URGENT:husband with possible bi-polar disorder

Hello,

My husband has problems from his childhood that caused him to make unwise choices in his younger days.he also suffered some sexual abuse.He has said he feels genuinely happy one moment and then the next feel as if he wants to hide.to withdraw.he tends to be a loner,has few friends,has anxiety when around large crowds.he lacks motivation at times and confesses to self loathing and the desire to hurt himself.he has abondonement issues as his mother left him at age 2.he has a poor relationship with both parents and has a son who's mother is very difficult and has kept from him at times.he sleeps alot,then has times where he can not.he avoids stress by procrastination and does not like to be confrontational.he has trouble being open and vulnerable and has difficulty communicating.he has a tendency to become dependant upon anything to take his mind off of troubles.he feels very deeply and gets hurt very easily,though he bottles everything up. Please help!I hope this is enough info to get a good picture.