Urethra burning, weak stream , frequent urination, anxiety

First i had phimosis. When i have been a baby they had tried to fix it but not successfully. Later on when i was 5 years old my mother took me again to doctors to try to fix it. They just tried , but they said it won't happen. I remeber going out of there and i was crying very angry at my mother that she had took me to a place that they cause me pain. At this age i also developed the phobia and i have memories holding urine for long time. From 7 to 10 years old were my happiest period of life - i didn't had many troubles around this issiue. Later when i was 11 years old i moved to new school - High School of Mathematics 'Dr P. Beron', Varna. And also at the same time i moved to new residential district of my city - where i didin;t have friends. From there the phobia started to show more, as the anxiety in my life had grwon. I started having problems using the toilet at home to, when my parents were at home. Especially in the mornings where evryone is preparing for work and using the toilet too. I had told my parents that i had a problem, and my mother awlays thought it was physical. And i didin't wanted to go to doctors so i was trying to hide the problem, knowing that it is mental. At the age of 13 , in the day that i hold urine for the longest time in my life (aroud 15-16 hours) - my phimosis was fixed from it self. In 8 degree i was already more introverted, i had problems using the toilet in school and i was having already frequent needs to urinate. Later just 2 days before the start of 9 degree during a football match i broke my right hand severely. The both bones of the forearm, and the doctors didin;t set the bones corectly, so this was a big stress for me. The different shape of my arm and also rotation of the forearm was problem. Later in the year i fall again and broke my hand again - more stress, again not set correctly, So until today - the problems with the rotation remain. And from 9 degree the stress was building, not beeing able to use the toilet in school + the problems with the hand. So all this stress fall on my extra-ocular muscles - so i developed myopia and was having troubles seeing what is written at the black board, and sometimes the exams were on the black board, but i didin't wanted to wear glasses because i didin't wanted to look like looser in school. The dandruff started when i was maybe 12 degree in school . In the next year i was in University of Economics - Varna i was already finding a way to use the toilets that weren;t busy but my frequent urination started to be worser and also my dandruff. But at that time i was thinking that the urinary problems that i had are probably only anxiety related so i was goind on this way without doctors. I started searching ways to help my self learning in depth EFT, i read Norbekov a lot, also lissened to motivational speekers like Tony Robbins and Less Brown. I already had started using EFT on others with success but it didin't worked for my problem at all. So a year ago during the summer session i failed one exam , so i was having now more stress to study. I was lying and learning for whole days, So soon my urinary urgency get worser and worser. I was trying to use EFT - but no success. I got trought the session successfully, but just after it i had to start work in our shop where my parent;s work. And the problems were severe - but i didin't wanted to leave my parents work alone because it was a lot of work. Also i hadn;t have a girlfriend in my life an just around that time around the session i was having some kind of rejections in the internet... After the summer we closed the shop , so we were at home with my parents - all unemployed. I was trying to do my best to earn money tought internet uploading videos for sale and writing articles. All i earned were 115 dolars from writing articles about vision and anxiety. And now my parents again started new shop , but it is not going well and the financial side is a big problem. I don't have any own money to invest in my health. Feelings of hoplessnes and lost life. My big dream was to be a motivatior and to help other people restore their vision but for now it doesn't seems real and possible to me, because ot my severe urinary problems.
[message edited by skyreader on Sun, 14 Apr 2013 06:23:10 BST]

About the phimosis - yes they have thought it might be a problem. Im not sure does my phobia started exactly after the visit to the doctor but it was deffinetly at this age. And i cannot explain to my self how the stress creates all the symtpoms i have, like weak stream , not fully emptying the bladder, urethra itching, burning... Maybe the mental tension falls on the bladder neck making it too tight and that makes urination difficult.

I'm thankful for your help, answers and time spend on my case. :) I will try this treatment and later report what had happened.