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Dr. Sameer, help please.

Hello,

I am new to this forum. I am 21 year old male and I have realized I have several problems.

First, I feel like my voice is not strong enough and feels like it is stuck in my throat.

Second, when I do speak, I am unable to carry a conversation with anyone, even my family! I can only seem to think of short, predictable phrases. When I do try to talk, people dont seem to pay much attention to me and simply give me one word responses.

I also lack self confidence, whenever i am in a public setting I feel like everyone is constantly looking at me with a critical eye.

I am not a bad looking guy, just SLIGHTLY overweight at about 155lbs.

I have tried some hypnotherapy tapes for self confidence, but it only helped slightly and now the problem is back.

Please help me, this is driving me crazy, i cant have a normal life.
 
  neuro123 on 2009-01-25
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I have big problem of very small breast now I am married and husband wants to enhance this
but there is no solution I use silky pleasure and five phosphorous compound capsules but there is no result after 15th november to now 26th january...plz recomend me best and short duration solution....
 
meherafrooze last decade
'Everyone constantly looking at me' is a clue that suggests a Calcium compound (Calc-sil?).

Another possibility is Silica. The Silica patient feels like he needs to cover up an inner weakness and has to portray the right image.

These are just the first clues on the trail ... As Holmes used to say 'The game's afoot Dr. Whatson'.
 
anacardium last decade
Thank you very much anacardium.

Could you please help me narrow down my choices? I couldnt find much information on Calc-sil.

I do also feel like i have to cover up my weaknesses. I constantly feel like I need to watch the way that I walk, talk, and even sit.

It just feels like whatever im doing, im doing wrong. Like ive always been told that i dont walk up right or I have a weird voice.

Even though I have managed to fix many of these faults in myself, I feel like im still doing something wrong (even though I know I'm not)

Thank You!
 
neuro123 last decade
Hi neuro,

Please give more details about your fears, behavior with family , level of sociability, food cravings/aversions, any physical symptoms as well as temperature preferences.

Also, talk about since when did this problem begin.

Can you correlate any life event to the start of this problem ?

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer,

Well my parents raised me with love, but often with too much love.They pretty much made most of my decisions for me.

When I came in middle school, i always had a small group of maybe 2-3 friends.

People made fun of me in high school because I wasn't athletic enough or social enough. But at the time, I actually came to accept it and was still a pretty happy kid.

When I came in to college, I was playing with the webcam on my computer and recorded my self talking and I realized that I didn't like they way I was, so I became very quiet and concerned with what people thought of me. I pretty much began to fear people.

Right now it feels like I always need to watch how i walk (make sure im not slouching) and feels like everyone is watching me with a criticizing eye. Whenever I walk down a hallway and hear people laughing, my instinctual reaction is that they are making fun of me. (even though consciously i know im not)

I can sometimes force my self to be very confident, but i really have to try hard. I try to speak with a heavy bold voice, which ends up hurting my throat.

I cant seem to carry a conversation with people because Im always thinking about if im sitting right or using the right hand gestures and always thinking about what theyre thinking of me. I start speaking very fast and speak over myself. And I say a lot of 'uhhs'

I am actually a very smart guy and have always made very good grades in school. I also am very philosophical and can be very good at debating when I try.

On some days, the problem doesnt seem to exist at all, and on other days, the problem is about a 7 on a scale of 1-10.

I like normal weather but definitely prefer warm weather over cold. (My feet and hands get cold easily.)

Another problem I have, is I sleep way too much. I can sleep for 12-13 hours and when I wake up, I feel tired.
 
neuro123 last decade
When i'm having a conversation with someone i don't know, I don't know how to stand or where to put my hands or how much eye contact to maintain. All this nervousness puts me at a loss of words.

I also feel like my voice is stuck and isn't coming out as well as it should.

If you need any more information I would love to give it to you.

Thank You sir
 
neuro123 last decade
Also, I do have asthma (i think)

When i run, i start breathing way too fast and lungs start hurting.

I also just feel like I dont know my own personality yet. you can say 'I dont know how to act'

It feels like im always putting on an act and its not really me.

