Premature ejaculation Urgent Help required

Dear Sir,
I have this Premature ejaculation problem for years, cant even hold of my cuming when get excited means discharge during the foreplay (kissing, cuddling), i have not encountered sex session in my life but had so many foreplay rounds with my girl friend and failed to control my ejaculation during kissing,i started masturbating in my early age may be 13 or 14 and still doing it but once in a week now! Now m getting married in few months and eagerly want to get rid of this PE problem before marriage so that i can live healthy sex life with my partner but as my history reflects, i don't think i will make it and i m sure i cant even reach to coitus and will release between foreplay session. Although i have no erection issue but my penis has become very sensitive that it ejaculates by just a touch of my girl friend m so much worried and concerned about it that how will i be able to satisfy my partner after getting married..i suspect that due to excessive masturbating being a kid my body has learned to ejaculate early as i used to do it at home having fear on my mind for being caught by someone and therefore it has become a pattern now!!
I am 35 year old male, height 5'9, weight 77KG, single,

Please help me to get rid of this problem
i would be really gratful
waiting for your +ve response..
As per Patient intake form here you are my form filled :

Gender: Male
Age: 35
Body Type: athlete
Height: 5'9
Weight:77kg
General appearance: good
Have you used homeopathic medicines before? If so what, and what homeopathic potencies did you use?
Ans) I used to have treatment of my Allergy problem by one of my Homeopathic Dr long time back may be 10 years ago.
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Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?
Ans) i have very low control over my ejaculation, discharge even while kissing my girl friend, due to over excitement during foreplay i ejaculate too early which is the most embarrassing situation,i have not perform sex with a girl in my life but foreplay,have early age masturbating history since my childhood which taught my mind to ejaculate too early.. even now during watching porn i cant get hold my ejaculation and discharge by just rubbing couple of times..i m sure i cant even get to my partner vagina and will ejaculate before coitus.

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?

Ans) i have allergy problem since childhood which cause flu and sore throat once in a 2 months, get tired too soon sometimes eyes burns (may be i use computer whole day in office), excessive passing of urine whenever drink any liquid (tea,green tea, water) i go to urinate right after drinking anything (is it something related to my PE problem?) loosing my hair due to my acute flu problem although hair loss is not my family problem
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
Ans) very much worried and stressed due to this problem, low self confidence,
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
very angry and ditressed
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
Ans) not exactly tell the time, but i realized it long time ago may be in my 20's but surely not because of any disease, its a pattern which body developed due to early age masturbating
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
not any particular time it depands on the situation in which i get into..

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.

the time for excitement either doing foreplay with gf or watching porn, few rubs cause ejaculate me while i get aroused

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?

Ans) N/A

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Ans) i feel better in cold weather

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

Ans) i m quite moody, very friendly in nature, easy to go with, offended easily,quite angry, not much quite but argueing, yes Lazy
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
Ans) feel good

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?

Ans)Yes
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
Ans) very much sensitive
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
Ans) No
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

Ans) i have strong bond with all my family, feel very emotional towards them

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
Ans) Only fear is ejaculate too early and no repeated dreams,even in dirty dreams i ejaculate before doing anything sensational like having sex or any other sexual activity

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Ans) Fond of eating anything specially bar b q, eat chicken beef n mutton in my meal, fruits of any season

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Ans)Normal, but drink less water in a day may be 4 to 5 glassess

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Ans) Normal

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

Ans) Milk in empty stomach
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Ans ) sweat is normal mostly on head
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

Ans) normal but sometimes have constipation and have to pressure more to pass my stole
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?

Ans) Sleep patterns not well.. late night sleep and early morning wakeups
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
Ans) No i dont think so, i have explained in details above why! too much arousal and ejaculation early
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
Ans)i dont have any unusual symptoms besides excessive urination right after drink any thing
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
Ans) i used few bottles of herbal pill for cure this PE problem called Last Longer pills but no use of trying it neither i had any other side effects sign after using it.

22. What major diseases are running in your family?
Ans) diseases running in family are High BP, heart problem,and asthema but i dont have such diseases found in me except Allergy which causes nose blocked and sore throat sometimes
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.

Ans) i look like an attractive guy(accroding to many girls around ) having wheatish complextion, athlete body,black hair,dark brown eyes height 5'9 weight arnd 77kg
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
Ans) N/A
25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
Ans) I have never had such Chronological disease in my life by the grace of God.
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