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Urgent : Teen-Unmotivated,lethargic,AngerRages, Defiant
My son is giving up on his studies. There is some level of depression or feeling of not being good as other students. Also his effort is zero. Has terrible rages and very nasty behavior and argumentative at home. (Not in front of others). Sits in his room all day. Blames others for everything. Very sharp and intelligent. Very bad anger. Manipulative if he wants something. Has big ideas but does not have the patience or desire to put them to reality even when we offer him the resources.He is 18 years old. He is in high school. He does not want to study and wants to quit school. Sits watching political and comedy shows all day. Has started failing in his classes. He will NOT do homework in order to sabotage himself. Some description below. Please help!
He is about 5'8 about 65kg. Likes to eat fried heavy foods, chips, nonveg, juices, sugary items and cold soda like pepsi. Likes cheese too. He is asthmatic and has allergy to dust. His skin is on dry side. He feels extra warm always. Coldest part of his body are his feet. He is not physically active and stays indoors mostly. (Wants to be in sports but feels not good enough so wont try out to be on team). He is arrogant, domineering and will hit us too. He is sensitive to smells and does not like loud noises. He speaks loudly (but his hearing has always been normal though as child he had tinnitus which is now ok).
He also has problem focusing in class, perhaps mildly Attention Deficit Disorder. I have noticed that multiple instructions at one time is something he has always had problem processing. His room is like a tornado went through with stuff everywhere. He is not organized. He does NOT brush teeth most of the time . Has started taking bath regularly though. He threatens to kill himself if we take his laptop away but I am convinced those are mere words to scare us. He does not like germs..bit of OCD there.
He refuses to take depression medicine that the doctor offered. As he is older the doctor cannot force him to take medicine . My only hope is homeopathy now to which he is open to take. Please suggest something for depression/low self esteem, anger , mental balance to think clearly like "If you want to succeed in life then you must study and go to college" . (Right now there is a disconnect where he does not connect effort to success ) I would like to add that he is not dumb or slow as he is very quick to learn but only if he wants.
We are quite desperate to help him. Please suggest homeopathic remedy.
Jess1 on 2018-02-27
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Anger - greed - sex - pride - fear ?
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♡ healer21 6 years ago
Thank you. Most of your questions are answered in my original post.
Others I will try to answer here:
-Likes to eat fried foods, juices, soda, chips, burritos, cheese, yoghurt. Likes sweets.
-Tendency is to constipation as eats lot of junk food.
-Feels warm, sensitive to noises and smell and also light.
-No tobacco, alcohol. Eats meat but not everyday.
-Feels hot in body. Does not like sunny weather.
-- Depression. (Also low self esteem. Perhaps that caused depression)
-- ANGER (When angry , is not able to see reason and is very nasty)
Thanks .
Others I will try to answer here:
-Likes to eat fried foods, juices, soda, chips, burritos, cheese, yoghurt. Likes sweets.
-Tendency is to constipation as eats lot of junk food.
-Feels warm, sensitive to noises and smell and also light.
-No tobacco, alcohol. Eats meat but not everyday.
-Feels hot in body. Does not like sunny weather.
-- Depression. (Also low self esteem. Perhaps that caused depression)
-- ANGER (When angry , is not able to see reason and is very nasty)
Thanks .
Jess1 6 years ago
Let's give a try to Nat.phos 200c .. 4 drops once a day for two to three days only. In a separate disposable glass with some water in it.
Don't eat or drink anything 30 minutes before and after taking medicine etc don't use coffee or mint etc don't place medicine near strong perfumes etc. Click my name below and check out the profile details etc.
Notice changes and improvements carefully and update after 4-6 days.
Don't eat or drink anything 30 minutes before and after taking medicine etc don't use coffee or mint etc don't place medicine near strong perfumes etc. Click my name below and check out the profile details etc.
Notice changes and improvements carefully and update after 4-6 days.
♡ healer21 6 years ago
I am unable to find Nat Phos 200 where I live. I can only find Nat Phos 6x. Is there an online site where they sell good quality homeopathy medicine?
Jess1 6 years ago
Hi, I have given him two doses of Nat Phos 200c ( one dose on Fri, the other today ).
So far there is not much change just perhaps little aggravation (anger rages both days. Today he cried too. Is 17 yrs old. No provocation but he is always a bit defensive, always wants to have last word and dominance in arguments). I assume if there is a slight aggravation that is okay. It could be just a coincidence or it could be effect of medication - I thought I would mention this today to you.
I will give him another dose tomorrow and report again after few days as per your original instructions. Thanks!
So far there is not much change just perhaps little aggravation (anger rages both days. Today he cried too. Is 17 yrs old. No provocation but he is always a bit defensive, always wants to have last word and dominance in arguments). I assume if there is a slight aggravation that is okay. It could be just a coincidence or it could be effect of medication - I thought I would mention this today to you.
I will give him another dose tomorrow and report again after few days as per your original instructions. Thanks!
Jess1 6 years ago
Give now Nat.sulph 200c .. Same 4 drops once a day in some sips of water. One or two days only. In a new separate disposable glass. Not more than two days.
Don't give now Nat.phos ... but give Nat.sulph now.
Early morning 30 minutes before breakfast is the best time to give medicine. If you don't find it in liquid form you can give in pellet form as well. ("C" represents liquid form and "X" represents pellet form medicine) try to get first from local pharmacy. You can click my name below now to see the profile details etc.
Don't give now Nat.phos ... but give Nat.sulph now.
Early morning 30 minutes before breakfast is the best time to give medicine. If you don't find it in liquid form you can give in pellet form as well. ("C" represents liquid form and "X" represents pellet form medicine) try to get first from local pharmacy. You can click my name below now to see the profile details etc.
♡ healer21 6 years ago
He was given one dose of Nat Sulph 200 yesterday and one this morning. Today he is feeling very depressed (much more than usual) ! Doesnt want to get out of bed. Its almost 3pm !
Jess1 6 years ago
I had to wait for the medicine to arrive in mail hence the delay, I do have some 200 potency meds at home but didnt have the above two that we have tried.
Jess1 6 years ago
Ok good .. now only wait and see how Nat.sulph changes his mood over the next 5-7 days.
♡ healer21 6 years ago
Hi, he is pretty much the same. Bit more depressed slightly I think as he has just given up on the tiny effort in school that he used to make. Anger rages are same as before. Big ideas, unpractical solutions (cannot see that it is not practical), zero effort. Just had another anger rage with his dad. Curses all the time.
I haven't seen any positive change so far. But I will observe two more days and report. You had said 5-7 days so its 5 days now I thought I give some feedback.
I haven't seen any positive change so far. But I will observe two more days and report. You had said 5-7 days so its 5 days now I thought I give some feedback.
Jess1 6 years ago
I see you already did a new thread for Maheeru.
Best wishes for your son.
[Edited by simone717 on 2018-03-24 05:31:22]
Best wishes for your son.
[Edited by simone717 on 2018-03-24 05:31:22]
♡ simone717 6 years ago
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