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My 6 yr old son seems to be having some behavioural issues.As an ifant till date he has been very impatient,adamant and wants to be in charge.He does no like anyone asking him to do things.He does not need a particualr reason to be irritated.It may be somethings silly or trivial or somethings not very small too.If instigated he becomes Very aggressive,hits,mouths bad words lik i want to kill u and get lost.During this period his eyes become very red body heats up( as it is he is generally warm)and seems like a totally different person.Howver at school or outisde away frommmreserved,underconfident,low self esteem,in fear,scared.His teacher said she was concerned abt his shy nature.
He gets distracted very fast but acc to his teachers is extremely intelligent.Does his work fast when he wants to and doesnt like being asked to do his school work.Wont pay attention if he chooss not to.However he at times has a very mild and gentle caring and happy nature too.Helps,is generou and selfless unlike the selfish chr which he shows most of th etimes.Has a sarcastic laugh and closes his ears when admonished or just asked to not repeat something wrong.Loves his younger brother but at times shows anger to him too.
One minute he is excited and happy but might just get angry be mood off.He complains of feeling tha way and doesnt know why.He says he feels bad for being bad.Doesnt know hy he looses his temper and behaves the way he dos.
We approached our family homeopath who said he was hyperactive.He def wants to be engaged always hates being bored.He was given cina 3x and Cal Carb for 2 months and showd immense improvement.He used to get up in the middle of th enights scream,cry and call out for me,as a toddler he used to pull my hair and twist it till he saw strands in his fingers.He used to and still holds his genitals always and smells thm too.prefers to walk with no clothes on.After 2 month of these med he no longer woke up at nights and he claimed himself to be feeling happy and calm and he def was.
But teh doc changed his meds for what reson i dono to Cane sugar and brahmi.
NOw his anger and acting outs has reduced but it is still there.We see no change in hs confidence level or fear.When he sees that we are not giving in to his wishes he yells but everything subsides in 1.5hrs.
I know this is too long a read but we r desperate parents....i left my job since his birth dedicating my entire ime to him.We parenst are very friendly with him and it hurts us even more that it looks like he just hates us but the other he loves us......
we are sad,upset...our family homepath sees th problem light wards it off saying the kid is brilliant dont bother...but how ca we leave our child feeling sullen,angry,udnderconfidnt and sad,scared and anxious.......

We respect your advice and time and appreciate your efforts...
THankyou and God bless.
NG
 
  engee on 2010-08-08
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does he sweats during sleep .

What are his fears .



He used to and still holds his genitals always and smells thm too.prefers to walk with no clothes on

Does he still do that
 
vikas_grower last decade
Thankyou Sir for taking the time to reply.
He sweats a lot bbut not while sleeping.Unless if it is humid and there is no fan/ac.

fears-being alone,if we willl leave him somewhere(lie if we r in shop n we ask him to wait he wont even he can see us in front of him)

is very clingy to me.cant be away from me for long.

quite afraid of strangers.
fears dark,loud noises even if its not dark.

yes.he still holds his genitals.he used to thumb suck till 4yrs and pull out my hair.
he still holds on to my hair and smells it whenever he gets a chance.

Please let me know if you need mor specific infos.

Once again we appreciate your help.
NG
 
engee last decade
Does he still likes to move about naked
 
vikas_grower last decade
Any reaction to water ( like swimming , bathing )
 
vikas_grower last decade
mm...he still likes to walk arnd naked.likes to play in water but HATES bathing.
 
engee last decade
is head sensitive to drafts and cold, or washing hair

does he wants lemonade
 
vikas_grower last decade
sensitive...means does he catch cold fast when exposed to cold wind,Sir??
If its very cold he has ended up with fever earlier.Now we live in Singapore.Here there is no winter.But if he sweats a lot or head is not wiped well after bath he sometimes gets a runny nose.

No.He does not ask for lemonade.
Thankyou
 
engee last decade
Is there any time of the day when he is worse as compared to rest of day .

Any reaction to hair combing or hair cuts
 
vikas_grower last decade
cant actually say a particular time weekends usually are a bit more than the weekdays...mornings i think.it may extend all day or ometimes just settle down.
sed to hate hair cuts was scared and used to scream as a child.But by 4.5yrs he was ok with it.
 
engee last decade
Lets try belladonna 30 c .


The dosage is as follows


Please get Belladonna 30 c in liquid or pellets form .

The dosing proceedure is as follows .



Pour 2 drops of liquid of Belladonna 30 c in a 250 ml spring water bottle.

Alternatively put 2 pellets of Belladonna 30 c in a 250 ml spring water bottle and allow it to dissolve on its own which will take some time .
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Once u pour the drops in the bottle/pellets have dissolved , shake the spring water bottle very gently to allow uniform mixing .

Take a capful from this bottle .This makes one dose.

Wait for 30 minutes .

Take another capful . This makes second dose .

