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Hello Doctors,

i'm a housewife, who has been married for 2 years now. My problem is this- I have no interest in sex at all. I Don't enjoy it at all and there is also pain during the beginning of intercourse. When my husband touches or tries to get intimate with me, or even talks about sex, I get highly irritated and turns him down. This has led him to believe that I don't love him. Even when i decide to adjust or bear with it, the minute he gets intimate or tries to touch me, I get very irritated and cannot adjust. I do not enjoy anything about it. Ours is a love marriage and before marriage, I used to enjoy his kisses and touches. Now I'm completely turned off even at the thought of sex. This is causing a great rift in our marriage and I fear i will lose him.
i'm of a very moody character and easily loses my temper. I'm over weight. When anyone criticises me about anything, even trivial things, I get hurt and get very emotional about it. I have low confidence and is easily irritated.
please help me, before my marriage is destroyed...I want to enjoy sex and not be irritated at the thought of it! Is that possible?
Thank you.
 
  Girlygal on 2010-08-25
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
1> 'Ours is a love marriage and before marriage, I used to enjoy his kisses and touches. Now I'm completely turned off even at the thought of sex.'


Can u think of something , some event which led to development of this kind of feeling.

2>Any other symptoms on physical or mental level that developed during lasr 2 years .

Mention them all .

3> Please describe yourself as a person , your plans , dreams , anbitions , your fears .

4>Any thing that people have found about you and you came to know that

5> How is your hunger and thirst .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Hello Vikas,

1> I really can't think of any event which could have led to this. My husband is almost always interested in sex and keeps touching and grabbing me, which irritates the hell out of me. I tried to tell him that I don't enjoy it, but he still keeps doing it, that I have stopped even trying to discuss it anymore.

2> I have noticed a dip in my confidence level, my memory is also lagging, I forget simple things and cannot follow even slightly complex procedures. I also find myself very tired and sleepy most of the times and depressed. I'm very tired by the end of the day and dull. I like being alone. Physically, there has been a gain of weight and hair loss.

3> I am a very ambitious person who believe a lot and spends a lot of time in Volunteer work with NGOs. I'm moody most of the times, and has a shirt temper. It is very easy to anger or irritate me. I love to travel, read and watch movies. My biggest fear in life is being ignored by people, being old and losing my marriage. I love to be pampered and cared for. I would like to work for an NGO and bring a positive change in someones life.

4> I have heard people say that i'm very heart-led and not logically-led. I think with my emotions and refuse to change what I believe to be right.

5> I drink water only when i remember. I don't eat huge amounts of food, but I love spicy food. The spicier the better, I am a non-vegetarian and enjoy what I eat. My dinner is usually heavy. I skip breakfast most of the days. I drink a lot of tea.
 
Girlygal last decade
1>Is there any part of the day when you feel worse as compared to rest of day .

2> What are your weather preference .

3>How is your sleep

4> Any empty gone sensation felt in stomach / abdomen .

5>What is your reaction to thunderstorms
 
vikas_grower last decade
Any weeping tendency
 
vikas_grower last decade
1> I feel worse during mornings and then in the night.

2> I generally enjoy warm weather and rains.

3> I take a long time to fall asleep and is generally very sleepy in the mornings.

4> No.

5> I enjoy thunderstorms.

6> I cry very easily, I even cry at advertisements and cartoons. I take everything to heart easily, and is generally of a jealous nature. I feel very unsettled if anyone else is happier than me.
 
Girlygal last decade
1>Are u sensitive to touch around throat.

2>Anything u feel you have left out in your description.
 
vikas_grower last decade
1> No I am not sensitive around my throat.

2> I have been under homoeo treatment for pilesfor the past two months and is recovering. I am very much worried about my marriage failing because of my frigidity.
 
Girlygal last decade
What is response to music .


Do you like people to console you , if required
 
vikas_grower last decade
If u are taking some homeopathic medicine , then stop that for a week .

Please buy Dr Reckewegs Brand Homeopathic Medicine in liquid form ( a small bottle around 15 ml costing 100 to 150 rupees ) .

Please do not buy anything else ,.


Pour 2 drops of liquid of Lycopodium in a 250 ml spring water bottle.

Please note that spring water is not same as Bisleri , Aquafina etc . it is different and you can get from a good grocery store or a good chemist .

Once u pour the drops in the bottle , shake it very gently so that the drops mix uniformly


Take a capful from this bottle 3 times in one day, spaced by 45 minutes .

This is to be done for one day ONLY. No repetition of the medicine .

Do not take any medicine for next 7 days .This applies to Lycopodium also.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.

2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands ( not applicable as u have medicine in liquid form ) , tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .

3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate.

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT .
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT .
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be avoided during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.

7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin

Please also remember as explained that the 3 doses has to be taken once .

No homeopathic medicine should be repeated until the reaction to the initial dose is observed.

Well if the remedy selected is ok then the first sign of improvement will noticed in the first few days , otherwise no effect will be observed .

Avoid coffee and any strong smelling cosmetic
 
vikas_grower last decade
'Take a capful from this bottle 3 times in one day, spaced by 45 minutes '

Please interpret the above as

One capful , wait for 45 min , second capful wait for 45 min and then last capful .

Once only maybe in morning .


Thats it . No more medicine for next 7 days
 
vikas_grower last decade
The pharmacy guy is asking what potency should the Lycopodium be?
 
Girlygal last decade
Also, is it alright if I use distilled water? I could not find spring water anywhere in Bangalore!
 
Girlygal last decade
Sorry , its lycopodium 30 c .

Ask at the following contact about spring water

Bisleri International Pvt. Ltd.
29/33, Udayagiri Village,
Devanahalli Taluk,
Bangalore - 562 110.
Tel : 080-41148219 / 09972528888.
 
vikas_grower last decade
I called the Bisleri International in Bangalore and they have no clue about spring water. They were reacting like I was saying something funny. Do you know if it is available anywhere in Delhi? The pharmacist was saying distilled water is also fine, is he right?

Also, the chemist has given me Lycopodium 1M. Should I go back and get 30c?
 
Girlygal last decade
Dont take 1 M at this stage .

Please get 30 c only .

As for spring water , if it is not possible to get it please take it in distilled water .

Take it in excatly the same manner as described earlier .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Dear Dr. Vikas,

I took 3 doses of Lycopodium 30c. And is reporting after a week. There has been no visible changes :( . Please advice.
 
Girlygal last decade
Do you sweat during sleep or otherwise .


Can u shed more light on the jealousy aspect.
 
vikas_grower last decade
Any skin infections through which some fluid oozes .


Any craving to be in open air .
 
vikas_grower last decade
I hardly break into sweat, except if I am in a very humid place. I like the fan in full speed, even on cold nights and then use a blanket.

On Jealousy aspect, I find myself undergoing a very bitter feeling if anyone else-even strangers are doing better than me in any field or aspect. I have broken away from friends because of the same reason. I always want to be better than everyone around me...in every aspect- be it money, work, looks, knowledge... I mull over it and get depressed because of that.
 
Girlygal last decade
Please take Lachesis 30c liquid ( Dr Reckewegg ) in the same way as you took Lyco.

Pour 2 drops in 150ml of ordinary mineral water and take one capful 30 min apart

3 doses only and then we wait for a week .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Please take Lachesis 30c liquid ( Dr Reckewegg ) in the same way as you took Lyco.

Pour 2 drops in 150ml of ordinary mineral water and take one capful 30 min apart

3 doses only and then we wait for a week .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Did u take Lachesis
 
vikas_grower last decade

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