they tangle easily.My hair is naturally wavy.
10. When did this main problem begin : 2013 may.
11. What is the cause of this problem in your view : STRESS and poor nutrition.
12. What non-medicinal actions make the main problem better (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.) : NO.
13. What makes it worse (e.g. massage, warmth, cold, lying down, sitting etc.) : Weather changes, washing hair with water, oiling it makes me lose more strands of hair.sending me into depression for almost a day.
14. How do you feel mentally & emotionally during this problem (e.g. weepy, irritable, restless, sad, hopeless, fear of death etc.) : Depressed. I do not look at old pics out of shame.I catch myself looking in the mirror and invariable focusing on hairline
15. What other health problems do you have : Plantar fascitis, Vit deficiancy. Black marks/age marks on facial skin. Amebiosis although not recurrant if i eat carefully.
16. List down all health problems and when did they start (approximate month & year) : plantar F: May 2013. Amebiosis : since birth (1982) age marks increasing since 2008(year of marriage), hair loss (2011 start-post partum)
17. What non-medicinal actions make these other health problems better (explain each problem) : Eating carefully does not cause upset stomach. for rest of issues, nothing seems to work or limit health issues.
18. What makes these other health problems worse (explain each problem) : Plantar F: standing too long, walking for long time.Stomach upset: too much oily/spicy food. Hair loss: mood swings, stress, anger, crying.
19. What animals or insects are you afraid of : Cockroach, lizards, rats, cats,flying insects.
20. What situations are you afraid of (e.g. heights, closed spaces, ocean, darkness etc): stranded in an ocean, very lonely places, violent fights,getting beaten, losing my job,losing my child, ill-health of child,losing my parents.
21. What occupies your mind mostly : how to gain freedom from my troubled marriage and live life alone with my child on my own terms.
22. How do you respond to consolation & sympathy : i sometimes like it,but i know it doesnt help me in anyways,its just temporary. These days , i find it frustrating to talk to people about my issues as they have only one option to give me ;DIVORCE. i find people dont want to help.just listen and move on!
23. Do you want to stay alone or with people : ALONE. maybe socialise sometimes, but really prefer to live alone.
24. How is your sleep, if not good, why: good . only if I am very troubled i sleep late.else i sleep very quickly as i am exhausted by EOD.
25. Do you have any recurring dreams: YES.
26. Is your complaint affected by weather, if so, which weather affect & how : yes. Summer, I lost a lot of hair volume, winter : SAME thing.
27. Do you normally feel hot or cold: HOT.but i dont like AC too much for long periods.
28. What foods you crave & love (not what you eat due to health or other reasons, rather what you love): ICECREAMS, MILK PRODUCTS LIKE ENERGEE, LASSI, DAHI, CHOCOLATE(NOT ALWAYS), DOSA,IDLI,DAHI RICE, TEA.
29. Is there any food that you hate and cant tolerate : NONVEGETATRIAN FOOD OF ALL KINDS.
30. What taste you crave & love (e.g. sweet, salty, sour, bitter) : SWEET
31. Is there any taste which you hate and cant tolerate: BITTER
32. Do you like warm or cold food: WARM,HOT TEA
33. Do you want to eat indigestible foods (chalk, lead pencil, mud .): NONE
34. How is your thirst (less, moderate, excessive): LESS.HARDLY GULP ONE LTR A DAY
35. Do you have excessively dry lips or mouth or botH : NO
36. Do you have any coating on tongue first thing in the morning, if yes, details :
Is coating thick
Color of coating
Where exactly (back, middle, sides etc)
37. Any taste in your mouth first thing in the morning (e.g. bitter, sour) : BITTER-ACIDIC.SOMETIMES SOUR.
38. How is your skin (dry, oily, rough, acne, pustules, boils, psoriasis etc), upload here or email me a picture of the skin problem : NORMAL.FACE SKIN IS AGING,WITH AGE MARKS, WITH PIGMENTATION ON CHEEKS. WILL MAIL PIC TO UR ID.
39. Please upload here or email me a close up picture of your hand nails (without nail polish or any treatment done). Picture should be of nails, not hands.
Click my username for my email address.
I will email the pics,in a day on your id.
40. Details about your sweat, answer all these points: where mostly, how much, smell, does it stain, if yes what color : YES, UNDER ARMPITS, MODERATE. STAINING : PLAIN WATER COLOR,NEVER SEEN YELLOWISH STAINS IN MY SHIRTS. SMELL: not sweet, or sour,its not strong either which will leak thru my clothes. I dont use deos often.
41. Any problems with eyes/vision, if yes, since when : NO.
42. Any problems with ears, nose, throat (e.g. nose always blocked, runny, discharge color) : NO
43. How is your stool, answer all these points: how often, consistency, any blood, any particular smell etc.: 3 times a day which is normal for me.consistency is soft and brown.no occult blood, no smell except what normal stool i think smells like. Unless I have upset stomach, i get loose motions but never blood in it.watery and with pungent smell.dark brown in color and undigested food comes out. i cant normally tolerate some vegetables like ladyfingers,and seedy veggies, chole etc give me gas and i Avoid such food.
