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I want to become mom

Hi,

Thanks in advance to every one that tries to help me out..

I am 27yrs old and married for 2years now. The very first year, we hadnt hav plans for kids, but i was not on any pill to avoid that.. we just maintained thru ejaculating outside.. My periods were never a 28 day cycle nor one such.. its always a week or two delayed.. but i got all the months..Tension(exams) delays them much more
Now after 1 year, we planned for kids..and then suddenly my periods turned very irregular missing out alternate months.. At first i thought i was pregnant but only later i realise dat i'm not.. I took allopathy medicines and periods came out in a week... but not with out them.. now i am not taking them.. I had all the tests done.
NO cysts,Normal ovaries, Normal Thyroid levels
I resigned my job as demands a lot of time..and i put on weight..

Height: 154 cm
Weight:62.3kgs(It used to be 53 last year and 48 the year before)

BP: 110/60 (same from my college days) Took no medicine for this.I dont like salt much

Blood: 10 (A bit anemic)
My doc said my delayed periods are due to less blood..

Food : Sweet/Sour/spicy.. I dont like smell of mutton etc, but i love chicken
Thirst : Not much (Trying to be proactive these days)
Climate :I like cold climate very much.. Am sensitive to sun and heat(causes head ache).I dont perefer dump rainy season
Hunger : Normal.. but these days eating much out of desire
Constipation : Yes i used to have, but now a days its normal..
Sleep: Sound.. (once i sleep, i forget all worries). yeah but its true that some things disturb me some times but rarely then i get dreams relevantly
Look not like fat but am overweight


Periods:
Before: Heavy Breasts, Painful thighs,slight cramps in abdomen
During: 1st day Heavy, 2nd,3rd - normal, 4- very light to none
After : No complications
I feel good when i sleep during periods.. when awake i have abdominal pain but bearable and i prefer no pills at any cost
Colour: dark red.. a very little bleeding when i sleep


I go to gym 5 days/week for 1 hr daily since a month

I like sleeping a lot..
I dont like cooking personally, but my husbands desire makes me cook delicious food
Bathing: i like to bath and also like to skip

Very sensitive, reserved with strangers, but authoritative at home. Extreme feelings Love, Denial etc. Choosy abt relationships.
God beleiving, money is important, but i hate cheating and sin..and also dont like people who are such.
Want to stand for truth in my judgements..


I am not sure i am ovulating.. cause, my husband has been diagnosed with Asthenozoospermia..
So iam waiting for him also to get completely cured. meanwhile i want my self to make sure i am also ready for him.. and both of us
ready to have a healthy child..


Thanks
MVJ
 
  iwannabmom on 2009-11-24
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Patient ID: Sex: Age:

Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?




2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?




3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?



4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?




5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?



6. Which time of the day you are worst?




7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?




8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?




9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?




10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?




12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?





13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?


19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?

20. What peculiar or strange sensation do you have in any part of your body at times? Do you sometimes feel ‘ as if…..’ in some part of the body?


21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?


22. What major diseases are running in your family?


23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.

24. (ONLY FOR FEMALES)

If you are not having normal menstrual cycles, please answer the following questions:

- Are the periods early, regular or late in general? How long do they last?
- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before, during or after the periods?
- Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?
- Is the blood thick bright red or pale watery?
- Do you notice any clots in the flow?
 
rishimba last decade
Mr.Rishimba,
Thanks a lot for the reply.I was not sure in the morning when i didnt find any reply.. but really happy now!!

