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Dr. Sameer I need your advice.

My son will be 7 years old next month he is still not potty trained. He is in first grade and doing well at school but kindergarden was another story. He is 65 pounds, 4 feet 2 inches. dark hair. he does not to tie his shoes lace or zipper his coat. His teacher says that he has a hard time staying fucus but he is working hard to improve. His teacher also says that he has a hard time listening and following directions. He is outstanding with mathematics. but his penmanship is not great and needs improvement. His eating habits at home are awful, he does not want to eat our food. He only wants fast foods. He loves to play with Lego and play games in the computer and video games. He is sick once a month mostly fever. At night he grinds his teeth. He does not like sleeping in the dark so we have a night light on all the time. He will be seven real soon and I am trying to train him to use the toilet but he does not want to at the moment. He is our only child. he always complains that kids at school do not like him and do not want to play with him. My biggest problem is I can not get him to get our home cook food and that he is not potty trained. Can you please help!
 
  casaotto on 2009-01-24
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Can you please tell me more about his level of affection.

How sensitive is he ?

Does he get angry, if so when ?

What are his main fears ?

Tell me more about his food cravings and aversions.

Any other physical or mental symptoms you might have noticed ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer, thank you for getting back to me.

Can you please tell me more about his level of affection.

How sensitive is he ?

He is very senitive, gets upset when kids do not play with him. He does handle rejection very well. He likes to be in control of the game or situation. He is very close to me than my wife because I spend all my free time playing with him. He often ask me why does he not have a brother to play with. He have a small dog but he does not play with the dog.

Does he get angry, if so when ?

He get angry when he really wants a certain toy that he really wants but I tell him we can not get that toy. He also get angry when when you try to give him home cooked food that hates. He will not eat the food and get very upset.

What are his main fears ?

He does not like dark room when sleeping, he fears being rejected by other boys at school and in the playground.

Tell me more about his food cravings and aversions.

He love McDonalds: Fries, coke, chicken nuggets. He love KFC: fried chicken. He also love Boston Market: Broiled chicken and corn. He like potatoe chips. We do not fry anything at home. At home he likes carrots, cherries, raspberries, strawberries, onions, corn on the cob, and organge Juice. He smell all the food he make at home first then decided he does not like it.

Any other physical or mental symptoms you might have noticed ?

He is tall for his age, a little over weight from the fast food. He is lazy when it come to doing homework. Sometimes he is lazy when putting on his clothes, Sometimes he uses one hand to put on his shoes and I have to tell him that it is better to use two hands. He is bright thinker but hates school. He gets sick once a month.
 
casaotto last decade
How affectionate is he ?

How sympathetic is he to other people's problems ?

Does he tend to be selfish ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer thanks again.

How affectionate is he ?

He is very affectionated and kind to everyone.

How sympathetic is he to other people's problems ?

He looks out for other kids safety and help other kids if they need help.

Does he tend to be selfish ?

He like to share his toys and his food so he is not at all selfish.
 
casaotto last decade
Does he have any creative hobbies ?

Is he very sensitive to reprimand ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Does he have any creative hobbies ?

He love to build his own lego: cars, trucks, and building. He like to design little cities with wooden blocks. He grows tired of his new lego or hot wheels toys over night but wants a new different one the next day.

Is he very sensitive to reprimand ?

Yes he is very sensitive to reprimand. He will scream and slam the door shut real hard. He might throw things on the floor or flip a chair on the floor.
 
casaotto last decade
Okay, then here is the prescription.

3 doses of Lycopodium 30c equally spaced by 30 minutes for ONE single day only, to be taken as described below.

Dissolve 2 pellets of Lycopodium 30c in a 250 ml spring water bottle. If you leave the pellets in water for 30 mins, they will melt. You can turn the bottle upside down a few times for the pellets to spread after dissolving.

1 teaspoon from here using a disposable spoon is 1 dose.


Let me know in 7 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
 
sameervermani last decade
Thank you very much Dr. Sameer, I will buy Lycopodium 30c. One question, should I wait until his fever passes and infection. On Thursday he was crying because his right ear was very hot. I took him to our local child doctor that same day. The doctor told me to give him 1 TSP twice a day of Amoxicillin 400/5ml for some infection but the doctor never told me what kind of infection. The only thing the doctor told me was that his ears and mouth were a little red. The doctor also told me to give him 1 TSP of Children Advil for the fever. He has been out of school since this Thursday because of the fever and coughing. Fever he gets at night and the coughing he gets day and night. Today he is feeling a bit better with no fever this morning but he still has coughing.

Thanks you so much.
 
casaotto last decade
You can wait for a few days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer is the Lycopodium 30c for my son Jay just for 1 day only. I have the Boiron Lycopodium 30c so can I start giving him the treatment today or do I really have to wait.
 
casaotto last decade
Yes, it is to be given for 1 day only.

