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Senselessness of Sickness

The sense of senselessness

All life is movement towards the future. When a person doesn’t know how to live, he will stop on his way. As long as mankind was moving rapidly on the road towards greater material wealth, it was still possible to push forward by force, sweeping all the obstacles aside. A stronger man perfected his physical stamina while the sensitive type was less successful in this race. But times change.

Life is going through a time of transition. It is felt more with each day and by more people. The fear of the unknown divides mankind into two camps: those seeing spirituality as an answer and those who destroy themselves. But before they meet their destruction, there will be a lot of weeping for the good old times and cursing the new.

You whine about little things. Over important things, you get mad. Eventually, quiet whining will grow into a loud roar.

When a woman is whining, small things get stuck.

When a man is whining all life will come to a halt.

In times like today, a whining man is in mortal danger – in the first place, to himself, to say nothing about his children. The father is the spirit of his children. Whining will always lead to a feeling of senselessness. When somebody with incorrect thinking comes by an impediment, he will start to whine – either in thoughts or in words – looking for someone to blame, giving up and giving in. There is no end to it. If in the beginning of the century such a state of mind was unusual in a man, then now it has grown alarmingly common. This feeling of senselessness, apathy and depression has been given an eloquent name:

The burn out syndrome.

Burn-out is the anger for not having achieved one’s goals, an anger for things not being the way one wants them that destroys the soul. It is a feeling of giving up on everything.

It is particularly depressing to see young children suffering from this syndrome – little children who, without having seen the beauty of life, are living only to die. But this too is their free choice. Whoever chose this time of crisis to be born to must have needed a critical lesson? The child picked out the parents who could provide it.

If you feel senselessness creeping close then you should know that you have to find the sense in this senselessness.

Every situation can teach but extreme situations teach in a particularly efficient manner. Senseless, at the first glance, seems to be a feeling of total nothingness. Dear reader, you couldn’t be more mistaken.

Senselessness has come to teach you that behind the seeming void, the feeling of no escape, the most valuable thoughts are concealed.

Senselessness gives you the chance to open up the greatest opportunity of your lifetime.

Each whole has two sides to it. the negative side of this particular whole is senselessness. You call it senselessness in the common sense of the word. It is keeping you behind a closed curtain while you are even not aware that the curtains can be drawn aside. You don’t know that behind the curtains, the field of your life’s greatest opportunity is waiting for you.

You will find this field when you forgive the feeling of senselessness for having come to you. Ask its forgiveness for, in your inability to think, you have grown it so big that it is threatening to destroy you. You have not realized that it has sought you out, to introduce you to the most important reason why you live.

Senselessness is the most complicated of all stresses. It won’t start communicating with you right away, it won’t answer back by a storm of emotion like other stresses do. It keeps silence – it is senselessness. Ask its forgiveness with all the passion you can muster and you’ll find the deepest sense of your senselessness. The feeling behind senselessness is in reality your discontent born from your guilt. It is just that in your self-humiliation, you have failed to recognize it, its true being.

When you are done forgiving your feeling of senselessness, your indifference will be replaced by a joy of moving, doing and being. You will feel needed. You will feel an eagerness that doesn’t make you run around in circles like you used to before. Instead, it will enable you to start using your rational mind. You feel that you make a difference, first of all, in the general sense of the word – that is, to yourself – and through yourself to everybody and everything else. You may feel the limits of your body dissolving – you are merging with ALL THAT IS, this is very special feeling, a feeling of becoming great and dignified. It is the joy of Pure Being.

Forgive yourself for having taken the feeling of senselessness in you. Ask your body to forgive you for having caused yourself to burn out. You had gathered the feeling of senselessness in you that threatens the physical body with untimely death before the lessons of life have been learned. Ask your body to forgive you for not having realized that as long as a body is alive and breathing, someone still loves you. Find the one who loves you – he is there.