Here are the answers to the questions as far as I could analyze

Patient Id
Age: 27yrs 8months
Sex: Female

1.Describe your Main Suffering
Irregular periods and unable to conceive (my husband is also diagnosed with asthenozoospermia)

2.What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Tonsilitis that attacks me some times, constipation (not these days), short sight(I wear lenses)

3. What mental sufferings/feelings do you have associated with these physical sufferings?
I usually prefer cool and sweet stuff, but because of tonsillitis, I have to avoid these. I wear lenses.. so doesn’t feel bad outside. But I don’t like the feeling of having to wear them regularly. For my main issue of irregular periods., prior to marriage, I never worried nor cared to talk about that even to my dad. It wasn’t a noticeable irregularity then and till we started seriously trying to conceive. We planned that we’ll not have kids atleast the first year. I am not very much depressed about that.. I have faith in GOD.. but some times I feel much irritated by peoples’ questions. The only people I have talked to about my ailment are my dad, my husband and doctor.

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
I want to be asked no questions, but just someone(very few) to stand by me and say ok and I usually get this both from dad and husband. But there are times I didn’t tell hem and cried in bathroom to become pregnant.

5. When did it all start?
Tension always delayed my periods. They were never a 28 or 31 cycle. Its always a plus 3 or 4 days. But I used to have them each month, till I really got ready to become mom. I mean by that.. I was never on contraceptives, no sexual affairs prior to marriage. When I am really ready and started trying to conceive(prior to this, my husband actually used to ejaculate outside to avoid pregnancy ) , my periods delayed and I thought I was pregnant. From then I took Allopathy medicines which worsened my situation


6. Which time of the day you are worst?
Afternoon

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those that ameliorate the same?
Cough and continuous work increase the pain and Sleeping ameliorates

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
No

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Cold weather

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I have a contradictory nature.. I am very silent, quite outside, I don’t argue.. I even don’t talk to the sales guy of what I need, instead I tell my husband what I want:, but at home very jovial, sometimes moody, not arrogant but arguing. If I start doing work I do it till I finish it, how ever painful it could be, but it takes really lot of time for me to make a start(lazy). I have the extremeties for both LOVE and DENIAL

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm? I want my family members to be safe at home.
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times? Yeah, very much, but by few I love
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc? A bit
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc? I think about my future most o the times. What I want to be, I like imagining myself as successful
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife? I am a bit reserved and have few friends whom I like most. I love my family and especially my husband I love him a lot.. but at times I argue too..when I feel his financial approach is not appropriate. But he’s cool enough, like down to earth.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
I really don’t fear much about myself, but am worried about my husband. He was brought up by his uncle and this uncle’s family cheated on my husband of a great amount of money. Still my husband is cool enough to forgive them, but I am just scared if he’ll get cheated again. I don’t dream much.. I am a sound sleeper. I never had a same dream.

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
Sweets/Sour items.. I have aversion to mutton but like chicken a lot. I also don’t like the smell of dry sea foods, but like fresh ones.

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Normal

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?
Not one known

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Less usually, but cycling makes me sweat a lot. Head

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
Used to have constipation earlier, but now a days its normal… Place change (New Place) again leads to constipation.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
Sound. Love it and enjoy it. Generally lie down on my back, and turn to sides some times.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
Yes

20. What peculiar or strange sensation do you have in any part of your body at times? Do you sometimes feel ‘ as if…..’ in some part of the body?
No

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
Folvite, OroferXt(Folic, Zinc), mineral & nutritional supplements, Norethisterone, Acetylcysteine

22. What major diseases are running in your family?
None. My husband is suffering from ASTHENOZOOSPERMIA

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
Wt:62.3 kg, ht:154cms, a bit overweight but doesn’t look like fat as I have fat mostly at thigh region. Many say I look younger than I am..from my child hood I was slim, not to mention these two years that I put up a lot of weight due to chocolates, sweets, ice-creams etc.

24. (ONLY FOR FEMALES)

If you are not having normal menstrual cycles, please answer the following questions:

- Are the periods early, regular or late in general? How long do they last?
Late . 3 to 4 days
- Do you suffer from any kind of physical or mental discomfort before,
during or after the periods?
Heavy breasts, painful thighs, lower back pain on first day.. but bearable and got used to
Is the flow scanty, normal or excessive?
Normal first 2 days. Scanty on 3rd and spotting on 4th

- Is the blood thick bright red or pale watery?
Thick bright red

- Do you notice any clots in the flow?
Sometimes … but not hard clots
 
iwannabmom last decade
Mr.Rishimba,

Sorry i forgot to mention something..
I had my last period on september 15th that turned up after i ate fresh dates that my sister brought from Kuwait.. after that its 24th November, again that they showed up with out any medicines or anthing. Today is my second day of cycle..

Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
i really want to know if the real problem is the reduced sperm quality of your hubby or your sterility.

also, i want to know if you are really ovulating. this you can check by taking the temperature of your body every day and see if its changed on one particular day some two weeks before the start of your periods.
 
rishimba last decade
Thanks for the query,

I must say both because, i am not sure if i am ovulating due to these irregular periods and also he's having low sperm motility.. he's on medication for that.. i just want to correct my physical requirements... by the time he is ready

Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
And to mention i am charting BBT only from 2 days..
 
iwannabmom last decade
to zero in on your remedy, could you answer some more questions...

Write an essay on yourself, your personality, nature, likes and dislikes, thermal preferences, cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, your ambition in life, your inner-most desires, your place in society etc.


3. What is your profession? Do you enjoy yourself at work? Is it a profession you have willingly chosen? If not, what would it be as per your choice?

4. What would you like to change in your personality, if at all?


5. Please pick out the adjectives which best describe your personality;

Nervous, Anxious, Shy, Worrying, Paranoid, Proud, Asocial, Guilty, Depressed, Hypochondriac, Untidy, Weepy, Emotional, Impractical, Confused, Suspicious, Jealous, Timid, Aggressive, Headstrong, Forgetful, Follower, Insecure, Immature, Impulsive, Rigid, Restless, Feminine.

6. Did you have any bereavement in life? If yes, how has it affected you?


7. Do you often suffer from depression? If so, do you prefer company or solitude during those times?

8. Do you get angry often? If not, do you feel the anger inside at least? What are the things / issues on which you get angry the most?


9. Do you have any issues regarding your parenting by your guardians? How were their nature / behavior towards you during your childhood and adolescents? How has it affected your personality and thoughts?

10. Would you say your sex drive is high, low or average? Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires?
 
rishimba last decade
Write an essay on yourself, your personality, nature, likes and dislikes, thermal preferences, cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, your ambition in life, your inner-most desires, your place in society etc.


3. What is your profession? Do you enjoy yourself at work? Is it a profession you have willingly chosen? If not, what would it be as per your choice?

4. What would you like to change in your personality, if at all?


5. Please pick out the adjectives which best describe your personality;

Nervous, Anxious, Shy, Worrying, Paranoid, Proud, Asocial, Guilty, Depressed, Hypochondriac, Untidy, Weepy, Emotional, Impractical, Confused, Suspicious, Jealous, Timid, Aggressive, Headstrong, Forgetful, Follower, Insecure, Immature, Impulsive, Rigid, Restless, Feminine.

6. Did you have any bereavement in life? If yes, how has it affected you?


7. Do you often suffer from depression? If so, do you prefer company or solitude during those times?

8. Do you get angry often? If not, do you feel the anger inside at least? What are the things / issues on which you get angry the most?


9. Do you have any issues regarding your parenting by your guardians? How were their nature / behavior towards you during your childhood and adolescents? How has it affected your personality and thoughts?

10. Would you say your sex drive is high, low or average? Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires?
 
rishimba last decade
sorry for the repetition..just answer once.
 
rishimba last decade
For Sure Sir,

Write an essay on yourself, your personality, nature, likes and dislikes, thermal preferences, cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, your ambition in life, your inner-most desires, your place in society etc.

