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Dr Saab, Remedy for a 10yr old please
[message deleted by wishingwell on Tue, 09 Oct 2012 17:38:15 BST]
wishingwell on 2012-09-04
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Hi-I am sure the separation when he was a baby has an effect here.
I had a 40 year old male therapist at one time who was a very
well balanced man, and told me that unknown and not remembered-
he was put with an Aunt while his mother was in hospital for 6
months when he was 5 months old. His entire life he felt a sense
of abandonment and could not understand why bc family never
mentioned the gap. He learned about it thru a casual remark in
his 30's and then at least it made sense why he had those feelings.
It would be good for you to work with Dr. Saab on here.
homeopath for 45 years and a wise parent and grandparent.If
you want to work with Dr. Saab and he has time-
please use edit button on low right and add his name to
your headline.
You want someone who is very good with children and
he is. You can click my profile and write to me if you have
any questions.
[message edited by simone717 on Tue, 04 Sep 2012 20:22:57 BST]
I had a 40 year old male therapist at one time who was a very
well balanced man, and told me that unknown and not remembered-
he was put with an Aunt while his mother was in hospital for 6
months when he was 5 months old. His entire life he felt a sense
of abandonment and could not understand why bc family never
mentioned the gap. He learned about it thru a casual remark in
his 30's and then at least it made sense why he had those feelings.
It would be good for you to work with Dr. Saab on here.
homeopath for 45 years and a wise parent and grandparent.If
you want to work with Dr. Saab and he has time-
please use edit button on low right and add his name to
your headline.
You want someone who is very good with children and
he is. You can click my profile and write to me if you have
any questions.
[message edited by simone717 on Tue, 04 Sep 2012 20:22:57 BST]
♡ simone717 last decade
wishingwell last decade
Dear Simon & wishingwell,
Simon, Thanks for your good words for me.Since I am also a professional member of Indian society of Applied Behavioural sciences since 1985, I have some amount of knowledge & experience of dealing with parenting & various other human behavioural aspects. But still I am also a human being with all my weaknesses & strengths.
Wishingwell, coming to your son's symptoms, since I visit USA quite often (as my son is settled there) I DO find such cases in many of our Indian & Paki families.
The reason being:
1. Single child & no other members except mom & dad.
2. The cultural set-up there of to be a bit cranky & all to be one self.That certainly influences our kids also.
3. Too much of an attention & concern for child by the parents, just bcos. of their own guilt feeling of not doing enough for the child, due to a very busy life.
All this put together results into the child becomes manipulative in its behaiour (of course unknowingly)& hold their parents at ransom.
Only tip that I can give is to put food of whatever is cooked at home before him & all of you eat together & say now U R grown up eat your food yourelf. Let him go on playing with it & as soon as you all finish take away the plate & tell him now you will get only at next meal time.He will test you for number of days but you atick to the guns & within a few days he will start eating whatever you will give willingly.Do not give too much of milk or fruits as that will fill up his stomach.
The second thing that you need to do is do not show sympathy instead show empathy (appropriate concern) & NOT too much of pampering.
A guru mantra is 'ENCOURAGE THE DESIRABLE BEHAVIOUR & IGNORE THE UNDESIRABLE ONE,AS IF YOU HAVE NOT NOTICED IT AT ALL'
The homoeopathic mediicine I recommand for him is just one dose of CYPRIPIDIUM 220c ( 3 pills) at bedtime for THREE days only & watch for about 15 days & report back to us.
You will have to have patience & do not become anxious, as that will directly reflect on his psyche.
Please give the feed back as & when you feel like.Good luck!!!
daktersaab
Simon, Thanks for your good words for me.Since I am also a professional member of Indian society of Applied Behavioural sciences since 1985, I have some amount of knowledge & experience of dealing with parenting & various other human behavioural aspects. But still I am also a human being with all my weaknesses & strengths.
Wishingwell, coming to your son's symptoms, since I visit USA quite often (as my son is settled there) I DO find such cases in many of our Indian & Paki families.
The reason being:
1. Single child & no other members except mom & dad.
2. The cultural set-up there of to be a bit cranky & all to be one self.That certainly influences our kids also.
3. Too much of an attention & concern for child by the parents, just bcos. of their own guilt feeling of not doing enough for the child, due to a very busy life.