Wait for 30 minutes


Take another capful . This makes third dose

Thats it .


No repetition of the medicine .

We now wait and watch her behaviour for 15 days .

Please note that the medicine is not be repeated in these 15 days .

Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands ( not applicable as u have medicine in liquid form ) , tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate.
THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT .
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT .
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be avoided during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin

Please also remember as explained that the 3 doses has to be taken once .
No homeopathic medicine should be repeated until the reaction to the initial dose is observed.

Well if the remedy selected is ok then the first sign of improvement will noticed in the first few days , otherwise no effect will be observed .

In case of any confusion please ask.
 
vikas_grower last decade
Belladonna is selected considering his anger , red colouration of face , tendency to move without clothes .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Sir,thankyou very much.
We have no medical background so please do not get offended if we ask....
is it safe to take bell when he is taking bacopa and sacharratum.....he takes
bacopa 10-10-10
san-2-2-2
he also takes 1-1-1 of a med tht the dr didnt give the name of every 20 days.
Been on these since june 1st week.

All the sincere help and precious time is much appreciated.
NG
 
engee last decade
It is dangerous to mix medicines and in any case there should be a long gap ( few months sometimes ) before a new medicine is tried .

I would stongly advise you to stay with your homeopath and allow him to work on the kid .

In case u have any apprehensions u can discuss with him openly .

Please no offence taken , we are all on this forum to help .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Please do keep posting / updating on your's sons status from time to time .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Apologies for the delayed reply.
Thankyou Sir for the kind and sincere support.
Sir,may i ask how can i know abt medicines and their compliactions?If he is taking bacopa...when he has a throat pain can he take hepar....ist very expensive going to a homeopath always...

Thankyou again.
 
engee last decade
I can understand your financial concern . But if you start self medication then one medicine may MASK/ALTER/ NULLIFY the effect of the medicine given by your homeopath and therefore mislead him and also can cause harm .

In allopathy we can do this to some extent as one medicine does not have masking effect on the other .

However in homeopathy mixing of medicines can lead to a very unpredictable state and derail the entire treatment and most importantly by altering the patients response can throw the healer off track .

Hence it is strongly urged not to mix medicines or self medicate .
 
vikas_grower last decade
Sir,he cannot be called hyperactive can he...as he is not so at school....is it neurological problem?
...yest was his 1st session of art therapy in counselling.
 
engee last decade
It is not important whether we call him 'Hyperactive' or not because unlike allopathy we are not looking at his ' hyperactivity but are trying to match his background personality ' behind the foreground of his hyperactivity ' with the correct homeopathic remedy to bring about the healing .

What differentiates a good homeopath from a average homeopath is his ability to make this match
 
vikas_grower last decade
listen--treat child as total--not piece work-i.e NOT...remedy for this --remedy for that- approach--and if most homoeopathic remedy to case doent cover it all--start with MAIN issue and its conditions to treat--

emotion complaint you explain--as long as there is no enviremental/dietary sensitivity that triggers such as a maintianing factor--then your looing at lycopodium ---use LM1 daily dosing method --as DESCRIBED in organon---if dont know then dont guess--read up and follow appropriate guidelines--as applies to all facets of treatment using genuine homoeopathy
 
John Stanton last decade
Thankyou Vikas Sir and John Sir for your valuable advices.
What we dont understand is-the homeopath heard us ovr the ph (we r in spore now).He sent 2months medications-Cal Carb ,cina 3x together in 1 powder 00-0-1.for 2 months.said that will be enuf.he was angel.said am happy now i don feel like shoutn or fighting...oohhh why was i like tht before.by 2.5month h was back to square 1....then homepath said u r taking this serious.he is brilliant just ignore all this.teacher said she is concerned abt his shy nature under confidnet chr..dr said its ok.leav it.let it be.... then he gave bacopa and saccharrum....so cina and cal carb were only temporary acting meds???no further effects??
we r just lost..how can we boost his confidence,scared to speak to a third person,in public,in school,to teacher....
 
engee last decade
lycopodium----your at the mercy of false prescribers and charlatans---always been this way---tough to know whom is genuine---again i advise you educate yourself by reading''' organon of medicine''' 6th edition (samuael hahnemann --founder of homoeopathy)
 
John Stanton last decade
Thankyou John Sir.
I asked abt hyperactvity becoz i read that bacopa treats ADHD...and we dont think he has that problem.
Will def read the organon of medicine.But since we are not in this field we definitely need a homeopaths advice.
 
engee last decade
May I ask why the effects of cina and calc carb were short lived..
 
engee last decade
Provided the remedy chosen is correct , the time taken is proportional to the intensity of the problem .

Once the effect of the corrected chosen remedy wears off it is repeated at a higher potency ( power ) till the disease is eliminated .
 
vikas_grower last decade
So if cina or lyco is the remedy and given for the requisite time te disease will be eliminated fully.
This problem is curable isnt it,Sir?
 
engee last decade

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