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difficult boy
hi looking for help for a difficult boy.in general he is serious,quiet,shy,low spirited.He only livens up when there is something fun in it for him...like playing football with friends,cinema.He will be sulky,irritable and obstinate if he has to go somewhere that there is nothing for him.
He is very unsocialable to certain people.
He is very competative and very good at sports and anything he tries.
He shows jealousy towards his little brother and teases him and makes him feel small.
He`s not affectionate,but is sensitve and easily put into a bad mood.
He seems older than his years without the carefreeness of a child of his age(8)
Always wants the latest trends and negociates untill he gets them,is manipulative.His behaviour is better at home but he becomes very moody,irritable,unsociable around adults or children outside the home (friends or strangers,if he soesn`t like them)
He HATES high pitched noises like parrots,or fireworks or dogs barking,he clutches his ears.
on a positive note he likes music,sport,is curious for information.When in a good mood he is chatty and amusing and clever.
i`m thinking Lycopodium or sepia as i`m reading that as childrn sepia are irritable,greedy....
mollydalton on 2009-11-23
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I`ve gone ahead with a dose of Lachesis 200 and waiting to see if there is a change.
mollydalton last decade
he is meloncholic,very serious quiet,stroppy ,intellegent,able to negotiate.
He has some excema deep in ear canals that provoke blocking of the ears and they need to be syringed once a year.
He suffered night terrors at 2 years.
loves sport and likes to play with little Plastic figures alone.
loves drawing.
i`m worried.Its so hard to make him happy
He has some excema deep in ear canals that provoke blocking of the ears and they need to be syringed once a year.
He suffered night terrors at 2 years.
loves sport and likes to play with little Plastic figures alone.
loves drawing.
i`m worried.Its so hard to make him happy
mollydalton last decade
nux vom??
mollydalton last decade
♡ maheeru last decade
well i`m not sure as he has better phases than others.When he has routine like shcool and sport he is less diconntented.I suppose i see how down he is better now cause we are off school.
I mentioned he loves sport and drawing but he takes them seriously,not happily or lightly.
Tomorow i have an appointment with his pediatrician for blood tests,i`m thinking maybe hormonal as his behaviuor is more like a teenager than an 8 year old.
i have given him nux vom 200ch.( i am a homeopathy student)
I mentioned he loves sport and drawing but he takes them seriously,not happily or lightly.
Tomorow i have an appointment with his pediatrician for blood tests,i`m thinking maybe hormonal as his behaviuor is more like a teenager than an 8 year old.
i have given him nux vom 200ch.( i am a homeopathy student)
mollydalton last decade
Molly
Let the nux dose act on him for a week.
Can you put up his current symptom picture including descriptive details? It'd be easy to assess his case and suggest a remedy.
Main complaints, causes, his temperament/fears/emotional state, temperature climate preferences, his cravings and aversions including food items, any worsening or ameliorating factors, the remedies he has taken till now and the reaction and other peculiar details shall be included.
Let the nux dose act on him for a week.
Can you put up his current symptom picture including descriptive details? It'd be easy to assess his case and suggest a remedy.
Main complaints, causes, his temperament/fears/emotional state, temperature climate preferences, his cravings and aversions including food items, any worsening or ameliorating factors, the remedies he has taken till now and the reaction and other peculiar details shall be included.
♡ maheeru last decade
yes of course.
8 years old,tall,thin,fair,very athletic.
temperment - generally serious,downbeat,negative,needs lots of praise,reassurance.He occasionally shows excitment for an activity but short lived as straight after he`s low.Rarely laughs ,looks like he`s embarrassed to laugh.He gets stroppy when upset,gets upset about any change of plans of when there is a plan with no fun in it for him.unconsiderate.says hurtful things and bangs doors then wants to be alone.His little brother makes him laugh thank goodness and funny videos on internet.
Little interest in eating but he loves fish,shellfish,salty foods,recently wants to try spicy/hot food.
Always thirsty.
He won`t eat any round foods!!not because thay are round but i have noticed he doesn`t want ..olives,corn,peas,chicpeas..
He fears dogs barking,loud noises(parrots squaling)fireworks.Being alone..eg if he`s asked to find something in his room he`ll ask me to go with him or his brother.if his brother`snot around says he doesn`t want to sleep alone.
presently he has his ear blocked and it will be syringed tomorrow.
He often suffers from pus in the penis as it is closed.
he has taken lyco..no change,sulpher,lach and nux but maybe not in the right doses.
He tries to behave appropriately but i don`t think it`s natural...he puts on an upbeat mood because he knows i want him too.
8 years old,tall,thin,fair,very athletic.
temperment - generally serious,downbeat,negative,needs lots of praise,reassurance.He occasionally shows excitment for an activity but short lived as straight after he`s low.Rarely laughs ,looks like he`s embarrassed to laugh.He gets stroppy when upset,gets upset about any change of plans of when there is a plan with no fun in it for him.unconsiderate.says hurtful things and bangs doors then wants to be alone.His little brother makes him laugh thank goodness and funny videos on internet.
