Looking for a remedy for Autism/ADHD

I have a 10 year old son with Autism. He was perfectly fine till 18 months of age. Then we moved from one city to another away from family full of uncles and aunts and cousins. Overnight he stopped talking and little by little he stopped eating, sleeping, eye contact and speech. I started giving him wheat product right before moving to the new city. It didn't suit him and he had continuous stomach upset. Then he lost all communication and got depressed and cried. Almost two years he was sad, no sleep, no eating. Then we moved back to the old city after two years but he lost all his skills by then. Now he talks and tries to communicate verbally but his language and vocabulary is like a 3 year old. he can read kindergarden/first grade standard. He had been diagnosed as Autistic when he was 5 years old.
1.He is extremely agressive and talks to himself all the time and flaps his hand.
2. His focus is very bad as he is engaged in self talking.
3. He jumps a lot.
4. He has severe anxiely and worry.
5. He has learning disability. He gets occupational therapy and speech therapy.
6. He is sensitive to too hot and too cold weather.
7. He is sensitive to background noises. i.e. in a mall he covers his ears. He covers his ears when the toilet is flased and flaps his hands with high speed.
8. He has processing issues hence communications issues. He is a visual learner.
9.He has severe GI issues like indigestion. He is on a Gluten free, dairy free,yeast free, tomatoe free and read chilie free diet. He is always burping and gets canker soars all the time. After eating apple or drinking apple cider vinegar he is doing much better. He is always asking for extra salt in his food He had been give pulsitilla and carbo veg and occasional Nux Vom for digestion.
10.He has motion sickness. While riding in a car he would complain about nausea and trowing up and tummy ache. He has lot of food allergies and enviornmental allergis.
11.For severe aggression/anxiety/depression he had Kali phos 6X. It made a huge difference. He had tuberculinum 1m, Carcinosinum 1M, Zinc Phos 200.
12. For brain developmet he gets Baryta carb 30c and Calc carb 30c
13. his focus is very bad and talks to himself and jumps around, hyperactive. Not motivated to academic stuff. He goes to pure Autism program in a school in Virginia, USA.
14. He is extremely fearful. Doesn't want to sleep in his room, go to the bathroom by himself. He says he is scared of monsters ad ghosts. He can use computer and IPAD.
15. He loves getting hugs and gets remorseful right after he is aggressive but still cannot stop hitting.
15. He cannot have intelligent conversation yet.
16. His imagination and pretend play is very good. But interactive games he can't play. His social skills are very bad too.
17. Extremely forgetful. If i ask him to go use the bathroom and get ready. he will go to the bathroom but will keep o talking to himself or his hand but not get ready. Everything needs lots of prompts and physical prompts. He has OCD obsessive compulsive disorder. Loves to talk about one particular topic. Now he is obsessed with Sharks. He has poor eye contact.
18.in one word Autism+ADHD+lack of focus+ lack of motivation+indigestion.

He had taken stramonium 200 twice i mean two doses for brain.

Sorry i forgot to mention that my son had a history of repeated ear infection. He had 15/20 so far since seven months of age. He suffers from flu/cold/influenza a lot. When the change of weather season his symtoms gets worse. Like self talking and constantly running around or jumping inside the house gets rocket high. He got Thuja occidental 1m after the vaccinations. Natrum sulph 200 for any head injuries.

He gets belldonna 30, bryonia 30, aconite, eupetorium perf, kali mur 6x, ferrum phos 6x, amonium carb, allium Cepa, Natrum Mur, arum triph, when he gets cold/flu. He has beta thalassemia trace. but after taking ferrum phos 6x his hemoglobin level has increaded from 8 to 11.
please feel free to ask questions. thanks,
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