I am a reserved person, choosy abt relationships.. like to maintain few loyal friends. I am really quite at work and don’t indulge in others matters and I also don’t like people who try to pursue my personal arena.. Contradictorily, very talkative at home if no stranger is there. Argument.. I love it.. I always want to stand for the truth and love those who are such.. If it has nothing to deal with righteousness or justice, I always stand by my loved ones.. I have strong feelings of LOVE and DENIAL. I am sensitive at times.. just emotional if somebody is being treated wrongly(I need not know them). I like my dad and my husband a lot.. before marriage I always wanted to be with dad, now I cant leave my husband.. I don’t go out much. Even for shopping, I want to be backed up by my husband.. Except to gym/office, I never go alone. I am a spiritually enthusiastic person and love to learn abt scriptures and today’s world.. I like devotional music.. I don’t like doing homely chores like cooking, washing etc.. But my husband is a foodie.. so I cook and love when cooking specials for him. I hate when my maid takes a leave..coz I leave all things on her like cleaning, washing etc.. I am doing my MBA now distance mode and I always had distinction in all the exams but I pull out 10/15 days prior to my exams for that..I am lazy..;) I like learning many thing and doing a bit of study on the net for every doubt I have. Recently I started learning a language on net..:)

I am sensitive to sun and heat and also rain.. If I go into hot sun, I develop headache.. if I get drenched badly, I develop fever.. I like cold climate.. love winter season a lot. It gives me minor complications health wise and also I like my surroundings being cool or warm, but not hot.

I love sweets, chocolates and ice-creams.. Due to Tonsillitis, I stopped taking them(weight also is another factor). I like sour items also.. I don’t like the smell of mutton and dry sea items.. but other wise I like chicken and sea foods. I like fresh curd only… not something that smells up. I don’t feel comfortable traveling in a bus.

Apart from the above I crave for love of my beloved ones. I generally am cautious about relationships.. once I know they are not correct, I try to avoid them.. I generally don’t dream much.. but yes day dreaming.. I do.. I want my life to be settled up financially (I know I am ready… but don’t want to leave any stones unturned).

I don’t want to be a home maker. Like my mom, I want myself to be both working and also giving enough time for my family and also support my husband financially(though not necessary and negligible to him)… so I want to set up my own business for that..



From my childhood, I am always attracted to kids.. I always used to play with kids.. My innermost desire: I am not sure.. I just want to become Mom and I believe I’ll..
I want to be successful in all aspects.I love watching detective serials and reading such books

Though my husband has piled up some loans, we are well able to finish it off very soon.. We have our own flat and a site where we are planning to make for ourselves a beautiful home. Successful dentist around here and this places us in a safe and happy state..


3. What is your profession? Do you enjoy yourself at work? Is it a profession you have willingly chosen? If not, what would it be as per your choice?
I was a S/w engineer. Quit the job in Jan voluntarily cause unable to manage work life and home.. used to get very late..I worked from home for some time. I chose that profession and was successful.. but time constraints made me sick of that.. Now I want to set up an own business that I enjoy.. probably a toy land or such.. which doesn’t disturb my personal life.


4. What would you like to change in your personality, if at all?
Because these days I’ve put up weight, I want to become slim again.. and with every other thing, I am perfectly happy.

5. Please pick out the adjectives which best describe your personality;
Nervous, Anxious, Shy, Worrying, Paranoid, Proud, Asocial, Guilty, Depressed, Hypochondriac, Untidy, Weepy, Emotional, Impractical, Confused, Suspicious, Jealous, Timid, Aggressive, Headstrong, Forgetful, Follower, Insecure, Immature, Impulsive, Rigid, Restless, Feminine.

Anxious, Shy, worrying, Emotional, Aggressive, Impulsive, Rigid


6. Did you have any bereavement in life? If yes, how has it affected you?
Yeah. It was my grand father. He was very old 85. He was my close friend at home.. I was not there and he wanted to see me.. but its okay.. I am prepared for him, but missed him for a while..