Keep in mind:

I CAN be sociable and confident at times, but subconsciously these thoughts keep running through my head (lack of concentration)
 
neuro123 last decade
SORRY for MULTIPLE posts,

2 days ago, i started taking Kalium Bichromicum for my voice (slightt improvement so far)

Also, I mastrubate quite often and have erection problems (small penis) when I am with my girlfriend.
 
neuro123 last decade
Stop Kali-Bi

I will analyze this and get back to you in a day or 2.
 
sameervermani last decade
Thank you, Dr. Sameer, I look forward to your advice.
 
smullick last decade
Any recommendations, Dr. Sameer?

Thank you!
 
neuro123 last decade
Please give information about your food cravings/aversions, any physical symptoms and your fears.
 
sameervermani last decade
food cravings: any Indian food rice, chicken. Pizza with mushrooms.

I don't like shrimp.

Physical: I just feel 'stiff' all the time in my back and shoulders.

I fear failure or giving off a bad image and people making fun of me.
 
neuro123 last decade
I sometimes feel disconnected from the world like I'm just observing it and not really a part of it. I have a strong desire for people to like me.

When I'm at a dinner or party with people, I feel confused and timid. I don't know where to 'look' or how to sit confidently. (always adjusting my position)

When I'm in my room by myself I or alone in the car I feel pretty confident. I also feel pretty confident if I'm talking on the phone with someone. When I'm in public is when I start feeling weird
 
neuro123 last decade
I also lack much facial expression. My smiles seem forced. I have a very 'serious' face.
 
neuro123 last decade
3 doses of Calcarea Carb 30c equally spaced for ONE single day only, to be taken as described below.

Dissolve 2 pellets of Calcarea Carb 30c in a 250 ml spring water bottle. If you leave the pellets in water for 30 mins, they will melt. You can turn the bottle upside down a few times for the pellets to spread after dissolving.

1 teaspoon from here using a disposable spoon is 1 dose.


Let me know in 7 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Thank You Dr. Sameer, I will go get Calcarea Carb in a couple days.

Do you want me to leave the pellets in the water for 30 mins fully?

Just wondering: why should i only take it one day?
 
neuro123 last decade
Because, homeopathic medicines are not pills. We just need to stimulate your body's healing powers and the rest will be done by your body.

I repeat, it is to be done for 1 day only.

You can leave for as much time as it takes for them to melt and dissolve.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer,

I went to purchase it, but the person selling it told me 200c should only be used in extremely severe cases. (like extreme depression)

He instead gave me 30c. How should I use this?

Thank you sir
 
neuro123 last decade
I never said 200c. Read above.
 
sameervermani last decade
okay, sorry I misread. I will take medicine today and report in 7 days.

Thank you so much
 
neuro123 last decade
Well its been about 6 days since i took my dosage; I have been feeling SLIGHTLY better.

I feel a little more confident when I speak and my mind isn't drifting off so much.

Some problems that remain are:

1. stiff body: my shoulders and upper back still feel stiff. i cant seem to walk or sit very relaxed. I also don't feel very balanced and am always having to make sure I am walking normally.

2. I still oversleep (12 hours+). I cant remember a time when I woke up feeling fresh and fulfilled. I wake up every morning tired and with back aches.

I look forward to hearing from you, Dr. Sameer.
 
neuro123 last decade
Wait for 1 more week without taking any doses.

Update me at that time.
 
sameervermani last decade
I know you said wait another week, but my symptoms have seen to come back.

It seems that its always a comment from someone else that triggers these feelings. Most recently was by my friend asking me why I was so stiff when i walk.

Since then, the constant thoughts in my head are:

'whats wrong with me?' 'why does my voice sound like this?' 'why do i fidget?' 'why does it take so much effort to talk?' 'Am I walking/sitting properly'

When I look in the mirror, I see nothing wrong; i see a decent looking guy. it feels like there is something others see about me or my personality that is weird?
 
neuro123 last decade
I look at other people that are more confident/ have better personalities than me and often envy them. Example: Movie stars, my older brother.

I think to myself: 'i wish my personality was like his.'

or

'I wish I was as confident as him'

or

'I wish I has his life'

Should I still wait another week Dr. Sameer?
 
neuro123 last decade

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