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What remedy is this in basic description of the problem:-Fear of intimacy or unable to be intimate, emotional hurt
-out of this arrises compensation to be overemotional, dramatic,... which makes you like an actor and not feel the uncomfortablness of intimacy
-also seeking approval and love, strong fear of rejection.
-Once you have someone who likes you, you lose interest in him quick and when he pulls away you want him again etc
-unquenchablle thirst for attention.
Any idea?
[message edited by vitamin.X on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 00:47:56 BST]
vitamin.X on 2011-10-20
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Staphysgaria? Phosphorus? Nat mur? Phosphorus? Palladium? Aurum muriaticum natronatum? Aurum sulpuratum?
This is hard. There are aspects of many remedies present but they dont fit it entirely... phosphorus's suggestability, emptiness, attention seeking, feeling that relationships are more intimate than they really are,... but they dont have emotional hurt? or a closed heart.. Argh I had to cringe from saying that.
palladiums acting maybe? approval and praise seeking but they dont have emotional hurt?
staphysgarias over emotionality maybe?
Aurum muriaticum natronatum has the core of: I must never feel forsaken? which could fit.
And than comes natrum muriaticum. it would fit the underlining issue of emotional hurt, the acting (to get into the 'false self') to not feel close to someone. When you are like me you act open and close but you are not really open and close. It is a safe/protective way to experience closeness but you dont really experience it anyway. And cannot move deeper into a relationship.
Natrum muriaticum or phosphorus maybe? But I tried both? And from what I know I think it is rather natrum but do they feel empty on the inside? If it werent for the fear of intimacy, closeness and emotional hurt I would think phosphorus?
Is it that I maybe need a 10M of natrum muriaticum to get a change? TO break open?
Some help on what remedy please? It would be unfair to not help since you help everyone.
emptiness is a strong feature though... An empty child trapped in an adult body
Natrum muriaticum has a big range of different personalities I once read. That people who need it differ.
**I have nostalgia. The past is always better than the present. I think back of the old times often. Or when I see on a dating site a girl that was on there about 3 years ago before my problems got deeper, (the years where I felt totally disconnected and isolated)... so I feel like crying when I see the girl from the past. I feel a specific sensations. As if I am lost. isolated and reach out with my hand to the girl to talk with her again so I could be found 'again'. To get back to the times when all was well and I wasnt so isolated and alone. Something changed so dramatically about me when I isolated myself to do self help more intensively. got body dysmorphia, deep depression,..
Even thinking back a few months when there was winter makes me feel it was better back than.
[message edited by vitamin.X on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 01:05:56 BST]
This is hard. There are aspects of many remedies present but they dont fit it entirely... phosphorus's suggestability, emptiness, attention seeking, feeling that relationships are more intimate than they really are,... but they dont have emotional hurt? or a closed heart.. Argh I had to cringe from saying that.
palladiums acting maybe? approval and praise seeking but they dont have emotional hurt?
staphysgarias over emotionality maybe?
Aurum muriaticum natronatum has the core of: I must never feel forsaken? which could fit.
And than comes natrum muriaticum. it would fit the underlining issue of emotional hurt, the acting (to get into the 'false self') to not feel close to someone. When you are like me you act open and close but you are not really open and close. It is a safe/protective way to experience closeness but you dont really experience it anyway. And cannot move deeper into a relationship.
Natrum muriaticum or phosphorus maybe? But I tried both? And from what I know I think it is rather natrum but do they feel empty on the inside? If it werent for the fear of intimacy, closeness and emotional hurt I would think phosphorus?
Is it that I maybe need a 10M of natrum muriaticum to get a change? TO break open?
Some help on what remedy please? It would be unfair to not help since you help everyone.
emptiness is a strong feature though... An empty child trapped in an adult body
Natrum muriaticum has a big range of different personalities I once read. That people who need it differ.
**I have nostalgia. The past is always better than the present. I think back of the old times often. Or when I see on a dating site a girl that was on there about 3 years ago before my problems got deeper, (the years where I felt totally disconnected and isolated)... so I feel like crying when I see the girl from the past. I feel a specific sensations. As if I am lost. isolated and reach out with my hand to the girl to talk with her again so I could be found 'again'. To get back to the times when all was well and I wasnt so isolated and alone. Something changed so dramatically about me when I isolated myself to do self help more intensively. got body dysmorphia, deep depression,..
Even thinking back a few months when there was winter makes me feel it was better back than.
[message edited by vitamin.X on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 01:05:56 BST]
vitamin.X last decade
Please help David. I had to go through a lot of difficulties because I was alone without any social contact. Like I said I got BDD and all those things for that reason a few years ago.
Edit: hmm no that would feel uncomfortable and its not what I would want. I dont even know what I want.
[message edited by vitamin.X on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 01:10:09 BST]
Edit: hmm no that would feel uncomfortable and its not what I would want. I dont even know what I want.
[message edited by vitamin.X on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 01:10:09 BST]
vitamin.X last decade
This describes exactly why I pull away from people. Which isnt platina I would think. And to this date I have also apologised to mostly everyone I critizised on here (except to nikkie for some reason not) which isnt platina I would think at all...
Living With the Histrionic
Life with the histrionic can be challenging, confusing, frustrating, and oftentimes painful. Since histrionics struggle with depth in relationships, their partners are often left questioning their failed attempts to increase intimacy or closeness. While the histrionic will attempt to draw a partner into a rescuing, admiring role in order to ward off the anxiety of potential rejection, they may just as quickly display scorn or contempt for the same partner once they tire of their present life's routine.
** Their seem to be so many different aspects to it. The above could suggest tubercular miasm
*** you have to agree that it describes me perfectly? I took 2 of your suggested remedies, anthropleura, androctonus before I was again off on my own. And than I plead again and want you to come back. Can we please fix this? And get a suggestion what remedy I could need. I feel so close to maybe getting cured.
You called me confusing before in an email and my comments about 'that I always know best' was not something I genuinely meant, which could of have been noticed by how often I apologised for saying it anyway.
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Living With the Histrionic
Life with the histrionic can be challenging, confusing, frustrating, and oftentimes painful. Since histrionics struggle with depth in relationships, their partners are often left questioning their failed attempts to increase intimacy or closeness. While the histrionic will attempt to draw a partner into a rescuing, admiring role in order to ward off the anxiety of potential rejection, they may just as quickly display scorn or contempt for the same partner once they tire of their present life's routine.
** Their seem to be so many different aspects to it. The above could suggest tubercular miasm
*** you have to agree that it describes me perfectly? I took 2 of your suggested remedies, anthropleura, androctonus before I was again off on my own. And than I plead again and want you to come back. Can we please fix this? And get a suggestion what remedy I could need. I feel so close to maybe getting cured.
You called me confusing before in an email and my comments about 'that I always know best' was not something I genuinely meant, which could of have been noticed by how often I apologised for saying it anyway.
[message edited by vitamin.X on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 01:34:04 BST]
vitamin.X last decade
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