7. Do you often suffer from depression? If so, do you prefer company or solitude during those times?
Not often, but sometimes. Yeah I prefer company of my most loved ones.. but others I want to be away from me

8. Do you get angry often? If not, do you feel the anger inside at least? What are the things / issues on which you get angry the most?
Yeah… these days… very often. Committing mistakes knowingly makes me angry. My husband is a soft guy and his financial decisions drive me mad.. he knows he’s being cheated, but cant avoid just for love..This drives me very angry.
I also feel angry when somebody lie to me or cheat.. I don’t like that attitude from my child hood..

9. Do you have any issues regarding your parenting by your guardians? How were their nature / behavior towards you during your childhood and adolescents? How has it affected your personality and thoughts?
I didn’t understand this question actually.. I was actually brought up by my parents and am proud of that.. my husband is brought up by his uncle.. he’s a guy who never asked for anything just bcoz they brought him up.. they are good to him, but after my husband became a dentist and started earning, they put up all the burden on him(before marriage.. he’s so cool to deny even his own life). They made him take loans which we are still paying up.. Now when he denied to take more loans concerning our future, they completely avoided us(may be they thought they’ll have to give us a part in their wealth.. and we want none). We both really believe in ourselves than on others.. People who once gave first preference to my husband, now don’t even care to call him and wish him on his birthday.. He’s a tough guy though.. but felt bad that just money turned all these.. If it was me I would have run away from such idiotic people in my childhood.


10. Would you say your sex drive is high, low or average? Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires?
The very first days of my marriage I was really afraid of that one word.. I like romance but not sex.. But now I don’t hold the same attitude.. I must say average sex drive. I am able to satisfy my sexual desires



Please feel free to ask me queries. I really am ready to answer anything that’s going to help u work out a solution for me.. I also want to give my husband’s details once u r done with me.. He’s taking allopathy medicines. At the same time he’s using Damiana, Aswagandha suggested by frnds these days.


Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
please take PULSATILLA 200C just 5 doses, each dose every 12 hours.

thus, in 48 hours, you should be having all 5 doses.

take the doses in empty stomach and clean mouth. no food or water or washing mouth one hour before or after.

one dose would consist of 4 to 5 drops of remedy in 10ml if water slowly sipped up.

come back after 15 days with the changes noticed.

in order to get a permanent cure, you may have to take a few dose of higher potencies in infrequent intervals if you dont get it with this potency.
 
rishimba last decade
Sir,

Can i take it now or after completion of my cycle?

MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
please take it after a few days of the cycle.

if you feel some changes after taking the dose set, please inform me so that i can suggest the next course of treatment.
 
rishimba last decade
Thanks a lot.. i'll get back to u for any issues.. once again thank u very much
 
iwannabmom last decade
Mr.Rishi,

Can u plz suggest treatment for my husband? Can i continue in this or do you want me to post another thread? As I said earlier he's diaognosed with ASTHENOZOOSPERMIA.,please let me know if u require any details abt him..

Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
no problems..you can continue here.

your hubby needs to get a constitutional treatment and in addition to it, he should take zinc suppliments..

at least for some months, he should eat food rich in zinc to facilitate better motility of sperms.

please ask him to fill up the following questionnaire..

1. Describe your main sufferings and other related or unrelated sufferings with exact sensations, locations, modalities and probable causes.

2. Write an essay on yourself, your personality, nature, likes and dislikes, thermal preferences, cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, your ambition in life, your inner-most desires, your place in society etc.


3. What is your profession? Do you enjoy yourself at work? Is it a profession you have willingly chosen? If not, what would it be as per your choice?

4. What would you like to change in your personality, if at all?


5. Please pick out the adjectives which best describe your personality;

Nervous, Anxious, Shy, Worrying, Paranoid, Proud, Asocial, Guilty, Depressed, Hypochondriac, Untidy, Weepy, Emotional, Impractical, Confused, Suspicious, Jealous, Timid, Aggressive, Headstrong, Forgetful, Follower, Insecure, Immature, Impulsive, Rigid, Restless, Feminine.