Dear reader, you haven’t understood that the body can’t exist when there is no love. You do have a body, don’t you, so you figure the rest of it out by yourself. Your intellect – your tormentor – makes your body sick and keeps you away from love so that you cannot transform negativity into positivity.

Intellect is making mankind ill. Intellect, like everything else, has two sides to it: the spiritual side and the physical. When those two are in balance, the result is sensibility, reason, wisdom of life. Materialism cultivated the physical intellect to the maximum, trying to deny the spiritual side of it. the result was senselessness. It is senseless to live among riches and die of senselessness.

A beggar, thin as bones, is walking down the street, asking for alms and casting hateful glances towards the luxurious villa’s he passes. He has no business stepping through these gates. At the same time the fat and rich owner of the house happens to step out of the gate. He looks at the beggar with his eyes full of hatred. He envies him for his freedom – he certainly doesn’t have to lose any sleep, worrying about his wealth. Both of them – the beggar as well as the rich man – have failed to notice the hidden values behind the seemingly negative situation. They both have learned nothing from life. Neither of them has looked for the reason of their life – they have only searched for wealth. The beggar has it easier. He only has to release himself of his stresses. The rich man has a more difficult task in front of him. He has to free himself from the bondage of his wealth and to do the right way.

When taken from the point of view of the Universe, life without spirit is senselessness, stagnation and a destruction of the physical level. And yet – life can never stand still as every death is followed by a new birth.

Whoever understands the nature of mankind’s present crisis will survive. He will go into the future, knowing that the greatest of evil will always be followed by the greatest of good. This is the divine law of life, whoever can’t release his senselessness, will enter the new galaxy through the gates of death. Human body is mortal but it is up to everybody in person to avoid his untimely departure.

Whoever will find the sense of senselessness will not be threatened by physical death for a long time. Life in the new galaxy will be considerable longer. So you see – it pays to make an effort and correct your thinking.

If you think that in case human suffering under the new conditions has to be much harder too, you are very much mistaken. Physical suffering will not be part of this level as, thanks to the new growth of our reason, our physical body will become easily guided by thought. We will be able to voluntarily change matter by our thoughts.

But to reach this far, we have to use whatever means are at our disposal at the present moment to gather wisdom.

Senseless and crazy anger

We have talked about anger a lot – how it grows and how it destroys. But there are still many people who need anger explained to them in more detail.

A person living under the role of fear, considering himself bad to the bone, who is sure that there are enormous amounts of anger in him but who, in reality, is so scared that he doesn’t even dare to get angry, is confused. So is somebody else who hates all cowardice including his own, not realizing that this is anger too. All he wants is to teach himself and everybody else to be brave.

“I don’t hate anybody – they hate me,” somebody constantly meddling with the lives of others says. He interferes by action, by word and by thought. He doesn’t understand that in this sentence there is accusation, which is anger as well as malice, which is multiple anger. He may deny it but this will change nothing.

The cause and effect of life is love. When a person has a fear of not being loved, the flow of love energy is kept behind a barrier. Without love, all life will cease. As fear grows, failures grow with it as the person keeps attracting them with his fear. For life to continue, the sufferer starts to fight to get over the obstruction. Fighting is always anger. He attempts to break down the wall of fear but it only grows thicker. You can’t break down fear by violence. And so anger will grow in him.

Despite your definition of love, anger is the subconscious reaction to the lack of it.

Anger always has its roots in the fear of not being loved. A lot of people deny their fear because:

