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12 year old moody girl
Hi, Have what used to be a very sweet fun loving easy going girl . Then the homones started 2 years ago..... She got her 1st period 5 months ago, it is very irregular still. She is irritable most of the time. She shouts at her siblings with the least provocation. Also to myself & her dad. Only wants mobile phone/TV & computer a lot of the time (we restrict all these)Very noisy if she does not get her own way & is very demanding. Personal hygiene not very good but does take time to put small make up on! Used to keep room tidy, not any more. Has said twice that she feels depressed with her life which worries me. Tried talking to her & get the usual teenage reply that its all of us who have the problem! How else can I help her through homeopathy, I knew the teenage years would be challenging but want to do whatever I can to help her & us. Many thank sin advance.busymum on 2009-02-25
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John Stanton was may be asking about other info like
digestion?
abdominal cravings?
mind likes n dislikes ?
any virtual love disappointments?
any exalted sexuality noticed ?
skin symptoms ?
Vertigo?
Scalp itch ?
hair fall ?
lot of saliva secretion ?
any chocking sensation ?
any pain in fingers ? pain in thumb?
any coldness of hands/feet ?
digestion?
abdominal cravings?
mind likes n dislikes ?
any virtual love disappointments?
any exalted sexuality noticed ?
skin symptoms ?
Vertigo?
Scalp itch ?
hair fall ?
lot of saliva secretion ?
any chocking sensation ?
any pain in fingers ? pain in thumb?
any coldness of hands/feet ?
sorahamsha last decade
Does the girl lie with hand above her head?
fears to be alone?
how is her thirst?
any headache ? facial/teeth/ear ache?
dry mouth?
examine the color of tongue?
lips dry?
any crack in the middle of the lower lip?
fears to be alone?
how is her thirst?
any headache ? facial/teeth/ear ache?
dry mouth?
examine the color of tongue?
lips dry?
any crack in the middle of the lower lip?
sorahamsha last decade
Fill up the above questionary ;; Then Dr.John Stanton may be pleased and offer you his medical advice ;;; My job is done for now ;; I fear to interfere in Dr.Stanton's take up because he would not like it;;;
Just a little advice , you need to hold the stand ;;don't get tired ;; talk open ;; talk openly to her;; don't let her feel that you are restricting her ;;; try to make her understand the value of freedom and the results it's misuse, in plain practical words and examples;; always bear a smiling face and a pleasant voice in front of her ;;
I hope Dr.Stanton would reply you soon;;
take care,
Dr.Sharma
Just a little advice , you need to hold the stand ;;don't get tired ;; talk open ;; talk openly to her;; don't let her feel that you are restricting her ;;; try to make her understand the value of freedom and the results it's misuse, in plain practical words and examples;; always bear a smiling face and a pleasant voice in front of her ;;
I hope Dr.Stanton would reply you soon;;
take care,
Dr.Sharma
sorahamsha last decade
Dr Sharma,
Thank you for all the info. I will fill in all relevant details for Dr John, easier said than done the smiling face but you are so right, its very important & often forgotten!
Thank you for all the info. I will fill in all relevant details for Dr John, easier said than done the smiling face but you are so right, its very important & often forgotten!
busymum last decade
And one more thing, don't let her feel, that her Mom thinks 'the problem lies with the kido' ;;;
You need to support her in verbal, otherwise she would seek support from outside;;
When you give the medicine, tell her that it would help her physical conditions (periods etc.) ; don't point out any of mind symptoms to her ;
easy to say all this but I know how difficult to do, since I've done this;
You need to support her in verbal, otherwise she would seek support from outside;;
When you give the medicine, tell her that it would help her physical conditions (periods etc.) ; don't point out any of mind symptoms to her ;
easy to say all this but I know how difficult to do, since I've done this;
sorahamsha last decade
though shalt not pigeon hole patient into remedy!
we suffer not the pulsatilla syndrome til proven otherwise
we suffer not the pulsatilla syndrome til proven otherwise
♡ John Stanton last decade
busy-mum
what ills she typically get?when last ?what symptoms?how treeated?
also list other treatments she had in past health history?
what ills she typically get?when last ?what symptoms?how treeated?
also list other treatments she had in past health history?