6. Did you have any bereavement in life? If yes, how has it affected you?


7. Do you often suffer from depression? If so, do you prefer company or solitude during those times?

8. Do you get angry often? If not, do you feel the anger inside at least? What are the things / issues on which you get angry the most?


9. Do you have any issues regarding your parenting by your guardians? How were their nature / behavior towards you during your childhood and adolescents? How has it affected your personality and thoughts?

10. Would you say your sex drive is high, low or average? Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires?
 
rishimba last decade
Mr.Rishi,

Below are the answers given by my husband..



1. Describe your main sufferings and other related or unrelated sufferings with exact sensations, locations, modalities and probable causes.
ASTHENOZOOSPERMIA.

2. Write an essay on yourself, your personality, nature, likes and dislikes, thermal preferences, cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, your ambition in life, your inner-most desires, your place in society etc.

Quiet, kind and conscientious. I am a person that can be depended on. I usually put the needs of others above my own needs and for this very reason, I get dumped up and feel lost.

I don’t like conflicts and arguments and like to stay calm, even if I am not wrong.. I want to have a life thatz just cool and peaceful.
I am a foodie. I enjoy spicy NV food above all.

I donot prefer summer but like rainy and winter. I am conscious abt my physic. I regularly work out for that. Apart from being a successful dentist, I want every one to be united forgetting all their past misunderstandings. I am a happy well reputed dentist.


3. What is your profession? Do you enjoy yourself at work? Is it a profession you have willingly chosen? If not, what would it be as per your choice?
Dentist by profession. Yeah. I wanted to become a doc, but became a dentist.. I am very much happy with my profession

4. What would you like to change in your personality, if at all?
I want to become stubborn, aggressive and a bit rude at times so that I don’t care about others but give priority to my feelings. But I wonder how one can be as such.

5. Please pick out the adjectives which best describe your personality;

Nervous, Anxious, Shy, Worrying, Paranoid, Proud, Asocial, Guilty, Depressed, Hypochondriac, Untidy, Weepy, Emotional, Impractical, Confused, Suspicious, Jealous, Timid, Aggressive, Headstrong, Forgetful, Follower, Insecure, Immature, Impulsive, Rigid, Restless, Feminine.


Shy, Guilty, Depressed, Emotional, Confused, Insecure, Restless

6. Did you have any bereavement in life? If yes, how has it affected you?
Yeah I had. My father expired.. I regret the situation that I was in at that time. I wasn’t able to talk with him.. I feel guilty abt that. But I wasn’t much attached to him as I wasn’t brought up by them. But still feel really bad that I didn’t talk to him at that time just because of my guardians who didn’t allow me to meet my parents.

7. Do you often suffer from depression? If so, do you prefer company or solitude during those times?
Often.. yeah I want someone who can understand my feelings.

8. Do you get angry often? If not, do you feel the anger inside at least? What are the things / issues on which you get angry the most?
I don’t get angry often, but I feel it inside. I mostly get angry when people hate others.

9. Do you have any issues regarding your parenting by your guardians? How were their nature / behavior towards you during your childhood and adolescents? How has it affected your personality and thoughts?
I was brought up in a highly disciplined and strict environment that made me an introvert. I suppressed my feelings or wishes. They were good in my childhood. Only after I started earning, things changed. I was never allowed to give money to my own parents nor meet them and talk to them. I don’t blame them for that. I wanted to fulfill all their needs and forwent all my necessaries for their luxuries (I must say). This threw me into debts. This affected all my relationships after marriage, as my wife felt insecure abt our financial situation.


10. Would you say your sex drive is high, low or average? Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires?
Used to be high.. These times I don’t feel the same way.. Average drive. To some extent, I am able to satisy.


Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
please answer question no. 2 in more detail giving all information about your cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, thermal preferences,other likes and dislikes, inner most desires etc.

you will understand that homeopathic repertorisation is based on symptoms and in this case there are no direct manifested symptoms. thus, the selection of the constitutional remedy has to be based on your mental and general symptoms.

the more you detail yourself, the better will be the selection.

when you say, you put the needs of others before your needs, do you mean to say you are extremely sympathetic to others?

would you fight for others?

are you a leader or a follower?

what kind of ailments you have had since birth?

what are the ailments you generally suffer from apart from this one.
 
rishimba last decade
Mr.Rishi,
Sorry for being very late. I really had to insist him to put up a detailed version..



Please answer question no. 2 in more detail giving all information about your cravings and aversions, fears and dreams, thermal preferences, other likes and dislikes, inner most desires etc.


you will understand that homeopathic repertorisation is based on symptoms and in this case there are no direct manifested symptoms. thus, the selection of the constitutional remedy has to be based on your mental and general symptoms.

the more you detail yourself, the better will be the selection.

I crave for hot, spicy foods especially Non-veg, Can have them almost all the days. These days I crave for tea or coffee, cause she’s not giving me..prior to that I used to drink 5 or 6 times a day. Though I got used to now, still I would like to have a cup or 2. She used to give me 1 cup of tea/coffee earlier, but stopped doing this after she came to know abt this ailment. I like being physically strong and smart. Mentally, I crave for peace and unity. I generally avoid citrus/sour foods. Not interested in veggie stuff, but can have them if she puts the spicy variety. I hate hatred.

For my fears, ok.. I will mention this cause she already knew them.. my finances.. when ever she finds a paper of mine, I worry what it could be in her hand, cause she’ll ask lots of questions and take a long lecture on finances and future plan. She’ll do this till I finish them ;-)

I dream to be independent financially.. live peacefully with every one(This includes my guardians). I dream of giving my wife a secure life from her perspective and a happy family.

Thermal Preferences: I don’t prefer hot weather but like normal temperature and cool ones.

Other Likes and dislikes: I like being active in sports, games, fun and enjoyment.. Though she doesn’t play much I always encourage her to go for shuttle and TT. Even though there is not a board at home, we use our dining table to play TT. I like people around me(my cousins visit us often), love going to new places but still in company. Before marriage I never had the freedom to go, but now we go out periodically. I just don’t like wasting my time being still. I don’t get much sleep. If I get disturbed, I have to struggle for that. But I definitely like to take an hour rest in the afternoon. I like going out but not in our place, cause I’ll meet so many people who know me and wish me and I cant move freely. So generally I take her to walk in a route which is less flooded by people. I need some privacy.


Innermost desires: To be happy in all the ways(A regular one).. To setup a very high profile corporate dental hospital.

When you say, you put the needs of others before your needs, do you mean to say you are extremely sympathetic to others?
Yes sympathetic

Would you fight for others?
I must say No. I help others financially, but I cant fight for others.. If I could, I could have fought for my own parents. But now a days, I am doing it a bit.. fighting for my wife and for myself and for my mother… Prior to marriage, I never fought for anything except for insisting on getting married to my wife(here also I didn’t fight), not even to meet my dad on his last day, neither for my mother who is left with out any means of living(I always helped her secretly) . I sincerely didn’t fight even for my mother.. Even after marriage, I didn’t tell my wife too abt the situation my mother was in. She’s having a good time with my guardians.. they used to take a good care of her.. especially my aunt, though my wife never liked my uncle’s attitude and their 4 daughters’, she liked my aunt..(she still loves my aunt and I too love my aunt) She didn’t meet my mom and knows none of the issues. She was told badly abt my mom by my sisters. She’s so open she came and directly asked me.. only then, so as not to make my mom bad, I talked abt my family, my father’s death, hw they made my mom and younger brother stand outside the house.. Since then, she digged up every thing.. why my family doesnt come to us, why I used to go secretly to meet them, why my mother or brother are not allowed to come to my hospital also and hw the daughters used to keep an eye on me etc etc. She initiated arguing with me and fighting for them. This has changed my attitude a lot.. She doesn’t have an attachment with them..she neither loves them as she doesnt knew them..she fought with me for my mom. She asked me simple questions of how they must have felt bad that their grown up son cant even come to them openly and stand by them.. After those she came to knew abt my finances…and she became strict with that. Before that, we even gave a good amount of money to my uncle for her daughter's marriage.