You might want to wait for the acute episode to get over.
 
sameervermani last decade
Re: Dr. Sameer I need your advice. From sameervermani [Log on to view profile] on 2009-01-25
Okay, then here is the prescription.

3 doses of Lycopodium 30c equally spaced by 30 minutes for ONE single day only, to be taken as described below.

Dissolve 2 pellets of Lycopodium 30c in a 250 ml spring water bottle. If you leave the pellets in water for 30 mins, they will melt. You can turn the bottle upside down a few times for the pellets to spread after dissolving.

1 teaspoon from here using a disposable spoon is 1 dose.


Let me know in 7 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.
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Dr. Sameer, Hope you are doing well. First let me thank you for your kind help.

I started Jay's prescription on Wednesday, Jan. 28, 2009.
at 3:oopm. At 6:30pm, Jay feel asleep and did not wake up until 8:00am the next morning.
I am not sure what to look for because this is his and mine our first time with homeapathy prescription. All I can say is that he still does not want to eat our home cooked food and the rest of the things I have mention in the past.

A few days ago I took him to an indoor playground and watched him for any change. He was shy and did not make any efford in playing or meeting with the other kids. He waited by himself for half hour until a child came along and invited him to play.

Thanks
 
casaotto last decade
Okay, then here is the prescription.

3 doses of Lycopodium 30c equally spaced by 30 minutes for ONE single day only, to be taken as described below.

Dr. Sameer, Hope you are doing well. First let me thank you for your kind help.

I started Jay's prescription on Wednesday, Jan. 28, 2009.
at 3:oopm. At 6:30pm, Jay feel asleep and did not wake up until 8:00am the next morning.
I am not sure what to look for because this is his and mine our first time with homeapathy prescription. All I can say is that he still does not want to eat our home cooked food and the rest of the things I have mention in the past.

A few days ago I took him to an indoor playground and watched him for any change. He was shy and did not make any efford in playing or meeting with the other kids. He waited by himself for half hour until a child came along and invited him to play.
 
casaotto last decade
Please wait for a day or so.
 
sameervermani last decade
Please give him 3 doses of SULPHUR 30c in the exact same manner, and report in 10 days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer, I wanted to mention that Jay is sleeping better these days, he no longer grinds his teeth at night and does not move around the bed the way he used to. He is sleeping a lot better. I also notices that he is much calmer and a bit more understanding. I have not seen him get very angry lately. But he still hate the sun light, Jay tells me that the sun hurts ear when he in the car with me. So I have to give him something to cover his ear.
He is still afraid of going to sleep with the lights off.

Thanks
 
casaotto last decade
Okay, then please wait, DO NOT GIVE him Sulphur.

Just keep waiting, and update me in 1 more week.

Calmness and better sleep point to Lycopodium being the correct remedy
 
sameervermani last decade
Re: Dr. Sameer I need your advice. From sameervermani on 2009-02-08
Okay, then please wait, DO NOT GIVE him Sulphur.

Just keep waiting, and update me in 1 more week.

Calmness and better sleep point to Lycopodium being the correct remedy

Dr. Sameer, the week has passed.
Jay still does not want to learn to clean himself after using the toilet. Everything is normal when using the toilet but he always call us to the bathroonm to clean him. he is now 7 years old. Did I mention he is not shy around adults but he is shy around other children. He feels he needs a toy in hand to make friends. He always feel better when he has a small toy in his hand and goes to the play area to show other children the toy so they could play with him. I asked him why other kids do not want to play with him, he alwasy tells me that other kids do not like him.
As he eating, it is getting a little better.

Thank you Dr. Sammer, and I hope all is well with you.
 
casaotto last decade
Okay, things are improving although ever so slowly, but we must wait.

Please procure Lycopodium 200c, and keep it handy. DO NO give it right now. Update me in 6 days from now.
 
sameervermani last decade
Re: Dr. Sameer I need your advice. From sameervermani on 2009-02-15
Okay, things are improving although ever so slowly, but we must wait.

Please procure Lycopodium 200c, and keep it handy. DO NO give it right now. Update me in 6 days from now.

Dr. Sameer, I hope you are doing well these days.
My son made 'Student Of The Month' in May. I did not give him the Lycopodium 200c. I just waited and waited like you said. He is doing much better in school.

I would like to thank you for your help. You are a good person and God Bless You, Sir!
 
casaotto last decade
Congratulations !

Good to hear that the remedy gave him long lasting improvements.

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Dr. Sameer, We are having problems with my son again, he still refuses to eat home cooked meals. All he wants is junk food to eat. His second grade teacher says, he need extra work with reading writing and speech.

thanks again
 
casaotto last decade
Hi casaotto,

You can give him the Lycopodium 200c dose now.

Dissolve 2 pellets in 250 ml spring water, give a teaspoon JUST ONCE.

Report in 2 weeks.
 
sameervermani last decade

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