♡ John Stanton last decade
Busy Mom
I knew Jonny is going to come after me for that;
I was looking for a general possibility ;It not a biased approach;
Answer Dr Stantont's queries
Dr. Soham Ram Sharma
I knew Jonny is going to come after me for that;
I was looking for a general possibility ;It not a biased approach;
Answer Dr Stantont's queries
Dr. Soham Ram Sharma
sorahamsha last decade
♡ John Stanton last decade
Hello Dr John & thanks in advance!
Daughter 12.5 rys - description: Digestion-fine, no abdo cravings apart from loves sweets, chocolates, dislikes being alone in some situations (school yeard) but fine with security of own home, relatives etc. Hates potatoes, butter and milk, likes yogurts. Cannot bear to touch butter..Dislikes her teacher + feels too grown up for primary school (seems v. mature on her views like an adult) Was recently almost 'stalked' for months by a 'friend ' who she did not have the heart to tell to go away, not wanting to be 'best friends' with anymore, wanted instead to mix with lots of other girls (all innocent) This did get her down but is much better now as I intervened with school + girl's mum. No virtual love disappointments. No sexuality noticed, no contact at all with boys except school + would be very shy + self conscious. Skin normal, but recently a few small 'blisters' appearing on hands, almost healed themselves No vertigo, has scalp itch from dandruff. No hair fall, normal saliva, no choke sensation, no pain fingers, hands + feet normal temp. She does not sleep with hand above head, normal thirst, no headache/pains anywhere. No dry mouth, tongue not coated, normal colour, no dry or cracked lips. NOT vaccinated, only illness she had really ever was chick pox at age 2, mumps at age 7, catches nasal cold once a year. She was an IVF baby incidentally.When she was a young babe she got pulsatilla for usual childhood things.
Daughter 12.5 rys - description: Digestion-fine, no abdo cravings apart from loves sweets, chocolates, dislikes being alone in some situations (school yeard) but fine with security of own home, relatives etc. Hates potatoes, butter and milk, likes yogurts. Cannot bear to touch butter..Dislikes her teacher + feels too grown up for primary school (seems v. mature on her views like an adult) Was recently almost 'stalked' for months by a 'friend ' who she did not have the heart to tell to go away, not wanting to be 'best friends' with anymore, wanted instead to mix with lots of other girls (all innocent) This did get her down but is much better now as I intervened with school + girl's mum. No virtual love disappointments. No sexuality noticed, no contact at all with boys except school + would be very shy + self conscious. Skin normal, but recently a few small 'blisters' appearing on hands, almost healed themselves No vertigo, has scalp itch from dandruff. No hair fall, normal saliva, no choke sensation, no pain fingers, hands + feet normal temp. She does not sleep with hand above head, normal thirst, no headache/pains anywhere. No dry mouth, tongue not coated, normal colour, no dry or cracked lips. NOT vaccinated, only illness she had really ever was chick pox at age 2, mumps at age 7, catches nasal cold once a year. She was an IVF baby incidentally.When she was a young babe she got pulsatilla for usual childhood things.
busymum last decade
And one more thing, don't let her feel, that her Mom thinks 'the problem lies with the kido' ;;;
You need to support her in verbal, otherwise she would seek support from outside;;
When you give the medicine, tell her that it would help her physical conditions (periods etc.) ; don't point out any of mind symptoms to her ;
easy to say all this but I know how difficult to do, since I've done this;
You need to support her in verbal, otherwise she would seek support from outside;;
When you give the medicine, tell her that it would help her physical conditions (periods etc.) ; don't point out any of mind symptoms to her ;
easy to say all this but I know how difficult to do, since I've done this;
sorahamsha last decade
need to know exact menses characteristics-color ,clts,any associated pains or sensations--cravings during this..etc etc
when last mense occurred?date /ended?
make me clear on this--she hashad no other mediidines at all except what u mentioned above?
blisters on hand --explain more detail--exact location(s)--excat loom of them--when had last in halth history ?or the like?
give me run down of skin health histroy in detail--what things she used or using on skin?such that proactive stuff or anything else--lotion..etc etc
this a good one--what exact kind of chocolate she prefer?
when last mense occurred?date /ended?
make me clear on this--she hashad no other mediidines at all except what u mentioned above?
blisters on hand --explain more detail--exact location(s)--excat loom of them--when had last in halth history ?or the like?
give me run down of skin health histroy in detail--what things she used or using on skin?such that proactive stuff or anything else--lotion..etc etc
this a good one--what exact kind of chocolate she prefer?