44. How is your urine, answer all these points: color, smell, any blood etc.: yellow in morning. no blood ever. smell:ammonic,
45. How is your sex desire (e.g. no desire, low, moderate, high, very high): High
46. Are you satisfied with your sex life, if no, why not: NOPE.
47. Do you masturbate, if yes, how frequently: yes. once a week.
48. Are you satisfied after that or want more: pretty much satisfied.
49. Males genitals (any problems with erection, any pain, any itching etc.)
50. Females menses details (reply to all these points)
Regularity (early, late, irregular, duration of cycle) : REGULAR
Flow (low, moderate, high) : moderate.2-3 pads a day, lasts only 3 .5 days.
Clots (none, some, a lot, huge clots, bright color, dark color) yes.clots present, deep red to bright red clots
Any discharge (color, consistency, smell): smells like dead fish.makes me want to vomit.
51. What illnesses are running in your family
Mothers side : diabetes.high BP
Fathers side : cholestrol, diabetes, high bp, smoking
Siblings (brother/sister): none
52. Are you taking any medicines (allopathic, homeopathic, supplements, acupuncture etc.): mutlivitamins, vit D3 tablets, fish oil(seven seas) calcium tab, spirulina(started recently)
53. Have you had any surgeries or implants, if yes, give details: ano-rectal abcess surgery in 2013. C-section -2010.no implants
54. Have you had any long term treatment (physical or psychological), if yes, give details (what, when, where, why, the list of medicines used) : None.contemplating of seeing a psychiatrist for self improvement.
55. What homeopathic remedies have you taken in the past (potency, dosage, approx. time frame) : had taken.no records or recollection of it.this was for poly cystic ovaries i have. in year 2005.
lamisleandra 9 years ago
No amount of treatment, be it homeopathic or allopathic, can cure if the persistent cause is not eliminated e.g. if you keep moving a broken bone repeatedly then it will never heal since you are not giving it the required break to heal and set the bone. The same logic applies to constant immense stress (dont confuse it with daily life stress which is necessary to survive).
Extremely unhappy relationships are toxic in nature and only breed more contempt & ill health unless they are addressed and proper remedial measures are not taken.
In your case, I think you definitely need to seek some help (maybe a marriage counselor) before we embark on your treatment as I am certain that homeopathic treatment alone will fail sooner or later.
Extremely unhappy relationships are toxic in nature and only breed more contempt & ill health unless they are addressed and proper remedial measures are not taken.
In your case, I think you definitely need to seek some help (maybe a marriage counselor) before we embark on your treatment as I am certain that homeopathic treatment alone will fail sooner or later.
fitness 9 years ago
Hi,
Surprising to see this kind of answer on my question.
In this forum I have gone through almost all hair loss questions and you,Dear Sir have given remedies for every person who has answered your questionnaire less frankly than me. Infact I am pretty sure that you would have given me remedy if I had given very vague and basic answers like others to the questions.
Also,you have not once questioned any married or single person for whom remedy was failing whether it was due to their personal issues and neither have they replied with pretty indepth insights about their situation. Instead you increased their dosage or changed it.
I am sorry to sound bitter here but you have literally thrown away my case and I realize its because of my answers.
In reply to your advice, I know such cases need a marriage counselor but is that an uncommon thing today?? Right from kids to dying patients are taking psychiatric help,and yet most of them are prescribed valium n other such medication.
Very few are prescribed alternative medicine like Homeopathy. And as far as my knowledge of Homeopathy is, It is very important to have a good idea about the mental situation of the person before the doctor starts the treatment. You are pretty much right when you said that 'Before we embark on the treatment, I need counseling' But dear Sir, let me assure you, I have done it already and I have full faith that Mental counseling is not needed by Me but it is very much required for my In-laws and my Hubby.
Anyways thank you for your insight.
Have a good day!
[message edited by lamisleandra on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 06:55:36 BST]
Surprising to see this kind of answer on my question.
In this forum I have gone through almost all hair loss questions and you,Dear Sir have given remedies for every person who has answered your questionnaire less frankly than me. Infact I am pretty sure that you would have given me remedy if I had given very vague and basic answers like others to the questions.
Also,you have not once questioned any married or single person for whom remedy was failing whether it was due to their personal issues and neither have they replied with pretty indepth insights about their situation. Instead you increased their dosage or changed it.
I am sorry to sound bitter here but you have literally thrown away my case and I realize its because of my answers.
In reply to your advice, I know such cases need a marriage counselor but is that an uncommon thing today?? Right from kids to dying patients are taking psychiatric help,and yet most of them are prescribed valium n other such medication.
Very few are prescribed alternative medicine like Homeopathy. And as far as my knowledge of Homeopathy is, It is very important to have a good idea about the mental situation of the person before the doctor starts the treatment. You are pretty much right when you said that 'Before we embark on the treatment, I need counseling' But dear Sir, let me assure you, I have done it already and I have full faith that Mental counseling is not needed by Me but it is very much required for my In-laws and my Hubby.
Anyways thank you for your insight.
Have a good day!
[message edited by lamisleandra on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 06:55:36 BST]
lamisleandra 9 years ago
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