- 1. They have been pampered by their parents since childhood and later on – by their partner. This kind of a person has hidden his stresses under excessive and visible positivity. He doesn’t understand what he is seeking for in life, what he needs, why his thinking is so muddled, why his head hurts. He is used to everything being done for him. He doesn’t understand that if a person has no need to exert himself then his spirit is not moving on. This causes him a feeling of insecurity towards the future. Only those who achieve by their own strength can feel confident about the future. This goes for men and women both. A woman who loves her husband (partner) will never be left alone in the world.
- 2. They are so frightened to admit their fear that, rather than acknowledge it, they prefer to suffer. Such a fear is more common in men. The dependence of men’s life on women has made men overly touchy about everything concerning their wives. They can’t even make themselves listen to the most general kind of talk on that topic – they are so afraid that someone will attempt to tear down their wives honor. Their fears have, long ago, grown into a state of constant irritation that they still refuse to call anger. In their middle years, they become ardent defenders of the weaker sex and nobody would better try to change their self-image. They don’t realize that thinking that way, they are attracting precisely the things they fear.
- 3. Their fear of not being loved has long ago grown into anger and buried their real feelings under it. The fear of not being loved may have been so overwhelming already in the individual’s mother and father that, under the cover of indifference, it has grown into a denial of love. “What do I need love for – I only want to be left at peace. The main thing is that I do my job well and others have respect for me,” people like that declare with pride. They have chosen a similar husband or wife and their sad and dull lives drag on, day after day, towards death. They never admit to themselves that their body is still alive and has desires.

It is extremely difficult to open up the inner being of such a person. All his life, he has been earning love. He has done so much good that everybody just has to love him for that. Even his spouse loves him as he has done her so much good that she cannot deny him her love. People like that don’t understand that love is not work.

Love is the power that can be used to work with. Work is a method of learning.

Love is all, love is God, work is just work.

Such a person will not be rid of his troubles until the day he will start thinking. But this is the one thing this good man (or woman) doesn’t agree with. Someone else has to do the job for him. And for some strange reason, it has to be somebody he has never done any good in his life to. Myself, for example,

A person like that may seem perfectly well-balanced on the outside but if you have to live side by side with him, you’ll feel a deep exhaustion. In all his goodness, he will direct, guide and determine the lives of others, robbing them of their right to be themselves. The overly protective husband and wife who can’t stop fussing over one another make a sweet picture if you look at it from the distance but having to stay in their company, a normally active person will be ready to climb the walls with frustration within a few short hours. People like that exhaust themselves and do the same to others as a person giving up his or her sexual role for whatever reason – even a noble one – will have to suffer.

You have to realize that in life, everything has two sides to it – even love.

Blind, ape-like devotion is destruction by love. Too much sun will burn you, excessive care will exhaust you and too much attention will tire you. Too much knowledge will turn into stupidity. Only something a man need’s, something serving a purpose and having an aim, is experienced as pleasant. Trying too hard is tiring and only drives other people away from you.

Only someone who is capable of thinking is in charge of his life – not someone who has graduated from university with the highest honors and who never lets himself or others forget about it. A scientist or a businessman, who doesn’t realize that the material side of life is just a facet of spiritual life, can spend long years pushing against the wind. He sees himself as a man of integrity and principle but sooner or later a time will come when his legs will refuse to carry him where his materialist brain would like to go. The road is the right one but the means are wrong – who tries to fight difficulties of life with anger, will just lose his physical body. Such a person cannot be helped – neither by drugs nor a surgeon’s scalpel. Everything in life has to be done in the correct way, including overcoming difficulties.

Simple and complicated anger

Once again, let us repeat the effects of the three main stresses:

-the fear of not being loved will down the ability to think rationally, making the individual interpret everything to the exact opposite to the actual situation;
-feelings of guilt make one weak and release an avalanche of other stresses;
-fear will attract negativity;
-anger will destroy.

These three stresses are shared by all people. There is not a single human being alive who wouldn’t have them. There are no people who are all bad or all good on this Earth. A perfect human being is balanced, both on the outside and in the inside. People, who are extremely positive on the outside, have hidden their negativity inside as they yearn for perfection.

What is anger?
Anger is a negative emotion that destroys.
Anger has 5 symptoms that make it easy to recognize:
1. pain
2. fever
3. redness
4. enlargement
5. destruction.
In medicine, these are known as the classic symptoms of inflammation. When all of them appear together, the body is signaling its owner that fire has broken loose and immediate action has to be taken. Fire is far more dangerous than any thief. If you fail to put it out, you may lose something essential for ever.

