Please help

Hi,

I am about 32 years now(male). I am suffering from a couple of problems which have been there with me for about 15 years now..

- I get Frequent fermentation producing gas at slightest eating.
- I am lactose intolerant. I can't have wheat(since 10 years), most fruits and vegetables, leggumes, leafy veg etc...
- I feel that I am underweight and want to put on at least some weight..
- Easily emaciated after little activity
- very Easily emaciated if my mood is not good or if my mind is extra active (project work)

Kindly help...

1 - Mind extremely irritable. Even a slight noise on the roof, some particular characters on TV(someone who is trying to hurt other people or playing games with others), some particular songs(same song which I would have liked before).

2- I am very emotional about my family and my wife. I had a love marriage. Stayed together for only 5 months. Yet was in touch with each other for another 3 years. She always said that she loves me a lot, but after 3 years she said that she is going to leave me and we got divorced. Actually I have become more irritable after she left. Also my project work. Working almost 10 hours on computer trying to accomplish something, but success seems to be way too far....I can't see animals getting slaughtered. If I did see something like that then I start fighting with God (mentally). I even go to an extent of saying 'Kill me but spare that poor animal' etc...

3 - I Love my family including my wife. Yes even now...But yet because of my irritable mind I sometimes abuse them and later I feel depressed because I shouted at my loved ones...

4 - I feel better when I go out a little, but come back soon thinking that I should not waste my time. Instead I should work on my project, because that is how I can earn for my family.

5 - I get iritated by sunlight sometimes....

6 - I sleep very late at night...May be at around 5AM and wake up in the afternoon.

7 - I am not in a mood until I brush my teeth and evacuate my bowels. Also I feel irritated in the evening because of my stomach and also until I brush my teeth again....

8 - Can't bear extreme weather. I lose my temper during this time. To feel better I normally have hot bath...