Are you a leader or a follower?
I don’t know how to answer this… for many I am a leader, but to some I am a follower. As a child, I was always a follwer.. a strict follower.. sit when asked to and stand when asked to(At Home), what color and style of a shirt, my hair style and many more. I was brought up among 4 daughters of my uncle. I don’t remember him teaching them what to do and how to behave, but till I earned and in some cases, till my marriage, I was always asked to do something with out any questions and followed orders (May be not harsh.. but I was just taught how to be). If I don’t follow, they always had the senti and satires on me and my parents. I don’t like arguments.. to avoid that I followed them.. But being studious and disciplined (from them), I am a leader to many. I lead professionally and guide so many of my cousins including my sisters(4 of them). But I should say at home, My wife is the one who leads.. She is independent, educated, disciplined (not a strict military discipline though) and above all she is brought up in an environment where she is open enough to express or even fight for her cause and righteousness. I must admit, though younger to me, she is well able to convey, I want this and I don’t want that and she’ll stick to it.. but I cant put it like that. Just give her a clue and she’ll dig every thing up. If not her, I should have definitely ended up in huge loans giving to others. My love for her and her stubborn attitude always makes me listen to her. But I believe I always had a charm of convincing her, she’ll not follow orders, but follows love(I lead here). I don’t like to be ordered any more, not even by the one who brought me up.

What kind of ailments you have had since birth?
I had appendicitis in my childhood, for which I got operated, but at the extreme last stage. I have a very long mark of that. I never told that I have this pain to my guardians… it was at the last stage when I was really unable to control the pain that they saw me and took me to hospital.. I always concealed all my feelings.. what ever it be pain or joy.
I have a small growth under the upper eyelid..

What are the ailments you generally suffer from apart from this one.
I rarely do fall ill. Some times a fever or cold and like wise.


Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
Mr.Rishi,

I would like to know i the info provided by my husband was useful or u need some more details..


Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
there are no marked symptoms in the mental plane which could indicate a constitution. probably, more information, especially the the negetive mental and physcial symptoms could point to some specific remedy.

however, along with what physiological medication he is undertaking, you can ask him to take more of food rich in zinc. that because semen has far greater quantity of zinc in it than we have in our system. suppliments of zinc will also help.
 
rishimba last decade
Sir,

Sorry for being late. I had little access to net as I was on a trip to a remote place.. 3 days back when I was out there, i felt like I had symptoms of menstrual pains, thigh pains.. i just need to wait and see for that.. Every thing except that I developed a blister on labia minora.. it was a bit painful but very little. I thought this might be due to heat in the body because of spicy foods that i had to take..now its a bit irritating. Never had any such thing.. Other things are normal.. And also not sure of ovulation.. I always almost had the same temperature except for minor deflections

MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade
Mr.Rishi,

I am still awaiting my periods.. I have some symptomps of periods like heavy breasts, but still didnt get them.. I also had cold, cough and fever last week.. and I thought may be due to that, I didnt get thru.. Now I am in dilemma of the step to be taken.. shall I take pulsatilla again or.. wat next.. plz do reply..
And one more thing, I could possibly not be pregnant (except by the manifestation of a miracle)

Please do reply
 
iwannabmom last decade
in such a condition, the best remedy is GOSSIPIUM HERBACEUM-Q some 10 drops in some water three times a day and you will have your periods within 48 hours.
 
rishimba last decade
Mr.Rishi,

Thanq so much.

Is this a forceful way and does this regularize my periods? Do I have to take pulsatilla again after my periods?

Thanks
MVJ
 
iwannabmom last decade

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