These symptoms may appear one at the time, in groups or all at once.

The sicknesses of the children always mirror the innerlife of their parents. When grown-ups attract more of their own specific stresses, then the disease of small children are, without exception, caused by the stresses of their parents.

PAIN
Pain is like a guard, sounding the alarm.
The nature of the pain characterizes the anger causing it:

Sharp pain - Sharp anger.Someone made you angry recently.
Numb pain - numb anger. A feeling of helplessness for showing anger.
Driving pain - driving anger. You would love to take revenge but can’t.
Chronic pain – chronic anger.The awakening or subsiding of which indicates the fall and rise of anger.
Sudden pain - sudden anger.
Etc.

With the help of the table of fears, you can localize and classify your pain with even more precision.

For instance;
Headache - an anger of not being loved, that nobody cares.
An anger for Everything not being the way I want.
Stomach-ache – an anger connected with ruling – oneself or others. This is region of guilt. Accusation is anger.
Aching feet- an anger connected to working, earning or spending money,
in a word – economic problems.
Aches and
Pains all over
The body - an anger towards everything in life, not the way I would like it.

FEVER
An increase of temperature shows that the body is helping its owner by trying to process, that is, to burn up the entire person’s negativity that he, in his ignorance, had accumulated in himself.

High fever - rage.
Chronic fever- old and long lasting anger
(NB! Don’t forget your parents!)
Septic fever - a particularly malicious anger that the body, in order to survive, is not able to burn up all at once. As a rule, a human being can’t take a much higher temperature than 41 degrees Celsius – he will die.

When a person has caught a cold and by this, and made his situation worse, then the cold was the last drop in his cup of suffering. If the cause for catching a cold would just be cold weather then everybody would be sick all the time.

The health of somebody who knows to appreciate cold weather will only grow stronger thanks to it. Who only notices unpleasantness of cold weather has to freeze so that he could go on hating frost.

REDNESS
Redness indicates that anger has accumulated to the point where it is ready to burst out. The blood-vessels at the infected place have dilated to help the body. We only notice redness when it is on the outside but congestion of blood also appears inside the body in every place where anger is gathering, until a blood vessel will break down.

A person screaming with anger turns red in the face. Unable to release his anger by normal means, he is pouring it out on another person. If the other could do nothing to prevent his outburst then his lesson shall be, “Release your anger for angry screaming” if you are not afraid of angry people and have no hate for them, you will not be hurt by their screaming and abuse.

Just look at a person forced to listen to someone’s angry yelling and letting himself be touched by it. He is as red in the face as the other. For him, the situation is more dangerous. The person who has to listen to someone else’s screaming cannot release his anger by letting out his steam. Instead, he gathers it inside, destroying himself with it. While the angry abuser lets the reason of his anger to be known and doing it, released his stress, then the other is just suffering quietly, gathering it all inside.

Hopefully, this clears the point of inflamed redness. In addition, skin diseases of all kind have a red rash as a symptom. Wounds that heal poorly are also red.

Learning the laws of life will help us to be healthy and happy.
regards
Dr.Beek
 
  Alexthink on 2007-05-09
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Dear Antra,
thanks for your mail.

Everything has two sides to it – including thought. A feeling of guilt serves its purpose as long as it plays the role of the conscience, making life move on. Fear is good as long as it makes a human being move in order to survive. Anger is a good thing as long as it becomes strength, needed to protect life. These are the so-called positive stresses.

Think about it, I'm sure you will find the answer(s)

regards
Dr.Beek
 
Alexthink last decade
Dear Antra,

many thanks, I will read it as soon I'm back.
regards
Dr.Beek
 
Alexthink last decade
Hello Antra,
It is of course another question but it shows the connection!
Please be patient, after rain will come sun shine.
 
Alexthink last decade

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