♡ John Stanton last decade
Ok John, here goes.Menses still establishing I think so all over the place!!2nd Jan to 15th Jan, 28th Jan to 18th feb, 20th Feb to present . Often dark brown for first 5 days then fresh red. Small bits of tissue but no clots. Cramps on & off during 1st day/two. Craves chocolate (milk) + loves sweets but not sure if she craves them as we are so restrictive on them or genuine crave. Loves fries (chips) Actually blister is only on one finger, middle of finger bone, came from nowhere & then maybe one near nail, small & both a bit painful, so not sure of relevance of these, nearly gone now. She had quite mild excema as a baby, cured over 1.5 years & using only aquous cream.uses only natural deodarant so no other creams/lotions.
Had one dose of antibio's when 3 years for impetigo, no problems since.
Thanks,
busymum
Had one dose of antibio's when 3 years for impetigo, no problems since.
Thanks,
busymum
busymum last decade
ok mum--1 pellet calcarea carbonica 30c dissolved in 80ml of water in 4 oz amber glass medicinal storage bottle--once dissolve add 20ml of preserve quality alcohol (vodka ok)----
(1) succuss (thump/shake/strike firm against soft covered thick book{phone book))--8 times
(2) 1 teaspoon of this solution in 4 oz water in drinking glass--stir heavy--(3) 1 teaspon of this as a dose in morning 30-60 minutes before 1st eatings/drinkings
label botle calcarea carbonica C 0/30 and store proper (away from strong heat and electrical devices) until next dose (which will come from this botle)
repeat daily from steps (1) until (3) --be sure do exactly same as steps say for the dosing
YOU will discontinue any furher dosing--WHEN any NEW symptom occurs (never had in health history before); or strong aggravtion in ANY sense occur: or a strong betterment------we are lookig for gentle cure--percievable yet a pace that daughters vital force will adapt to --emotionally/mentally/physically---any deviation from that -STOP medicine---medicine is to be restarted once none of the above criterion ar in existence---keep in mind any new symptom not restart dosing--it is pointer to next remedy..and calc will have been only partial to case---
all clear ? please ask if not.
daughter ois to not use coffe/colas and such for a while-no soda pops-and cut citric acid foods/drinks out or reduce heavy--she is avoid anythijgthat causes aggravtion (foods/drinks/envirement/strong odors...blah blah balh)
and nothing on her skin -particualrly on skin ills(rashes/pimples..etc etc )
look for return (IN PASSING ONLY)of wrong treated ills with accompanying return of emotions/,enatl aspects/physical characteristics associated--there will an orderly ness if prescription is correct
keep close informed with updating
(1) succuss (thump/shake/strike firm against soft covered thick book{phone book))--8 times
(2) 1 teaspoon of this solution in 4 oz water in drinking glass--stir heavy--(3) 1 teaspon of this as a dose in morning 30-60 minutes before 1st eatings/drinkings
label botle calcarea carbonica C 0/30 and store proper (away from strong heat and electrical devices) until next dose (which will come from this botle)
repeat daily from steps (1) until (3) --be sure do exactly same as steps say for the dosing
YOU will discontinue any furher dosing--WHEN any NEW symptom occurs (never had in health history before); or strong aggravtion in ANY sense occur: or a strong betterment------we are lookig for gentle cure--percievable yet a pace that daughters vital force will adapt to --emotionally/mentally/physically---any deviation from that -STOP medicine---medicine is to be restarted once none of the above criterion ar in existence---keep in mind any new symptom not restart dosing--it is pointer to next remedy..and calc will have been only partial to case---
all clear ? please ask if not.
daughter ois to not use coffe/colas and such for a while-no soda pops-and cut citric acid foods/drinks out or reduce heavy--she is avoid anythijgthat causes aggravtion (foods/drinks/envirement/strong odors...blah blah balh)
and nothing on her skin -particualrly on skin ills(rashes/pimples..etc etc )
look for return (IN PASSING ONLY)of wrong treated ills with accompanying return of emotions/,enatl aspects/physical characteristics associated--there will an orderly ness if prescription is correct
keep close informed with updating
♡ John Stanton last decade
Many Thanks & sorry for the delay Dr John. I was away but will start remedy 1st thing tomorrow & will report back to you.
Busymum
Busymum
busymum last decade
i think your girl requires Pulsatilla 200 4 pills twice a day for 15 days and let me know after that
dr samir chaukkar
dr samir chaukkar
drsamirac last decade
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