Little interest in eating but he loves fish,shellfish,salty foods,recently wants to try spicy/hot food.
Always thirsty.
He won`t eat any round foods!!not because thay are round but i have noticed he doesn`t want ..olives,corn,peas,chicpeas..
He fears dogs barking,loud noises(parrots squaling)fireworks.Being alone..eg if he`s asked to find something in his room he`ll ask me to go with him or his brother.if his brother`snot around says he doesn`t want to sleep alone.
presently he has his ear blocked and it will be syringed tomorrow.
He often suffers from pus in the penis as it is closed.
he has taken lyco..no change,sulpher,lach and nux but maybe not in the right doses.
He tries to behave appropriately but i don`t think it`s natural...he puts on an upbeat mood because he knows i want him too.
mollydalton last decade
Molly
Report after a week from last nux dose. If he feels benefit from the nux dose it can be applied in further higher potencies. Otherwise will let you know another remedy for him.
Report after a week from last nux dose. If he feels benefit from the nux dose it can be applied in further higher potencies. Otherwise will let you know another remedy for him.
♡ maheeru last decade
no change.today leaving the house to do an activity he became negative,cheeky and hurtful to me because he couldn`t find his shoes.I cancelled the outing saying nobody would enjoy his attitiude.Waiting for an apology :(
mollydalton last decade
Molly
This is to do with behavior issue. This will take time. Do not exacerbate by teasing him or insisting on apology and if necessary please do the necessary changes so that he gets very few opportunities to misbehave. Though you can talk to him patiently why his behaviour is bad after some hours have elapsed,
Some questions:
Since when is he behaving like this? could you attribute this to any cause?
Is he behaving the same way with both of his parents?
How does he behave with other adults, friends and strangers?
Does he break things or throw things when he's displeased?
what changes did you notice with nux and other homeopathic medicines?
This is to do with behavior issue. This will take time. Do not exacerbate by teasing him or insisting on apology and if necessary please do the necessary changes so that he gets very few opportunities to misbehave. Though you can talk to him patiently why his behaviour is bad after some hours have elapsed,
Some questions:
Since when is he behaving like this? could you attribute this to any cause?
Is he behaving the same way with both of his parents?
How does he behave with other adults, friends and strangers?
Does he break things or throw things when he's displeased?
what changes did you notice with nux and other homeopathic medicines?
♡ maheeru last decade
yes it`s a behaviour issue or emotional imbalance.He reacts negatively and sometimes aggressively to trivial things.
we talk aot about it,i ask him to draw or write how he feels whn he feels negative.I ask him to take himself out of the equation and look at how he may hurt others..etc
i try to tell him its not him but his emotions are negstive.
i remeber he`s like this since 6 or 7.
He spends more time with me so i suppose he`s like this more with me and i am the boss of the house so i reinforce rules.
He`s not open with strangers,will only speak when spoken to,he may be extremely closed if he takes a disliking to them or with other children,he won`t just play with any kids.
he bangs doors or if you try to get him or move him he`ll kick or make himself stiff.
no change with nux
we talk aot about it,i ask him to draw or write how he feels whn he feels negative.I ask him to take himself out of the equation and look at how he may hurt others..etc
i try to tell him its not him but his emotions are negstive.
i remeber he`s like this since 6 or 7.
He spends more time with me so i suppose he`s like this more with me and i am the boss of the house so i reinforce rules.
He`s not open with strangers,will only speak when spoken to,he may be extremely closed if he takes a disliking to them or with other children,he won`t just play with any kids.
he bangs doors or if you try to get him or move him he`ll kick or make himself stiff.
no change with nux
mollydalton last decade
U have mentioned that he is always thirsty m Why do you say that , any other such physical symptoms u can think of like .
What are his weather preferences
What are his weather preferences
vikas_grower last decade
Molly, when did you give him Lycopodium ? What potencies and how many doses? what was the reaction?
♡ maheeru last decade
I`ve given it to him in small doses..30 but without much repition.
when his brother was born he suffered 2 bouts of asma which i think was from anxiety or jealousy and began with a few strong anger fits.He was 4 when his brother was born.
They get on quiet well ,he does protect him and they play but the older always being the leader.
thanks for this x
when his brother was born he suffered 2 bouts of asma which i think was from anxiety or jealousy and began with a few strong anger fits.He was 4 when his brother was born.
They get on quiet well ,he does protect him and they play but the older always being the leader.
thanks for this x
mollydalton last decade
molly
I feel lycopodium can be tried now.
If you're ok with my suggestion, please give him, lycopodium 6c three doses (a dose will be 2 pills or drops) on a single day and report after 10 days.
Other homeopathic guidelines like avoiding coffee, tea, mint bases substances, strong smelling substances hold. 40 minutes before and after remedy nothing shall be taken.
I feel lycopodium can be tried now.
If you're ok with my suggestion, please give him, lycopodium 6c three doses (a dose will be 2 pills or drops) on a single day and report after 10 days.
Other homeopathic guidelines like avoiding coffee, tea, mint bases substances, strong smelling substances hold. 40 minutes before and after remedy nothing shall be taken.
♡ maheeru last decade
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