All this put together results into the child becomes manipulative in its behaiour (of course unknowingly)& hold their parents at ransom.
Only tip that I can give is to put food of whatever is cooked at home before him & all of you eat together & say now U R grown up eat your food yourelf. Let him go on playing with it & as soon as you all finish take away the plate & tell him now you will get only at next meal time.He will test you for number of days but you atick to the guns & within a few days he will start eating whatever you will give willingly.Do not give too much of milk or fruits as that will fill up his stomach.
The second thing that you need to do is do not show sympathy instead show empathy (appropriate concern) & NOT too much of pampering.
A guru mantra is 'ENCOURAGE THE DESIRABLE BEHAVIOUR & IGNORE THE UNDESIRABLE ONE,AS IF YOU HAVE NOT NOTICED IT AT ALL'
The homoeopathic mediicine I recommand for him is just one dose of CYPRIPIDIUM 220c ( 3 pills) at bedtime for THREE days only & watch for about 15 days & report back to us.
You will have to have patience & do not become anxious, as that will directly reflect on his psyche.
Please give the feed back as & when you feel like.Good luck!!!
daktersaab
daktersaab last decade
Thank you daktersaab for your remedy and wise advice. I will follow them.
I could not find this particular drug at my local homeopathy store but found it online. I will order it , give it to my son and will report with results.
Much thanks
sincerely
wishingwell
I could not find this particular drug at my local homeopathy store but found it online. I will order it , give it to my son and will report with results.
Much thanks
sincerely
wishingwell
wishingwell last decade
Hello Dr Saab,
As requested, I am posting feedback . It has been more than a week now since I gave Cypripidium. I see good changes in sleep patterns. He is sleeping much more quietly now. He does not struggle to fall asleep. He does not get up too often during night. I also noticed that he is waking up right away in the mornings, without sounding sleepy,drowsy and whiny.
His restlessness during daytime activities is still present. He cannot stay still, while having food,doing his homework,watching tv etc. He is displaying OCD like symptoms, like, doing the same things again again, rechecking his homework for silly reasons like he did nt circle his O's and dot his I's and cross his T's etc. While walking he imagines he is walking on a ground with square patterns, and if he misses a step he goes back and touch that imaginary square and comes back. I see this behavior getting more and more often repeated each day.
If there is a remedy for these compulsions / restlessness, please advice.
Thank you
As requested, I am posting feedback . It has been more than a week now since I gave Cypripidium. I see good changes in sleep patterns. He is sleeping much more quietly now. He does not struggle to fall asleep. He does not get up too often during night. I also noticed that he is waking up right away in the mornings, without sounding sleepy,drowsy and whiny.
His restlessness during daytime activities is still present. He cannot stay still, while having food,doing his homework,watching tv etc. He is displaying OCD like symptoms, like, doing the same things again again, rechecking his homework for silly reasons like he did nt circle his O's and dot his I's and cross his T's etc. While walking he imagines he is walking on a ground with square patterns, and if he misses a step he goes back and touch that imaginary square and comes back. I see this behavior getting more and more often repeated each day.
If there is a remedy for these compulsions / restlessness, please advice.
Thank you
wishingwell last decade
Hi- am sure Dr. Saab will be able to suggest. Ocd behaviours can happen
bc of one core 'incident' where person felt trauma or shame and had no
way to deal with it at the time.
Since your shild started this at 2 years? And was not at that age able to
verbalize anything, it is harder bc he did not have the memory capability
to recall what went on. It would be just a feeling. I have read a lot of ocd
cases in older children and adults, where they were 'layering' a core incident
with the ocd behaviours and finally able to recall and deal with original
problem such as verbal abuse by a teacher.a relative's death,one person had
a bowl of jello poured on them as a joke at 8 years old by friends and that set
off the ocd, another one was a traumatic dr visit--It is an attempt to be unconscious of the original incident.
Perhaps you can remember more about anything that may have happened
before he started this at 2.
bc of one core 'incident' where person felt trauma or shame and had no
way to deal with it at the time.
