Underweight - pls help!!!

I really appreciate if someone pls help me with my underweight problem as this is causing a major issue in my day to day life.

· I am 32 years old male, married and have 2 kids.

· Height 5’5

· Weight only 49kg.

· Due to my physic I look as if only a teenager – very slim, thin face (looks as if I am ill).

· When I was born I got allergic to the normal milk and for the fluid I was given soya milk and spirit but now I don’t have allergy to the milk apart from that sometimes when I have it, it upsets my stomach and start wind passing and sometimes offensive.

· I eat well but nothing applies on my body.

· Don’t feel like having a breakfast (however I still have tiny amount of it)

· But get hungry round about 10 / 11 am.

· Sometime I have a low BP (feel very hot, my hands and face start to burn, feels low in energy) although my GP haven't declared me as a low BP patient because it only happens once in a while.

· Get tired easily by doing tiny amount of physical work.

· Always leave things to the last minute due to this get stressed.

· Easily get bored of things or any work.

· Can't concentrate long on any work.

· Don’t like changes in my life like things to stay as it is or at least to my comfort.

· Constipation.

· Get annoyed easily.

· Take things to heart easily and keep thinking about it and get stressed.

· If something goes against my will then I feel that everyone is against me (although deep down I know that it’s only me)

· But also very helpful too – people do come to me for an advice.
· Like giving advice.

· But at the same time if someone gives me an advice then I don’t like it I feel other person is picking on me.

· Feel as if I am the only one who can give advice or have better knowledge.

· Always criticising or nagging on something.

· Always look back and think that if I had done that I would have been better off but still don’t learn from my mistakes.

· Indecisive

· Very impatient.

· Very confused.

· Wants to be loved or likes to be depended on someone but on other hand don’t like trusting anyone feels as if they will misuse me or take an advantage of my trust.

· Most of the times feel very sad.

· Normally I don’t think before I talk – although I know I that I need to overcome this weakness.

· I feel that I am very bad in decision making – (but I am manager at my work place been promoted 3 times)

· Feels that that I am living 2 personalities. Very calm and mature at work but on other hand completely different at home.

· Very introvert person - however once get to know fully start feeling conformable.

. Occasionally I have stomach pain

. Few months ago I was admitted to hospital because of adult chicken pox and since then I have extreme itching problem on my scalp when I get hot or stressed.
[message edited by zee32 on Tue, 29 Jan 2013 09:35:27 GMT]