Since your shild started this at 2 years? And was not at that age able to
verbalize anything, it is harder bc he did not have the memory capability
to recall what went on. It would be just a feeling. I have read a lot of ocd
cases in older children and adults, where they were 'layering' a core incident
with the ocd behaviours and finally able to recall and deal with original
problem such as verbal abuse by a teacher.a relative's death,one person had
a bowl of jello poured on them as a joke at 8 years old by friends and that set
off the ocd, another one was a traumatic dr visit--It is an attempt to be unconscious of the original incident.
Perhaps you can remember more about anything that may have happened
before he started this at 2.
♡ simone717 last decade
Thanks a lo
t for the feed back. Happy to know that by God's grace he is better on sleep front.
As reg simon's comment it is very much true that at sub con.level some incident triggers the OCD process which becomes very difficult to locate & even if we can do that a little one with its limited sujective intelligence cannot understand to resolve it.The best course would be to just ignore the whole thing for awhile & only encourage positive behaviour.
Since we all are connected to each other in this unverse thro a sea of cosmic energy, any amount of worry & anxiety on the part of parent figures or any dear one will immidiately attract the same type of energy to the child also.More in children's case bcos. they are very pure & their channel of chakras are very clean & without blocks.
Therefore, I request you to please have patience & keep your mind cool for AWHILE & LET HIM BE WHAT HE IS.
CYPRIPIDIUM IS A DEEP ACTING REMEDY & SHALL WORK SLOWLY & SURELY.
Kindly wait for about a week & give the feedback.
With loving regards
daktersaab
t for the feed back. Happy to know that by God's grace he is better on sleep front.
As reg simon's comment it is very much true that at sub con.level some incident triggers the OCD process which becomes very difficult to locate & even if we can do that a little one with its limited sujective intelligence cannot understand to resolve it.The best course would be to just ignore the whole thing for awhile & only encourage positive behaviour.
Since we all are connected to each other in this unverse thro a sea of cosmic energy, any amount of worry & anxiety on the part of parent figures or any dear one will immidiately attract the same type of energy to the child also.More in children's case bcos. they are very pure & their channel of chakras are very clean & without blocks.
Therefore, I request you to please have patience & keep your mind cool for AWHILE & LET HIM BE WHAT HE IS.
CYPRIPIDIUM IS A DEEP ACTING REMEDY & SHALL WORK SLOWLY & SURELY.
Kindly wait for about a week & give the feedback.
With loving regards
daktersaab
daktersaab last decade
♡ Reva V last decade
Thanks a lot to both of you.
God willing things will improve fast & everything will be OK. May God bless you both & our forum fraternity
God willing things will improve fast & everything will be OK. May God bless you both & our forum fraternity
daktersaab last decade
Hello,
I want to post a second update...3.5 weeks since remedy given.
To sum up in one sentence I can say that my son has become cool as a cucumber. He is much less worrisome and less anxious. He however does lot of pretend play and is unfocussed and forgetful at home. Also very restless body movements. Hopefully a phase that will pass once he gets to higher grades and gets busy with studies. But the major improvement I see is, in the his mind and he does not worry a lot like he used to before. I have also come to be more accepting where his little quirks are concerned.
Thank you Dr saab for your remedy and your wise advice.
I want to post a second update...3.5 weeks since remedy given.
To sum up in one sentence I can say that my son has become cool as a cucumber. He is much less worrisome and less anxious. He however does lot of pretend play and is unfocussed and forgetful at home. Also very restless body movements. Hopefully a phase that will pass once he gets to higher grades and gets busy with studies. But the major improvement I see is, in the his mind and he does not worry a lot like he used to before. I have also come to be more accepting where his little quirks are concerned.
Thank you Dr saab for your remedy and your wise advice.
wishingwell last decade
Dear wishingwell,
Thanks a lot for your feedback. It works as our intrinsic motivation to serve.
You are most welcome. Thank God for all the improvement. Just do not give any medicine. He is constitutionally an energetic child so let him be himself.God willing the energy will give lot of success in life.
Kindly feel free for any other support
Lovingly
daktersaab
Thanks a lot for your feedback. It works as our intrinsic motivation to serve.
You are most welcome. Thank God for all the improvement. Just do not give any medicine. He is constitutionally an energetic child so let him be himself.God willing the energy will give lot of success in life.
Kindly feel free for any other support
Lovingly
daktersaab
daktersaab last decade
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